What pissed you off today? Mark II

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After the big race I was invited to a dinner, I was just going to show up with my husband at his fathers home because it was outside. His brother was going to be there as well as his sister. I thought it was a family thing. There was a developing problem for race day, The weather report is for rain after the race. My father in law tried to get a outside shelter but everything is already booked so he asked if he could use our covered porch and grill, said we wont have to transport a grill that way any how. I said of course. Then told my husband. He said it was ok.
Then his father called back and said we had to figure out how to get my husband out of the house for 6 or 7 hours that afternoon, I asked why. He said he is not invited, I said I already told him.
You are actually making plans with our father in law to host a family function at your house and excluding your husband?
If my husband and father did that to me, I'd consider myself divorced and orphaned I think.

All I heard was a click, 45 minutes later his mother and father pulled in, his mother asked what the emergency was. as his father roared through the door. He told my husband that he had to be somewhere else race day after noon. My husband was a little confused. said aren't you coming over to a dinner on the porch. His father said yes but you are not invited, after last year you need to learn what those words mean.
My husband started laughing, said my house, my food , my grill I am staying.
At that point his mother told me we were going into the other room,[/My cat only did it to me and in the middle of the night. My cat seemed to find it ...humorous... to punk me, by flexing it's claws and get me to jump out of bed screaming from a blissful night of slumber.

Your mother in law tells you to leave with her when there is a conflict concerning your family and your house?:confused:
 
I have written how last year my husband caught me with an old BF and how insane things became.

Things have just started to smooth over my husband starting to gain weight after a hard winter of chemo, radiation and bone Marrow transplant.

Then his father starts a war with him, this morning. After the big race I was invited to a dinner, I was just going to show up with my husband at his fathers home because it was outside. His brother was going to be there as well as his sister. I thought it was a family thing. There was a developing problem for race day, The weather report is for rain after the race.

My father in law tried to get a outside shelter but everything is already booked so he asked if he could use our covered porch and grill, said we wont have to transport a grill that way any how. I said of course. Then told my husband. He said it was ok.

Then his father called back and said we had to figure out how to get my husband out of the house for 6 or 7 hours that afternoon, I asked why. He said he is not invited, I said I already told him. All I heard was a click, 45 minutes later his mother and father pulled in, his mother asked what the emergency was. as his father roared through the door.

He told my husband that he had to be somewhere else race day after noon. My husband was a little confused. said aren't you coming over to a dinner on the porch. His father said yes but you are not invited, after last year you need to learn what those words mean.

My husband started laughing, said my house, my food , my grill I am staying.

At that point his mother told me we were going into the other room, his father said you are acting like a child, its my ball if I don't get to play neither do you, Is that the actions of a man, my husband was a little mean, he said and you call your actions manly, his father said I have guests coming that would rather they did not have you here. My husband said I really don't care what they want. For that matter I don't care what you want.

His father was in the phone book looking for the number for his psyce counselor my husband picked the phone up and dialed the number and handed it to his dad. His father explained the problem he was having with my husband and how one of the guests got hurt last year by my husband when he threw him over the rail of the porch face first into the drive. and how the man was coming and did not want my husband around.

She told him that there was nothing she could really do, its your sons home,


My father in law said he is being obstinate about not being there cant you put him back in the center, She said no, he got just the exact same answer from the metro police and sheriffs office. Recommend Beer or other stronger drinks not be served.

My husband said me and my wife will be right here, his mother walked out with me in tow, asked what was going to happen. His father said my jerk son does not know when he is not wanted around. My husband said ok I will lock up the house and we will go to dinner and a movie, this next part was a shock to both me and my mother in law, what don you mean we, my husband said me and my wife, my father in law said your wife is invited, you are not. My husband just smiled and said that was not going to happen, husbands mother said after what happened last year you want to press things again.

His father said that's the only way he will learn what it is to be a man, my husband spoke up, well this man says have fun eating in your house or the rain. Because my wife will be with me all day. My porch will have me on it, And there will be a sign placed saying only my brother and sister are welcome he said if you want to come to mom you are welcome . Because anyone else remains in the street.

Does any one here think my husband is being petty and childish, he wont agree to any vote here but I hope to show how many think he is outside the bounds of civility?

His mother is very happy my husband is sticking to his guns, I am just scared again.
First of all, not knowing anything but what you've told us in this wall o' text, it's my considered opinion that your husband, your father-in-law, your mother-in-law, and YOU all need extensive counseling, at first separately, and maybe later together, if your counselor feels that would be productive.

Second, your f-i-l is an absolute asshat. "Can we use your house?" "Sure." "Oh, but we don't want YOU there."

Not a chance in this world. Your husband is absolutely right in this case, except he's an idiot for not cutting his father completely out of his life until he - dad - grows up.

As for you - the wife who cheated on him, his supposed life partner, the one who is supposed to "cleave unto him above all others," to take his asshat father's side in this, especially after "a hard winter of chemo, radiation and bone Marrow transplant," - were I your husband, you'd have been getting into his dad's car and leaving when his parents did.

But then, *my* significant other has spent the last year and a half driving me on 400+ mile bi-monthly round trips to get chemo and/or radiation, MRIs and other doctor appointments, and worn herself the hell OUT taking care of me, all the while working at her 40-hour-a-week job that requires a massive knowledge base and continual updating of that knowledge.

It seems to me you're probably 20-22 years old and husband 2-3 years older, and you got married before either of you was ready to let go the teat. I seldom suggest *anyone* give up on a relationship to which they've committed, but in this case, I would recommend that your husband kick your ass to the curb.
 
Another break-in at work, probably by the same group of people as before. Yet again they will get a slap on the wrist and be out in months, if that long. Meanwhile I am stuck in a job where being in IT means they get access to all of my knowledge, experience and skills but being female means I get none of the power to make any decisions.

Fuck you.
 
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jesus fuck, I just had the most depressing converation with my bestie who is a trans woman. She doesn’t approve of the bathroom lists of rapists, because some guy could be unjustly accused. She told me about a guy who was unjustly accused and his vindictive ex wife had nothing happen to her. This proves that bathroom lists are a kangaroo court and women who get caught writing lists must be prosecuted.

I left her car and came back into my house and I want to weep.

I sent her a link to this huffpost article;
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/soraya-chemaly/50-facts-rape_b_2019338.html and told her that it will give her an idea of some of the talking points, at least, and she can do her own research from there.

This woman is six feet tall and big all over. She has never in her life been intimidated by a man twice her size. She works in aerospace, in one of the most progressive companies in America, and has almost never experienced even transphobia much less sexual harassment. And she rarely talks to anyone, much less mainstream women, who are often the ones most victimised.

In light of her authoritative tone of voice and her total disrespect for my lived experience, I am so afraid that she will refuse to investigate the subject.

That will end our friendship. I’m not real good at compartmentalizing.

edit: She doesn't have to agree with me, i want to make that clear. I just don't want her to explain something she knows nothing about.
 
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Why the HELL doesn't Candy Crush have an "Undo" button?
PS - I KNOW this game is programmed to cheat!! :mad:
I can't possibly be that bad at a game that requires no skill...
 
Hmmm. A toss up between the dentist (just on principle) and people who don't wipe down equipment at the gym (just gross).

Shooting the latter might improve the gene pool. :mad:
 
Discovering once again, that I am too born of privilege to have a valid opinion about anything.
 
Discovering once again, that I am too born of privilege to have a valid opinion about anything.

Some people sound like only the literal slave from 3rd world have any right to opinion. But if any such would by some chance get hold of the internet and post the said opinion, they would dismiss them as irrelevant and ignorant.
You cant "win" some discussions. Dont let it bother you.
 
I've never felt so angry and sick in my life!!!:mad:

This is disgusting!

I thought it was like comedy show at first then I was speechless for good 10 minutes and now I feel my IQ dropped good 100 points.
And I thought I saw everything in 15 years online :rolleyes:
 
IBS
Biggots
People who think that the only way to get you to see their point of view is by belittling and bullying.

Oh and cancer
 
As I said, that's the scary part.

Way down on the page in the spoiler alert:
http://www.landoverbaptist.org/tos.html

It's still sick even if it is a parody site. The worst part is, this is a lot like other sites and forums that are not parody sites. I've found countless places were people have similar comments and they're not joking.

The fact that this is even a joke is scary.:(
 
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