What makes a woman sexy?

[Cairo]

Gentlemen (and ladies especially), I would love to hear your opinions on this one. What is it about a person that makes you stop and look again? To me, "sexy" is closely linked with self confidence-- I'm a guy, and if a woman is satisfied and happy with herself, turning on someone else is a snap! What do you think? Is it looks, clothes, that certain smile, associated "danger" in the liason (i.e. incest) or what? I look forward to your comments.

[This message has been edited by Cairo (edited 10-30-1999).]

 

[XXplorher]

Yup.

Sexy is: Feeling and believing that she is. Sometimes even unattractive women can appear sexy. It’s a mentality.

 

[Unclebill]

For me, partially, it's physical attractiveness. I'm not turned on by a large (BBW type) woman. A little Rubenesque is about the limit of body type to which I respond. Beyond that, it's about 90% attitude. By that I mean confident (not egocentric), poised, competent, smart, honest, direct and articulate. I find attractive and sexy a woman who can dress to accentuate her feminity and sensuality without looking like a slut.

P. S. And may I never age to the point I'm not stimulated by the sight of the bare female form! And never forget: the largest, most potent sex organ the human being possesses is between the ears, not the legs!

[This message has been edited by unclebill (edited 11-03-1999).]

 

[Cairo]

Thanks, guys.

I agree wholeheartedly. I personally find big girls attractive, but if a woman carries herself well and exudes that confident, positive demeanor, I tend to blink and think again for just about anyone.. And a loud 'Amen' goes to unclebill for that comment about looking sexy without looking like a walking advertisement for "Pimp Inc."

Anyone else? My ears are open...

[This message has been edited by Cairo (edited 10-31-1999).]

 

[Hullo_nurse]

It is soooooo good to see that some of you think that BBW can be sexy!!

 

[Cairo]

Hullo_nurse, let me know if you got my message...

 

[Hullo_nurse]

Yup!! And I wrote you back, Cairo! Did you get my message?

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[R164(m)]

Yes, even with women that would not be defined by our culture as "beautiful"..THERE is a quality of sensuality, of sensual presence...that attracts one's attention...one's need for a deeper experience than what physical (often superficial) attraction provides.....there is a soulful connection....a scent....a glance of the eye.....the way she raises her lips to yours.......oh yeah

 

[Guest]

The only girl I have ever loved was Korean - and she had no body at all! Very lean: legs, no butt, a wonderbra would have done her no good at all! She had, for me, a beautiful face, and because she was such a wonderful person: smile, demeanor, bright, I found myself noticing her skin, her eyes, her fingers, even her good taste in clothes. She even taught sunday school! If she were alive today, she'd kill me for going near this site and writing for it, too!
We're not all men behaving badly!

 

[Cairo]

Amen, folks...

Devil's Advocate, you are absolutely right about not ALL of us being about the same thing. When I asked the question, I was hoping to find a general trend among what each guy likes, but now what I thought to be true about us has been confirmed: for every female variation from the norm, there really IS someone out there to respond to that variation. Why doesn't the Internet represent more variation? An awful lot of sites out there focus on one type of woman: tall, blue eyed, blonde, and skinny. I challenge every writer out there to incorporate not what you think the audience wants, but what you know YOU want. In this genre, I think the writer's personal involvement in his/her story is key to good delivery. Why write to a formula when original is so much better?

P.S.== Hullo_nurse, have I scared you away? I don't bite.. (not much, anyway)

 

[Guest]

Cairo
What makes a woman sexy to me is how she carries herself, a self confident woman is much sexier than a lady that isn't sure of herself or is timid and mousy. I am turned on by a lot of different types of women but BBW's have a real special place in my heart. Redheads are another turn on and if youre a Red Headed BBW watch out.....


Arkane

 

[Friday]

Confidence yeS,

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[Rodrigo]

Sexy is how a woman looks at you. You can get everything you need to know from the right look.

 

[Hullo_nurse]

Well, as a BBW that has brown hair highlighted red I can say that we can be very sexy. It is in the way I carry myself, the look I can give a man across the room that lets him know exactly what I am thinking. I enjoy wearing sexy lingerie & taunting my partner, making him yearn for more...You definatly don't have to be 5'7" blond haired blue eyed w/34D tits to be sexy.

 

[Never]

Hmmm.
I like a person who can make me feel a little out of control and someone who I will never always be able to predict, or analyze or understand.
Self-confidence, well, I've been attracted to only a few women and they weren't always high on the whole self empowerment bit but.. they always were sure of what they were doing. They had a bit of passion, or drive that pushed them on to better, or harder, things.
A similar sense of humor is important as well.

 

[Lasher]

Just being curious, but...

Can't you find some threads from this CENTURY to comment on, Never?

 

[Never]

I got Lashed!

In truth, as soon as I saw you were online I ran to the earliest post I could comment on and did so. I'm glad you appreciate my efforts.

As for your question, why would I want to do that?

 

[Expertise]

Breathing.

Yes this would be blatant ass kissing

 

[MADDOG]

Um, I don't want anyone to take this the wrong way, but why is everyone kissing Lashers ass? I mean, it's not that it's not nice to have the guys respect, and it's not that it isn't fun to be "Lashed", but why the fuck do people just do things for Lashers sake? He's Not God (No matter how much he wants you to believe he is - Sorry mate!). If you do something stupid, and he "Lashes" you, Fair nuff. But why does everyone seem to want to have his attention?

No offence Lasher, I like and respect you. But if it were me, I'd be getting either a big head, or a tad annoyed.

MADDOG

 

[Flagg]

Fucking Lasher

I for one have been trying to redress the balance as you may have noticed.

 

[Expertise]

My ass kissing was a completely testosterone fueled attempt at kissing female ass. And I am in no way ashamed to admit it.

As far as Lasher goes the guys good (not God) and I believe in giving the Devil his due.

You're right in the sense that getting lashed or praised by him seems like validation for many. But, what the hell.

If its annoying him he would, without doubt, tell the offender.

 

[Never]

Did you call me an ass kisser?
No way I'll ever recover from this.

Really though, I don't even know Lasher, never spoken to him, only read what others write about him.
Hmmm.. There Lasher's not the one with the Hairy Ass, is he?

*This, and other, meaningless posts brought to you by the Ass Kissers of America.. aka AKA*

 

[Never]

*blinks*
I just became really experienced with Lasher and his Hairy Ass.
Ewwww.

 

[Magic Merlin]

Re: Fucking Lasher

I for one have been trying to redress the balance as you may have noticed.

LOL. Balance is good!

[Edited by Magic Merlin on 07-07-2000 at 04:27 PM]

 

[Rosebud]

i think the reason that so many people want to be lashed by lasher is because he is hung like a bull....haven't you seen his profile....
Seriously...It makes some people feel like they are being noticed when Lasher reaches out and smacks them...If they survive that smack...then they can survive anything that anyone has to throw at them...I am still waiting for his lash....