what is the worst excuse

[Willing and Unsure]

you've ever gotten or given for a break up?

 

[Kasha]

the only boyfriend I had before my husband was a doozy..I hope I spelled that right.. Anyhow, this shit head... would come over and sleep with me...then call me and break up. Giving no reason. When I would go back to school and other guys would ask me out...then he was all over me again. I was only 15 at the time so I wasn't sure what the hell to do. I ususally took him back...like an idiot. Anyhow, the worst time was right before Christmas. I had scrimped and saved to buy him and his family gifts for Christmas. The night his family was coming over to my house he called and broke up with me. He did this only to get out of buying me a present. Fucker. He did this once more before Homecoming so he wouldn't have to buy me a mum. What a piece of work.

It was a hard lesson to learn at 15 but I sure am glad I did. I feel just horrible for women that have to deal with fucklesticks like that constantly.

 

[MissTaken]

"You got your hair cut."


Well, I was in third grade, my first "boyfriend" and didn't my mother chose that week to give me one of her infamous "pixie " hair cuts. Of course, with my curly hair, it stuck up all over the place!

 

[llee69]

She was 5'1"

her reason

she found someone shorter then she was.

I knew him too. Great guy. 1 marriage and kid later she left him in the middle of the night.

I thikn I got off easy!

he still has the kid and hasnt seen or heard from her since. that was about 9 years ago.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

i would have to say that mine is "i just dont feel anything anymore when i kiss you" even though what he really meant was that he wanted me to sit on the side for a few weeks so he could have sex with someone else and hten come back to me (good news though... i wouldnt take him back and am currently refusing to speak to him)...


i had a guy friend however receive "it's just not working between us and i've been with somoene else.. a female someone else"

 

[Ishmael]

Lame excuses

The worst ones were all basically the same.

"You're too good for me." (like who wouldn't want the best?) or "You're better off without me." (a unilateral decision made by one for two."

Lame becasue they tell the 'dumpee' nothing. I especially liked the first one. It was if they were saying "If only you were a worse person."

Oh well, when you get right down to it, more of the excuses are lame than make sense.

Ishmael

 

[riff]

The worst excuse?

Nothing. That's the worst. The worst is silence.

 

[sch00lteacher]

1981 - "Jesus has spoken to me..."

 

[LadyDarkFire]

"You try to help me too much, you're too kind and caring. I fix people, so I don't have to be fixed. I know you've never tried to fix me, but you're just there for me too much. I think we better be friends. . . for now."

Then, due to the fact that I am a bloody idiot, I took him back.

"I'm sorry, but I just can't do it anymore. You and *** fighting all the time is too stressfull. I know that she's betrayed every rule of friendship, and of role playing, but she's still my friend. I just don't want to put up with the interfriend fighting, so I'm breaking up with you. We can still be friends, and maybe more some day."

I now have the guy blocked off, since November. I've only spoken to him twice, because he can still pull at my heart. It's kinda sad, I know every move he'll make, but it's still as hard to resist.

 

[HotXBunz]

Twas a blessing but being told by hubby after he found Jesus that we were "unequally yoked". Free at last, free at last. Before that he threatened to take the kids or cause me harm if I ever left him.

 

[KillerMuffin]

I was a bad person.

I said, "My mother says I can't see you anymore."
The real reason, he was boring me.

 

[riff]

I was a bad person.

I said, "My mother says I can't see you anymore."
The real reason, he was boring me.

At least you gave an excuse. I get sad when I think of girls I ignored away. But that was years ago. I was a punk.

Don't worry, I got my just rewards.

 

[Hamletmaschine]

The worst excuse?

Nothing. That's the worst. The worst is silence.

Yup. I agree. This is by far the worst one I've ever gotten.

~H~

 

[riff]

Yup. I agree. This is by far the worst one I've ever gotten.

~H~

But have you ever done that to someone else?

 

[Hamletmaschine]

But have you ever done that to someone else?

Nope. Never have, never will.

I knowIknowIknow ... never say "never." But having been on the receiving end of this, I don't think I could do it to someone else.

~H~

 

[Azwed]

i would have to say that mine is "i just dont feel anything anymore when i kiss you" even though what he really meant was that he wanted me to sit on the side for a few weeks so he could have sex with someone else and hten come back to me (good news though... i wouldnt take him back and am currently refusing to speak to him)...


i had a guy friend however receive "it's just not working between us and i've been with somoene else.. a female someone else"

Is this why you haven't been around lately cause of guy problems????

*snuggle*

 

[Willing and Unsure]

Is this why you haven't been around lately cause of guy problems????

*snuggle*

this just happened... like the night before valentine's day (he managed to break my heart twice cuz of this).... and its partly why.. the rest is cuz of school... i'm really working hard this semester and havent been around anywhere that much, even to chat.. but i'm managing to sneak in from time to time now

*huggles Azwed*

 

[perks]

"I got married over Thanksgiving break"

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

We were never going out.

stop calling me, leave me alone or i'll call the cops.