The art of eating a woman out

[Hipshot1554]

I totally agree!!
I love pleasuring my lady orally and I do believe oral sex, really good, fun, erotic and slow pleasuring oral sex is an art and should be enjoyed by both participants

I can relate!

 

[SensualGerund]

It takes a lot of effort for the person performing to pay attention. Sometimes, I'm far too excited to be tasting a woman and I have to bring my attention back to trying to please her.

 

[Tessinwales]

Sounds like a plan!

And a very good plan !

 

[Oralexplorer]

Speaking personally here....
I like the guy (or gal) to start by giving me kisses, sucks and tender nibbles along my inner thighs. Slowly getting higher and higher. Teasing little licks that move rapidly up along the edges of my labia send shivers of delight through me and give samples of what will shortly be following. Nice slow licks along the full length of my labia are a very good choice for the next stage. His gentle probing with his tongue by now would be making me breathe a little more heavily. Then using the tip of his tongue to circle my clit will start my orgasm to build more. If he places his mouth over my clit and sucks with a nice rhythm and slips a finger inside me it won't be very long before I am having an orgasm on his mouth and face!

The main thing is that there is no rush, no deadlines just easy pleasuring.

Noted !!

 

[Oralexplorer]

When I first met my husband his skill and techniques at giving oral absolutely blew me away. I had been with men before who were at the best "ok" giving oral but he was so far above and beyond, I could not stop thinking about it and the way he pleasured me with his lips and tongue.

In his case, the woman he was with before me taught him how to eat a woman properly. I can gladly say she did her job very well evidenced by the thousands of orgasms he has given me by oral alone over the years. He later told me the most important thing he learned from her was to pay attention to a woman's movements, reactions, moans and so forth. She had a saying, "Your tongue is for your woman's pleasure. When you're giving her oral, it's all about her!"

That being said, there is no one size fits all, as far as oral. Every woman has her own, preferences and even these can fluctuate. For the most part I'm a "build up to it" sort of girl most of the time. Lots of feeling, teasing, especially my nipples which are a erogenous trigger for me, which is another area of my body he is a master at pleasing. Even when down there he takes his time, kissing, licking getting closer to my sex then backing off until I am begging, literally begging for him to eat me. Once he is into it, even then, his techniques vary and he pays close attention to how I am reacting. And when I am "there" he knows there are different ways to send me over the edge. Many times he slides his hands up and begins to pinch and roll my nipples while pressing in and flicking the underside of my clit. He has several other techniques as well. Another thing is, when he is into eating me, no matter how many times I orgasm, he absolutely will not stop until he wants to.

That being said, sometimes I want to bypass the appetizer part of oral foreplay and have him just get down to it, tongue deep. It all depends on the mood.

As far as having "bad oral", I cannot say I have ever had that, just not nearly as good as him or some of my female partners. Giving oral, something we both love doing to women, is definitely an art and one that should be studied by both men and women.

Will he be running master-class anytime soon ? And where do I sign up ..

 

[tristantrotsky]

Speaking personally here....
I like the guy (or gal) to start by giving me kisses, sucks and tender nibbles along my inner thighs. Slowly getting higher and higher. Teasing little licks that move rapidly up along the edges of my labia send shivers of delight through me and give samples of what will shortly be following. Nice slow licks along the full length of my labia are a very good choice for the next stage. His gentle probing with his tongue by now would be making me breathe a little more heavily. Then using the tip of his tongue to circle my clit will start my orgasm to build more. If he places his mouth over my clit and sucks with a nice rhythm and slips a finger inside me it won't be very long before I am having an orgasm on his mouth and face!

The main thing is that there is no rush, no deadlines just easy pleasuring.

The main qualification is to love pussy, and to adore pleasuring pussy. If the pussy-licker loves what they are doing, the rest will come naturally...

 

[runtandmore]

so much already said
would only add that just like an artist spends time gathering his brushes and paint it is the same with oral. Approaching the wonderful areas of her body and he pussy to give pleasure until her hands force your head away

 

[Bottomlover]

I'm an engineer, and designed and built custom automatic machinery. When refining a new design, my boss said "Observe, analyze, and modify". I found this to be especially relevant to performing oral sex on women. Every woman responds to different things, and finding the exact technique for a particular woman is a rewarding goal. All you have to do is observe, analyze and modify.

 

[Tessinwales]

The main qualification is to love pussy, and to adore pleasuring pussy. If the pussy-licker loves what they are doing, the rest will come naturally...

So very true. But some men are just way better than others who love giving oral just as equally. Love giving is not quite enough, technique plays a huge part. A man with good technique can have me writhing on the bed whimpering and wanting the sensations never to stop.

 

[tristantrotsky]

So very true. But some men are just way better than others who love giving oral just as equally. Love giving is not quite enough, technique plays a huge part. A man with good technique can have me writhing on the bed whimpering and wanting the sensations never to stop.

You can always give me pointers as I'm don't there feasting on you, Tess...

 

[Nekidinaz]

So very true. But some men are just way better than others who love giving oral just as equally. Love giving is not quite enough, technique plays a huge part. A man with good technique can have me writhing on the bed whimpering and wanting the sensations never to stop.

I love to pleasure my lady and I certainly do agree that technique does play a huge part in how I pleasure her orally however, my "technique" varies with her level of excitement ...often times we begin our sexual pleasures with me gently massaging her gorgeous breasts and nipples...she loves for me to then fuck her in the "spoon" position until she asks me to get on top of her and fuck her while she spreads her legs in the air until she says she wants me to fuck her from behind while she is on all fours on the bed and I'm standing and able to reach around and again massage her tits...from there she will roll onto her back and I will kneel on the sides of the bed and begin kissing and licking her pussy while she moans and tells me how good it feels and exactly when I have my mouth and tongue on that perfect spot where she can enjoy multiple orgasms one after another ...
That's some of my technique and how I take my pussy eating cues from her reactions as well as her verbal "instructions"...we love being sexual and especially fond of being oral ...
What do you think? Sound good?

 

[Tessinwales]

I love to pleasure my lady and I certainly do agree that technique does play a huge part in how I pleasure her orally however, my "technique" varies with her level of excitement ...often times we begin our sexual pleasures with me gently massaging her gorgeous breasts and nipples...she loves for me to then fuck her in the "spoon" position until she asks me to get on top of her and fuck her while she spreads her legs in the air until she says she wants me to fuck her from behind while she is on all fours on the bed and I'm standing and able to reach around and again massage her tits...from there she will roll onto her back and I will kneel on the sides of the bed and begin kissing and licking her pussy while she moans and tells me how good it feels and exactly when I have my mouth and tongue on that perfect spot where she can enjoy multiple orgasms one after another ...
That's some of my technique and how I take my pussy eating cues from her reactions as well as her verbal "instructions"...we love being sexual and especially fond of being oral ...
What do you think? Sound good?

Can't fault it!

 

[cacti35]

When I first met my husband his skill and techniques at giving oral absolutely blew me away. I had been with men before who were at the best "ok" giving oral but he was so far above and beyond, I could not stop thinking about it and the way he pleasured me with his lips and tongue.

In his case, the woman he was with before me taught him how to eat a woman properly. I can gladly say she did her job very well evidenced by the thousands of orgasms he has given me by oral alone over the years. He later told me the most important thing he learned from her was to pay attention to a woman's movements, reactions, moans and so forth. She had a saying, "Your tongue is for your woman's pleasure. When you're giving her oral, it's all about her!"

That being said, there is no one size fits all, as far as oral. Every woman has her own, preferences and even these can fluctuate. For the most part I'm a "build up to it" sort of girl most of the time. Lots of feeling, teasing, especially my nipples which are a erogenous trigger for me, which is another area of my body he is a master at pleasing. Even when down there he takes his time, kissing, licking getting closer to my sex then backing off until I am begging, literally begging for him to eat me. Once he is into it, even then, his techniques vary and he pays close attention to how I am reacting. And when I am "there" he knows there are different ways to send me over the edge. Many times he slides his hands up and begins to pinch and roll my nipples while pressing in and flicking the underside of my clit. He has several other techniques as well. Another thing is, when he is into eating me, no matter how many times I orgasm, he absolutely will not stop until he wants to.

That being said, sometimes I want to bypass the appetizer part of oral foreplay and have him just get down to it, tongue deep. It all depends on the mood.

As far as having "bad oral", I cannot say I have ever had that, just not nearly as good as him or some of my female partners. Giving oral, something we both love doing to women, is definitely an art and one that should be studied by both men and women.

Very well said. That's exactly what I do. Love it & pleasing my partner.

 

[Crownvic]

Very well said. That's exactly what I do. Love it & pleasing my partner.

I believe in equal pleasure...what I love and what she loves.

 

[Glassnslate]

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[LoveOlderLove]

Not that I have had to many partners, but eating a woman out until she comes came naturally. I absolutely love it and can't get enough of it. I prefer to explore the body with my mouth and then do everything in my power to make her explode.