What is something sexual you wish you could change about yourself?
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Shaglus_Ziegler
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Nothing really. Maybe more confidence when I was younger! Lol.
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I wish had been more confident when I was younger. I wasted a lot time being afraid.
Wish I had a nice butt, too lol
Wish I had a nice butt, too lol
Wife had the same thing due to bad relationships. But she's doing awesome now. Good luck.
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Bigger cock and 1/4 of a cup of cum
FlirtyWordy
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I wish I hadn't been so afraid of what people might think when I was younger. I had a lot of sexual interests/curosities, from sex with more than one person, to bi sex, performing oral on big cocks and more, but raised religiously and given very negative messages all my early life, I was just too terrified to own my sexuality until I was much, much older.
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The world around us says 'NO' to most everything we say 'Yes' to. I am thoroughly Oral and there's no initial in the lexicon for that. I wouldn't change that for anything. I would love love love to have a longer tongue to be able to give MORE pleasure, but would not change my fierce desire to use my peasant anatomy to please woman or man or...
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Regret and remorse for missed opportunities is such a sad and wistful thing. Religion has a lot to answer for in imposing guilt on young impressionable minds. I hope you've made up for lost time since then...?
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Same here. I was pretty shy back then, especially around women.
Yep, even though I walked away from the Catholic church the day I turned 18, all the teachings I had growing up held me back. Wish I had known then what I know now. And I have made up for lost time ever since I realized I had wasted my energy and my early adult years on my conservative Catholic ex-wife.
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I used to hate the way I look, being an Albino with orange hair and chubby, but I have embraced it as making me unique. The only thing I would change is I wish I didn't grow any body hair so I wouldn't have to shave.
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My sex organs
FlirtyWordy
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Well, sort of. I’m now open about my bisexuality and have had m2m experiences that were exciting in the moment, but somehow unsatisfying. I love my wife; she’s a remarkable person. I do t love the way her anxiety ebbs and flows, leading her constantly from fear to acceptance (even occasional glimpses of encouragement) back to fear. What that means is that, so far, I’ve not been able to explore as fully and honestly as I’d like. That said, my wife recently surprised me by arranging a vacation to an adults-only resort during a bi-friendly week. So I give her immense credit for loving me enough to step out of her comfort zone. I wish she wanted to participate with me, but I’m not sure that will happen.
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Thank you for that remarkably honest response.
- Beeing more confident and less shy when I was younger. Above all, I should have been more consistent in making sure my most important fantasies come true. I'm slowly getting too old for that, but my desires keep growing.
- If I could change everything: being female instead of male
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I wish I was aware of and more open to exploring my bisexuality sooner. I wish I had been open to more kinks and more willing to explore them.
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I wish I was more dominant and sexually aggressive. Likely due to low T but kept my virginity until marriage and even though we have sex often enough, it’s not great sex.
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These aren't hard core "regrets" because I'm perfectly happy with the way my life has gone. But...
- Wish I had started masturbating and exploring myself earlier and w/o shame.
- Wish I had been more confident in myself earlier.
- Wish I had better recognized a LOT of flirting with me.
- There was a couple I messaged on Lit years ago. We lived in the same city. They were going to call me and have me over for some fun but I chickened out. Would go back and do that for sure (but be careful about safety).
- Same with a swinging couple I met on a dating app. They invited me for group fun. I chickened out.
- Wish I had fucked a friend of mine who came on to me. She was an ex of another friend so I deflected.
- Wish I had started masturbating and exploring myself earlier and w/o shame.
- Wish I had been more confident in myself earlier.
- Wish I had better recognized a LOT of flirting with me.
- There was a couple I messaged on Lit years ago. We lived in the same city. They were going to call me and have me over for some fun but I chickened out. Would go back and do that for sure (but be careful about safety).
- Same with a swinging couple I met on a dating app. They invited me for group fun. I chickened out.
- Wish I had fucked a friend of mine who came on to me. She was an ex of another friend so I deflected.
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