What is most essential?

[echologue]

What is the most important thing to you in your partnership? If you're single, what do you miss the most? For me, it's waking up next to her and feeling her hand between my legs or on my chest, with a look that says, ' You're not a dream. You're still here and we get to play today. I love you.'

 

[flirtygirly]

there are lots of things, but one of the things i miss the most is

sleeping with someone next to me...skin against skin...hearing or feeling them breath beside me...touching or caressing...having that comfortable feeling...falling asleep or waking up with a warm sexy body

 

[smotherman]

The most important thing to me is communication. I love to kiss, so have to say Kissing. cuddling watching a movie together. Sex is also important in a relationship.

 

[echologue]

mmmm

there are lots of things, but one of the things i miss the most is

sleeping with someone next to me...skin against skin...hearing or feeling them breath beside me...touching or caressing...having that comfortable feeling...falling asleep or waking up with a warm sexy body

spooning is the best. knowing you'll wake up next to you covered in their sleep.

 

[echologue]

The most important thing to me is communication. I love to kiss, so have to say Kissing. cuddling watching a movie together. Sex is also important in a relationship.

Telling secrets across a pillow, knowing you're close enough that someone knows all your secrets, and loves you more for who you are.

 

[Millianthe]

I would agree that communication is key... being open to understand and learn about your new love yet not bury yourself in an effort to impress him/her... I also think that along with honest communication that I think the little things are essential. A relationship is always a work in progress... and if you give up on it because you "won" that person, then that is just taking a person for granted and expect them never to change as time passes

And kissing... kissing and soft touches RAWK!!!!!!!

 

[echologue]

I would agree that communication is key... being open to understand and learn about your new love yet not bury yourself in an effort to impress him/her... I also think that along with honest communication that I think the little things are essential. A relationship is always a work in progress... and if you give up on it because you "won" that person, then that is just taking a person for granted and expect them never to change as time passes

And kissing... kissing and soft touches RAWK!!!!!!!

Ah those unexpected little presents that let her know you were listening, maybe not so big, a picnic under a sunset, a surprise visit to a place you know she's been wanting to go.....maybe something big, but alaways with the intent of 'I hear you and your are so dear to me.'

 

[Millianthe]

Ah those unexpected little presents that let her know you were listening, maybe not so big, a picnic under a sunset, a surprise visit to a place you know she's been wanting to go.....maybe something big, but alaways with the intent of 'I hear you and your are so dear to me.'

Absolutely... I think little things are essential.

One of my best friends used to travel a lot on business. He made it a point to purchase a number of cards equal to the number of days he'd be gone. He'd write poems and love notes in each, seal them, then put the date on the outside that his lady was to open them.

My father used to get love notes from my mother twice a week in his lunches, no rhyme or reason as to what day she'd leave them. It was the surprise of it that helped keep their passion alive for 26 years before he died.

 

[echologue]

Absolutely... I think little things are essential.

One of my best friends used to travel a lot on business. He made it a point to purchase a number of cards equal to the number of days he'd be gone. He'd write poems and love notes in each, seal them, then put the date on the outside that his lady was to open them.

My father used to get love notes from my mother twice a week in his lunches, no rhyme or reason as to what day she'd leave them. It was the surprise of it that helped keep their passion alive for 26 years before he died.

Yep little notes of tenderness slipped in pockets and car mirrors and ashtrays, under seats anywhere, just to be found and opened by the one you are in love with. I live for them. Will I find her?

 

[NattyBumppo]

Yep little notes of tenderness slipped in pockets and car mirrors and ashtrays, under seats anywhere, just to be found and opened by the one you are in love with. I live for them. Will I find her?

Fortunately, I have.

 

[echologue]

Fortunately, I have.

I'm glad.

 

[ZipBlockBloodie]

I miss the good conversations and just sleeping alone is kind of sad.

 

[echologue]

I miss the good conversations and just sleeping alone.

Well they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.

 

[ZipBlockBloodie]

Well they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Or heart grow stone cold kind of like how I feel sometimes.

 

[echologue]

Or heart grow stone cold kind of like how I feel sometimes.

Yep mine too sometimes.

 

[Roxanne_Smith69]

Sleeping spooned, his arms curled around me, feeling his breath on my neck. Makes me feel loved and secure.

Rox

 

[chargergirl]

Trust. If you don't have trust, you have nothing.

 

[echologue]

Sleeping spooned, his arms curled around me, feeling his breath on my neck. Makes me feel loved and secure.

Rox

Yes just one big mass of love under the covers. I miss looking at her while she is sleeping.

 

[echologue]

Trust. If you don't have trust, you have nothing.

Trust and communication. Hand in hand.

 

[tweetygal]

I still miss that look - the one that doesn't need any words. And I miss the little jokes between two people that only they get. I miss phone calls or texts in the middle of the day - for no reason. I miss someone doing "nice" things for me just because.

I guess most essential is still communication in whatever form -

 

[chargergirl]

Trust and communication. Hand in hand.

absolutely.

 

[ravi64]

absolutely.

i agree with you and echologue trust and communication are the most essential parts of a relationship

 

[echologue]

I still miss that look - the one that doesn't need any words. And I miss the little jokes between two people that only they get. I miss phone calls or texts in the middle of the day - for no reason. I miss someone doing "nice" things for me just because.

I guess most essential is still communication in whatever form -

Little unexpected kindnesses, dinner made and waiting for you, a foot rub, being bathed and pampered....all those things.

 

[echologue]

absolutely.

Communication, one sure fire way to get closer with somebody. Even when the conversation is difficult. And then the clearness after.

 

[echologue]

i agree with you and echologue trust and communication are the most essential parts of a relationship

No trust without communication. No communication on a deep level without trust.