satin_and_lace
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I love being spanked by my SO, I always get so worked up and wet during it.
What is it about spanking?
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poppaslittlewhore
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It's one of my husband's favorite things. I enjoy it myself. Usually a hand belt or paddle.
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What?! Never...
In reality I think the word 'punished' doesnt apply in most cases for women.
The embarassing exciting part is to be over a mans lap and having your skirt up and fondled over your panties.
Sometimes in fantasy naughty words of chastisement can be used but they are just part of the embarassment.
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Short answer... YES!!! 
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Spanked and handled roughly in passion...not formally whipped in some s&m discipline scenario. I like when my lover is aggressive, takes what he wants, and slaps my ass pink because it's right there in front of him and he can.
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He is really a lucky man
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For me, the fascination has always been there.
In the UK we grew up with spanking in comics and children's stories, and I'd just love it when a character like Minnie the Minx got put over the knee for a good slippering.
I know a lot of women enjoy the feeling, but personally, I hate the pain, I'm a total wimp and it really bloody hurts! That said, paradoxically, I still love it. The afterglow, but more the sheer humiliation of having to submit to physical punishment, especially on the bare bottom.
In the UK we grew up with spanking in comics and children's stories, and I'd just love it when a character like Minnie the Minx got put over the knee for a good slippering.
I know a lot of women enjoy the feeling, but personally, I hate the pain, I'm a total wimp and it really bloody hurts! That said, paradoxically, I still love it. The afterglow, but more the sheer humiliation of having to submit to physical punishment, especially on the bare bottom.
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I love being spanked <3 just something about being spanked that gets my juices going <3 specially during sex, big turn on
cant explain why it turns me on, just does
cant explain why it turns me on, just does
SpoiledRedhead
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It's incredible foreplay. I understand the physiological and psychological reasons behind it, but basicaly it just turns me on. I will find ways to "get in trouble" just to earn one. In fact, it's been quite a while.....
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Adelyn
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I think it is the loss of control that is such a turn on. It's an extremely powerful feeling to not be in control.
My husband was having fun the other day, slapped some handcuffs on me out of the blue then spanked my ass with a leather belt. Something he's never done before (only used his hand). It was hot! I couldn't help but tease him after and asked if that was all he had. He slammed me down on the bed and showed me how good he was at spanking with just his hand. I loved it! I love to find ways to push his buttons so that he feels the need to "punish" me.
My husband was having fun the other day, slapped some handcuffs on me out of the blue then spanked my ass with a leather belt. Something he's never done before (only used his hand). It was hot! I couldn't help but tease him after and asked if that was all he had. He slammed me down on the bed and showed me how good he was at spanking with just his hand. I loved it! I love to find ways to push his buttons so that he feels the need to "punish" me.
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I love men, their hands and feeling their masculinity. Gender roles can often be a big turn on for me as well. I like to be put in my place and have it made known that i am the woman and i am to serve the man/head of the home/relationship. Spanking is one way of doing that.It can also be more of a light and playful thing for me as well. I ran into a childhood friend i grew up with not to long ago. It was at a store and he smacked my bum and told me he was leaving before giving me a big hug. It was adorable and brought out my shy side as well.
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I can withstand pain. I also love rough guys because I love rough sex so if he lets it out with a spank then so be it. I also love the sound effect. And I looove hands. Ugh. I'm getting overheated and frothy just thinking about.
I'm sure...
I'm sure everyone who answers this could and would likely give a little bit different response. For me, when done right, spanking can be a cleansing of sorts. I have a stressful and demanding job and life. Being on top of everything is overwhelming at times. Being able to relinquish control is part of the draw for me but there is also an emotional release that can occur along with giving complete control to another who also understands this aspect of my needs. I don't want or need to be beaten. However, the sting and burn of a good spanking for all the right reasons, is perfect.
I'm sure everyone who answers this could and would likely give a little bit different response. For me, when done right, spanking can be a cleansing of sorts. I have a stressful and demanding job and life. Being on top of everything is overwhelming at times. Being able to relinquish control is part of the draw for me but there is also an emotional release that can occur along with giving complete control to another who also understands this aspect of my needs. I don't want or need to be beaten. However, the sting and burn of a good spanking for all the right reasons, is perfect.
Texas_law_man
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I know this is supposed to be an erotic fantasy and a desire but there is a physiological connection to this unique phenomenon. The female anatomy extends beyond the clitoris and actually has two long fingers that run parallel to the vaginal opening. Those fingers end near the anus. The vibrations from a spanking travel through the pelvic girdle and actually stimulate the long fingers of the clitoris.
That is the physiological form of arousal. The anticipation of a spanking results in a psychological reaction previously learned from the physiological reaction. This leads to early arousal similar to the anticipation one gets as they wait for their lover to touch and/or stimulate their erogenous zone.
That is the physiological form of arousal. The anticipation of a spanking results in a psychological reaction previously learned from the physiological reaction. This leads to early arousal similar to the anticipation one gets as they wait for their lover to touch and/or stimulate their erogenous zone.
Spanking shouldn't be limited just to a delicious ass. Breasts are wonderful for light slapping. The slit and clit, well aimed slaps can be arousing, especially if slapped with a hard cock. In fact, slapping with a cock can be a big turn on for some ladies. Maybe even deserving of it's own thread?
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in my opinion, you both have, er, hit upon some true aspects. the illusion of being completely out of control (while still being with that trusted man in a safe environment) is an absolutely thrilling moment of mentally exploring. for me there is also that emotional release at times... all my real life concerns are (temporarily) gone and i can concentrate on atoning for whatever "sin" (real or imagined) got me spanked in the first place!
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