What is it about spanking?

[TheMadMaximum]

I've never been entirely sure why women like this so much, and the unevenness of the enjoyment from woman to woman.

I had one girlfriend who *loved* it, and wanted me to hit her at full-strength (which is pretty hard, and loud). Another time I had a FwB who loved it when I gave her a smack on the ass whenever I even gave her a hug.

Aside from upbringing, being spanked as a child, or other associations, why is a slap on the bottom such a turn on for girls?

 

[OnceFuturePoly]

I also wonder if spanking isn't cultural, or ethnic, or genetic, or some how clustered in various population groups.

Traditionally one pinches a woman's butt in Italy. Slapping it is also frequent. I'd bet odds are in favor of an Italian woman liking a bedroom spanking.

Are there any other patterns for those who enjoy being spanked?

 

[Tomahawk26]

I have NO idea why I like to be spanked. None at all. But I do love it! To varying degrees of intensity, from light spanks while I ride him to a spanking and other teasing as foreplay, but always involving sex. When my husband just swats my ass in the kitchen, it usually makes me mad, actually! I definitely enjoy it when he says something like "I'll stop when you tell me you can't take any more"--I'm so stubborn I'll take it till I cry sometimes. But as for the why? Search me!

 

[Cookie123]

Sometimes, I think I could cum from only a good, hard spanking! I love the way my ass and thighs feel when they are on fire with red, raised welts. Mmmm..!!!!

 

[cryingalien]

love looking at my hand imprint all red and raised!

 

[nueva_belleza]

Not sure what it is. I wasn't really spanked as a child. And like Tomahawk said, if people do it outside of the bedroom I don't like it. But inside, it's fun and sexy and I guess there's the control aspect to it as well. He's (or she depending I guess) holding you and spanking you because he's the one in control of that moment of your pain and your pleasure.

 

[123Josh]

All goes back to anal vibrations!

 

[RedHotMamaTN]

Good question! I was spanked as a child by a belt and was scared to death to be spanked. It took a man to show me how spanking could be pleasurable as a adult and get over the fears I had as a child. I tend to want it harder and harder each time. Now I dont seem to care about it if he is walking past me and spanks me just a little bit. Doenst do a thing for me. But when we are together there is just something about the sting, the feel of his hand. The heat from it. Sometimes the welt that just sends chills down my spine. And if he has a handful of my hair with one hand and slapping my ass with the other hand.. Double my pleasure!

 

[kjgold]

I don't know why I love it....I just do

 

[sarel101]

I have NO idea why I like to be spanked. None at all. But I do love it!

With an ass like yours, I'd say it's genetic!

 

[shewantsmore]

Does there have to be a reason why someone likes it,they just do.

 

[LoveCraver]

Im not sure why i like it.....seems different, exciting, taboo maybe?
It makes my skin feel alive and i just like it i can't explain well why i do

 

[amofiga]

I've never been entirely sure why women like this so much, and the unevenness of the enjoyment from woman to woman.

I had one girlfriend who *loved* it, and wanted me to hit her at full-strength (which is pretty hard, and loud). Another time I had a FwB who loved it when I gave her a smack on the ass whenever I even gave her a hug.

Aside from upbringing, being spanked as a child, or other associations, why is a slap on the bottom such a turn on for girls?

I think it's more psychological. Women are raised not to "like sex". Only bad girls like sex so being spanked is a bit of punishment for being bad. I doubt that many think about it consciously but I think that element is there. I had one woman who would say things like "Yeah, spank my bad girl ass. I know I'm a bad girl. Make my bad girl ass all red. Etc Etc" Maybe just "porn talk" or maybe there's something there. She's the same one who once told me, "All my life I've been a good girl and now I want to know what it's like to be bad."

 

[INeedLove]

love looking at my hand imprint all red and raised!

^^^^ that too!!

 

[Tomahawk26]

With an ass like yours, I'd say it's genetic!

Well thank ya!

 

[Edensgarden]

I've never been entirely sure why women like this so much, and the unevenness of the enjoyment from woman to woman.

I had one girlfriend who *loved* it, and wanted me to hit her at full-strength (which is pretty hard, and loud). Another time I had a FwB who loved it when I gave her a smack on the ass whenever I even gave her a hug.

Aside from upbringing, being spanked as a child, or other associations, why is a slap on the bottom such a turn on for girls?

If I know it's coming, the anticipation alone is enough to make me wet.

Then there's the "pop"...a warm burn.....followed by a cool sting....and my pussy starts to ache.

If it's a complete surprise, then the immediate realization of what's coming get's me hot.

I do prefer a good pussy spanking over my ass.

 

[thomash]

Sometimes, I think I could cum from only a good, hard spanking! I love the way my ass and thighs feel when they are on fire with red, raised welts. Mmmm..!!!!

Sounds like you need a VERY HARD SPANKING!!!

 

[Cookie123]

I do..I've been very naughty this week!!! Be sure to stop by the kitchen on your way to the bedroom.

Sounds like you need a VERY HARD SPANKING!!!

 

[falcon29]

New Experience

I was 52, she was 41. We met through work. She was smart and funny with a twisted sense of humor like mine and, since she was new in our little town, I was glad to show her around. Really, that was all it was for me -- some enjoyable female companionship for a while.

She had different ideas. After a few days of sightseeing, we ended back at her place. We talked about our pasts and our current state of life. She soon plopped herself on my lap and wrapped her arms around my neck and said softly into my ear (we were alone), "I guess I should tell you that I really like being spanked."

I had never thought of it personally. As an erotic practice, (and as a typically prejudiced American) I had consigned it to some British businessmen hiring a dom to take the edge off their busy work day. Oh, and there were the orgasms too.

I naturally manned up and quickly told her I'd never had it done to me nor had I done it except as punishment for my daughter -- and that was always over whatever clothes she had on at the time. "But I'll be glad to give it a try," I said. She was wiggling around on my stiffening dick under her ass.

So we got all warmed up and tasted everything there was to taste except orgasmic fluids and she draped herself across my knee, ass in the air. I started easy but was urged to high speed and force quickly. My hand was killing me but she was squirming and letting out the most erotic moans and groans so I managed to continue and help her find her release -- just from spanking her ass.

Later I let her try doing me but it just hurt. Several months later after we were married we were feeling excessively horny one night and she wanted to try it again. "Wait through the initial pain," she said. I did and found a place in my mind I'd never consciously been before. The pain faded and something in my head forced me to tell her to swat harder. I didn't come, but I did shortly after plunging my stiff cock into her wet pussy.

So the question of "why?" has a multitude of answers just as with anything we enjoy doing or experiencing.

 

[pisces_girl]

you never know when his hand is going to make contact with your rear... he has all that control and that makes it exciting. it practically makes me want to beg for it. 'please, i want it' etc.

 

[jasonmason]

If I know it's coming, the anticipation alone is enough to make me wet.

Then there's the "pop"...a warm burn.....followed by a cool sting....and my pussy starts to ache.

If it's a complete surprise, then the immediate realization of what's coming get's me hot.

I do prefer a good pussy spanking over my ass.

This is just too hot!

 

[NeverWinterNite]

Good question! I was spanked as a child by a belt and was scared to death to be spanked. It took a man to show me how spanking could be pleasurable as a adult and get over the fears I had as a child. I tend to want it harder and harder each time. Now I dont seem to care about it if he is walking past me and spanks me just a little bit. Doenst do a thing for me. But when we are together there is just something about the sting, the feel of his hand. The heat from it. Sometimes the welt that just sends chills down my spine. And if he has a handful of my hair with one hand and slapping my ass with the other hand.. Double my pleasure!

I used to be spanked as a child as well and I have a lot of unresolved feelings about that. I still see it as a form of punishment.

Maybe one day, I might learn to like it sexually.

 

[SpoiledRedhead]

I was not traditionally spanked as a child, but was very disturbed when I found that I enjoyed this so much that I did cum. I read The Psychology of Adult Spanking and came to understand the anatomical stimulation that takes place, plus the psychological release I get from having the guy take total control. I also love to feel and see the results the next day. That is good for another round.

 

[mannis]

Is it for You?

Apropo of nothing at all really, but do any lady subscribers like or actual[y enjoy being spanked, caned or otherwise "punished" by their lover, partner or husband and if so please state which is preferred.

 

[Franksgirl1026]

Apropo of nothing at all really, but do any lady subscribers like or actual[y enjoy being spanked, caned or otherwise "punished" by their lover, partner or husband and if so please state which is preferred.

I absolutely LOVE being spanked by my lover!! I always have had a thing for a big strong man who can use his strength and power over me in the bedroom. The psychological and physical pleasure I get from the feeling and the sound of his open hand spanking my ass cheeks is indescribable. And I don't like just one or two smacks either. I want to be spanked on my ass until my cheeks are nice and rosey and his hand print is welted onto me. Then after each smack he rubs and squeezes the area he just spanked and then without warning he strikes again on top of the stinging skin he just smacked a few seconds before. It makes my pussy wet! Especially if we are playing Daddy/Daughter and I've been a bad girl who needs a punishment from her Daddy.