What is it about high heels in porn?

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I rarely mention shoes in my writing, either women's or men's. Sometimes I'll mention shoes as impediments in passionate undressing of each other who are wearing pants. I'll make a passing mention of bare feet on occasion, but that's the extent. So...

...what in the hell is it with porn (vid and stills) and the women wearing high heels, the more ridiculous the better? Especially during action on a bed (or whatever), with feet flailing about. Somebody's gonna lose an eye!

I somewhat understand the appeal when the ladies are standing, making them appear taller and there's the sometimes not-subtle reshaping of their figures, but once they hit the mattress? What's the point (no pun intended)?
 
I rarely mention shoes in my writing, either women's or men's. Sometimes I'll mention shoes as impediments in passionate undressing of each other who are wearing pants. I'll make a passing mention of bare feet on occasion, but that's the extent. So...

...what in the hell is it with porn (vid and stills) and the women wearing high heels, the more ridiculous the better? Especially during action on a bed (or whatever), with feet flailing about. Somebody's gonna lose an eye!

I somewhat understand the appeal when the ladies are standing, making them appear taller and there's the sometimes not-subtle reshaping of their figures, but once they hit the mattress? What's the point (no pun intended)?

I don't get it either, but I'm sure there are things I find especially attractive that others don't. It's just one of the many kinks out there, and like all of them, they're strange to those who don't share them. I don't like heels, I think tattoos are ugly, and I prefer cute panties over a thong 100%. Others will completely disagree. And that's okay. Like you said, heels do put a woman's figure on display, so I get that. And foot fetishes are very, very common.

Once you hit the mattress? I don't know, I think if she's just wearing cute socks it's adorable. So I guess it has something to do with that? Imagining her toes curling as you make her cum? Instead imagine those toes in heels? Something like that? I don't know, I guess my final answer is that sexuality is so fucking complicated, and everyone has their own thing.
 
Quite possibly a mother fixation. I mean, when you're small the heels you're most likely to see are your mother's.
 
Well, if you don't see it, you don't see it.

High heels are a big turn-on for many, including me, and not just for people who have a foot fetish; it's also an accessory that emphasizes the femininity and eroticism of a woman, makes her poise better, and makes her legs stand out more. In a way, high heels have the same effect as lingerie. Many people will say that seeing a woman in erotic lingerie is far more sensual and appealing than seeing her naked.
 
I agree that the actual benefits of high heels go away once the wearer is horizontal. But I think the association with sexuality remains, and that's why porn-makers keep the heels on the feet. It helps to "slut her up" to some extent.
 
...what in the hell is it with porn (vid and stills) and the women wearing high heels, the more ridiculous the better? Especially during action on a bed (or whatever), with feet flailing about. Somebody's gonna lose an eye!
Most porn stars are really short, like 5'5" and under for the majority of them. High heels give them height and plays into the lady in the street, whore in sheets trope.
 
While we're asking these questions, what's the deal with all the horrible scars? I get that a career in porn doesn't usually follow a happy early life, but the number of porn actors - male and female - with horrific scars seems to be growing all the time.
 
While we're asking these questions, what's the deal with all the horrible scars? I get that a career in porn doesn't usually follow a happy early life, but the number of porn actors - male and female - with horrific scars seems to be growing all the time.
I find cesarean scars to be interesting in a motherly, milfy way. Same for stretch marks!

Top surgery scars on enbys or trans masc folks are kind of hot in their own specific way.

SH scars on arms and thighs make me sad, though...
 
While we're asking these questions, what's the deal with all the horrible scars? I get that a career in porn doesn't usually follow a happy early life, but the number of porn actors - male and female - with horrific scars seems to be growing all the time.
It's because they keep their heels on during the most active parts of the shoot. I mean, they're called stilettos for a reason, right?
 
Well, feet can get really weird. High heels probably just make them look suitably erotic, especially if the legs are in the air.

Actually, dammed if I know. Unless it's a specific fetish, I stopped trying to make sense of porn a long time ago.
 
It's because they keep their heels on during the most active parts of the shoot. I mean, they're called stilettos for a reason, right?
You know, I always thought those long jagged scars were from knives, but this actually makes perfect sense.
 
A few reasons:
• Heels change posture to make the butt look better when standing, and elongate the legs and define the calves in any position
• They can help close the height difference gap while fucking in standing positions
• As others have mentioned, they can maintain the suggestion of the chosen look (classy, slutty, feminine, etc) even after the rest of the clothes are removed
• Just one of those tropes that are firmly embedded in the human psyche by now
• I really don’t care, I just don’t like looking at feet 😜
 
• I really don’t care, I just don’t like looking at feet 😜

Ugh. You're making me think of a long-ago GF. She had ... feet. Hiking boots or running shoes were normally her thing, but on one occasion she was in low-heel pumps, and... wow... just wow. Never noticed when we were... uh... nekkid. Other things to pay attention to.
 
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I think it's sort of a "free" kink for porn producers.
It's easy to fit in to any production.
There is a segment of the population that goes nuts for it, but no one is really turned off by it.
Most other kinks you can turn off a certain percent of your audience with, I've never heard of anyone being strongly opposed to high heels. I find them a bit silly in many scenarios (high heels and bikinis, I'm looking at you!) but it isn't like many other links where there is a strong negative reaction.

I also think it's a bit of an older person kink. I don't see folks my age being that into it.
 
It's porn. Heels are a sign of sluttiness, even if the wearer doesn't intend them to be. Horny guys see heels and make the association to slut. Guys who watch porn love sluts. They get excited at any sign of a slut.

I can take great care to dress my female character in all sorts of lovely feminine detail but the guys do not care. Just list low cut top, short skirt, stockings and heels. That's the uniform. They don't even care about the colors or the cuts. Just say those magic words. Bonus points if there is no bra.

Don't even bother trying to sneak in a boatneck, an a-line or wedges. They don't know what they are. You will lose them. You can add solid colors but don't bother with stripes or polka dots or plaid, or psychedelic lava print. They will skip over it. Another look that they don't care about is the knotted shirt. If you show them a picture of it, they'll drool all over the place. You know, the knotted shirt, Daisy Duke puts a shirt on and instead of buttoning it just ties it under her bust. They love it if they see it but if you type it they can't picture it, so don't bother. No imagination.

Words to avoid: cold-shoulder, camisole, scoop (which is the superest fuckingest basic-est cut), empire, dropwaist, crop, wrap, halter (guys LOVE these but have no idea what the word means), broomstick, handkerchief. Fishnets are okay. Pencil will be understood but unless the girl has slender fit thighs, avoid it because pencil goes to the knee - too long. We want short short SHORT! Curve of the ass hanging below the hem - because you know she's just out to the corner store for coffee creamer, right?

Always stockings, never hose. Guys don't understand that hose have to come off to give access to the vagina. And absolutely forget about control top. Cardinal sin - no no NEVER!

No cotton panties! Always lace or thong or none at all. If there are underthings, never nude, always black or white or pink or red or something. Never ever nude, that's not slutty.

Had a guy in chat tell me that he was watching a TV show and saw a girl in a really cute top that he'd never seen before and didn't know what it was called. He said it was held up by little thin straps and was a really light top. I said, "spaghetti camisole." he said no, it was something new and different. Then he sent me a visual link. It was a ... wait for it ... spaghetti camisole. : /

So don't get creative with the clothes. Just list the uniform, low cut top, short skirt, stockings and high heels, minimum 3 inches.

Easy on the jewelry. You can mention earrings quickly but they will skip over that. Exceptions are for sexy piercings but they come later once she takes her clothes off (yes, she will take them off herself, the guy wont lift a finger - it's porn, remember?). Makeup also, lotsa red lipstick. Make sure it's bright red (unless she's goth, then it can be black). That's it. Anything else bores them (even if she's goth!). if you omit the makeup they won't notice anyways.

Hair, always long. Give a color but never any streaks or dye. Natural colors only. No styling other than maybe a ponytail (or pigtails but only for guys with that fetish). No buns, no braids (plaits), no bands nor barrettes nor clips of any kind. Do not mention a part or a sweep or bangs (fringe for you English folks). Always past the shoulders and can often go right to the booty. This is mandatory. ABSOLUTELY NO BOBS nor PIXIE CUTS!!
 
Most other kinks you can turn off a certain percent of your audience with, I've never heard of anyone being strongly opposed to high heels.
Raises hand. Loathe them, silliest and most destructive piece of equipment ever added to women's arsenal of impractical fashion.
 
It's porn. Heels are a sign of sluttiness, even if the wearer doesn't intend them to be. Horny guys see heels and make the association to slut. Guys who watch porn love sluts. They get excited at any sign of a slut.

I can take great care to dress my female character in all sorts of lovely feminine detail but the guys do not care. Just list low cut top, short skirt, stockings and heels. That's the uniform. They don't even care about the colors or the cuts. Just say those magic words. Bonus points if there is no bra.

Don't even bother trying to sneak in a boatneck, an a-line or wedges. They don't know what they are. You will lose them. You can add solid colors but don't bother with stripes or polka dots or plaid, or psychedelic lava print. They will skip over it. Another look that they don't care about is the knotted shirt. If you show them a picture of it, they'll drool all over the place. You know, the knotted shirt, Daisy Duke puts a shirt on and instead of buttoning it just ties it under her bust. They love it if they see it but if you type it they can't picture it, so don't bother. No imagination.

Words to avoid: cold-shoulder, camisole, scoop (which is the superest fuckingest basic-est cut), empire, dropwaist, crop, wrap, halter (guys LOVE these but have no idea what the word means), broomstick, handkerchief. Fishnets are okay. Pencil will be understood but unless the girl has slender fit thighs, avoid it because pencil goes to the knee - too long. We want short short SHORT! Curve of the ass hanging below the hem - because you know she's just out to the corner store for coffee creamer, right?

Always stockings, never hose. Guys don't understand that hose have to come off to give access to the vagina. And absolutely forget about control top. Cardinal sin - no no NEVER!

No cotton panties! Always lace or thong or none at all. If there are underthings, never nude, always black or white or pink or red or something. Never ever nude, that's not slutty.

Had a guy in chat tell me that he was watching a TV show and saw a girl in a really cute top that he'd never seen before and didn't know what it was called. He said it was held up by little thin straps and was a really light top. I said, "spaghetti camisole." he said no, it was something new and different. Then he sent me a visual link. It was a ... wait for it ... spaghetti camisole. : /

So don't get creative with the clothes. Just list the uniform, low cut top, short skirt, stockings and high heels, minimum 3 inches.

Easy on the jewelry. You can mention earrings quickly but they will skip over that. Exceptions are for sexy piercings but they come later once she takes her clothes off (yes, she will take them off herself, the guy wont lift a finger - it's porn, remember?). Makeup also, lotsa red lipstick. Make sure it's bright red (unless she's goth, then it can be black). That's it. Anything else bores them (even if she's goth!). if you omit the makeup they won't notice anyways.

Hair, always long. Give a color but never any streaks or dye. Natural colors only. No styling other than maybe a ponytail (or pigtails but only for guys with that fetish). No buns, no braids (plaits), no bands nor barrettes nor clips of any kind. Do not mention a part or a sweep or bangs (fringe for you English folks). Always past the shoulders and can often go right to the booty. This is mandatory. ABSOLUTELY NO BOBS nor PIXIE CUTS!!
You're so cynical 🤣

I've gotten specific, positive comments and DMs (mostly-but-not-exclusively from men, from what I can tell) about my female characters wearing: boyshorts, overalls, sneakers, combat boots, oxfords, cardigans, scarves, and hoodies-and-nothing-else 😁
 
You're so cynical 🤣

I've gotten specific, positive comments and DMs (mostly-but-not-exclusively from men, from what I can tell) about my female characters wearing: boyshorts, overalls, sneakers, combat boots, oxfords, cardigans, scarves, and hoodies-and-nothing-else 😁

Then you're just a much better writer than I am.
 
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