What ignited that first spark in you?

[elsol]

I'm more interested and focussed on D/S than BDSM.

Bondage Interest -- The Wonder Woman gets captured by Nazis episode where they racked her.

I remember how my body felt like they had jacked me into a wall socket. I think my only thought was "If I did that to a girl, then I could..."

D/S -- My upbringing... no males and very strong females. Any reach for identity, independence, or power in my own life was through a woman.

Colored my view of the world.
ElSol

 

[robynwildchild]

Originally posted by elsol
I'm more interested and focussed on D/S than BDSM.

Bondage Interest -- The Wonder Woman gets captured by Nazis episode where they racked her.

I remember how my body felt like they had jacked me into a wall socket. I think my only thought was "If I did that to a girl, then I could..."

D/S -- My upbringing... no males and very strong females. Any reach for identity, independence, or power in my own life was through a woman.

Colored my view of the world.
ElSol

that's interesting...lemme think bout that..
my male role models were passive aggressive/deceptive/manipulating. i had more female role models and i can honestly say they were just about all....aggresive/negative/controlling.

 

[AvaAdore]

My best friend and i often played a game called "slave" when we were as young as 7. I was almost always the slave. I would have to do things for her like bring her cookies from the kitchen and carry stuff around, and if i misbehaved she would spank me. I got to be the mistress once, but i didn't find it much fun. I figured there wasn't anything i wanted done

When i was 12 i was really into aliens and UFOs. I had lots of fantasies of being abducted and experimented on. They had mind control, so i could never move. It was about the time i started getting interested in sex, and the abduction fantasies turned me on.

When i was 13 or 14 i found out what bondage was through my boyfriend at the time. We didn't do anything of course (back when going up a girl's shirt was a big deal!), he just said he was turned on by it (while chatting to each other online!). I didn't know what bondage was so he had to explain. He said that the two people could take turns at "having all the fun". I thought having all the fun was being tied up, and he thought having all the fun was doing stuff to the tied up person. It was then that i realized what i wanted, though i didn't pursue it until a few years later when "normal" sexual things were no longer new and exciting.

 

[Marquis]

He said that the two people could take turns at "having all the fun". I thought having all the fun was being tied up, and he thought having all the fun was doing stuff to the tied up person.

That is the true beauty of BDSM right there. The Yin and the Yang. The perfection through opposition.

 

[rosco rathbone]

That is the true beauty of BDSM right there. The Yin and the Yang. The perfection through opposition. Ready to blow this taco stand, sugar? The valet has the beemer outside. *checks cell phone*Let's go, little lady.

Chuckling.


I can so see you with a little "Scorpio" medallion around your neck kicking some shit like that to the wide-eyed girlies...

 

[Marquis]

Blowing up my spot huh?