What excites men about a woman

[angela40]

Men in this community ask all the questions. I shall ask a simple one.
WHAT EXCITES MEN ABOUT A WOMAN
I been called a slut, cum whore and other names. Those words alone excites many men
There must be something else about us?

 

[extreme_hetro_sex]

Men in this community ask all the questions. I shall ask a simple one.
WHAT EXCITES MEN ABOUT A WOMAN
I been called a slut, cum whore and other names. Those words alone excites many men
There must be something else about us?

For me, it's self confidence and intelligence. Yes, there are obvious other things too that excites me.

 

[suckonsimon]

I'll have a go, Angela! And thank you for the question!

There is huge appeal for me in feminine beauty: a lovely face and smile, shapeliness, well chosen attire, movement; and also the beauty of a woman's personality and responses to a courteous man. All that is in sharp contrast to what you mention in your OP which I see as momentary excitements in the context of hot action and in that context can [I hope] be received as complimentary.

In terms of the excitement of sex with a woman, for me it's the contrast of soft smooth curves against masculine muscle and hairiness, and then - Oh Joy! - the incredibly gorgeous feeling of going in to her warm moist silkiness which for a man is cock-heaven indeed.

For me, the excitement of female orgasm, the prowess of being the cause of it, the skill of 'maintaining' it for her maximum fulfillment and joy - that's a very deep excitement; it's like the reason for my masculinity: to take a woman into high orbits of joy. That is for me profoundly exciting!

 

[Semper_Virilis]

I'll have a go, Angela! And thank you for the question!

There is huge appeal for me in feminine beauty: a lovely face and smile, shapeliness, well chosen attire, movement; and also the beauty of a woman's personality and responses to a courteous man. All that is in sharp contrast to what you mention in your OP which I see as momentary excitements in the context of hot action and in that context can [I hope] be received as complimentary.

In terms of the excitement of sex with a woman, for me it's the contrast of soft smooth curves against masculine muscle and hairiness, and then - Oh Joy! - the incredibly gorgeous feeling of going in to her warm moist silkiness which for a man is cock-heaven indeed.

For me, the excitement of female orgasm, the prowess of being the cause of it, the skill of 'maintaining' it for her maximum fulfillment and joy - that's a very deep excitement; it's like the reason for my masculinity: to take a woman into high orbits of joy. That is for me profoundly exciting!

Wow, can't add much to that. My feelings exactly, but much more eloquent!

 

[JackOffer]

Being a total slut!

 

[OpenMouth]

God, loads of things.

Attitude, confidence, posture. Lips, boobs, legs.

Stylish clothes, hair and makeup, smoking.

I love so many different types and ages of women... X to you all!

 

[ironfelix]

Intelligence, and confidence in the sexiness of her own body, whatever shape or size.

 

[lantanarunner]

A positive attitude. I honestly cannot think of anything sexier than that.

 

[tryn2Bgood]

A positive attitude. I honestly cannot think of anything sexier than that.

I like that answer!

 

[TheWhiteBull]

It can honestly be any number of things. Ive been with women for how they looked, what their personality was like, how kinky they were.

 

[Nezhul]

Foe me, it's good manners and lack of vulgarity. Honesty, cheerfulness and a sense of humor, overall friendliness and easygoingness. Good feminine clothes, a hairdo and makeup that show she takes care of herself.

That's what I pay attention to in the first place.

Also I like if a girl lacks bad habits and is independent - doesn't want to sit on my neck and use my wallet right away.
I'm all for paying for a restaurant or buying a few trinkets, but I've met women who thought it's OK to order several $15 glasses of champagne on the very first date and then expect me to pay $100 bill when we barely know each other. I mean, there are limits - I don't mind dishing those money, but that's plainly indecent to ask of a guy you just met, and is a great turn-off for me. Ant it wasn't like she was a spoiled girl from a rich family too - she just thought it's OK to have fun on the date at mine expense.
Not to mention drinking as much on the first date on a weekday is poor taste in and on itself. Cut that date short and excused myself.

p.s. I don't know how in US, but sums of money I'm talking about are very big for Russia - what with lots of people making less than $500 a month.

 

[JaySon49]

A nice face and a great smile. Next a projection of strength and confidence in herself and her ability to say what she wants from a man, including that she expects to be treated like a Goddess.

 

[RedSilk69]

Foe me, it's good manners and lack of vulgarity. Honesty, cheerfulness and a sense of humor, overall friendliness and easygoingness. Good feminine clothes, a hairdo and makeup that show she takes care of herself.

That's what I pay attention to in the first place.

Also I like if a girl lacks bad habits and is independent - doesn't want to sit on my neck and use my wallet right away.
I'm all for paying for a restaurant or buying a few trinkets, but I've met women who thought it's OK to order several $15 glasses of champagne on the very first date and then expect me to pay $100 bill when we barely know each other. I mean, there are limits - I don't mind dishing those money, but that's plainly indecent to ask of a guy you just met, and is a great turn-off for me. Ant it wasn't like she was a spoiled girl from a rich family too - she just thought it's OK to have fun on the date at mine expense.
Not to mention drinking as much on the first date on a weekday is poor taste in and on itself. Cut that date short and excused myself.

p.s. I don't know how in US, but sums of money I'm talking about are very big for Russia - what with lots of people making less than $500 a month.

Can I translate? "I want to date women who carry themselves like Sex and the City, but I get upset when they want Sex and the City-type crap."

Change your criteria for women you take on dates. If you choose women a 24-yr-old dick jumps to, you're going to get a disproportionate number of immature women.

 

[Rawb138]

You asked specifically what "excites" men about women.
Though I share a lot of what has been said here as far as what I like about women or find attractive, what excites me is something altogether different.
And it can be different things at different times.

It is safe to say however that I will almost always be excited by a woman with who exudes a flagrant sexuality. One that is obviously aware of not only her ability to excite a man but she is excited by her sexual power and by sex itself.

Class or sophistication or "model looks" has nothing to do with any of this--at least not for me.

I've seen what I'm sure most people would consider an "LA 8" being performative in a public setting and it is unappealing simply because of the attitude she carries as she tries to elicit reaction or attention.
I don't judge this or think it's "wrong" or show a lack of character, I just mean that if she is coming from a place of a desire for attention simply to get attention and that includes no sexual need or heat, I just don't find it interesting. (generally)

Conversely I've seen women who might be considered "below average" by many to be scaldingly hot due to their interest in sex and ability to let a sexual moment or feeling begin to take them over.

If a woman shows a desire and approach to sex that is akin to the way "a man" does, I find that very exiting--women who are voyeurs, who like porn, who take bold ownership of their sexual feelings, orgasms,etc...

For this reason I find a lot of older women more sexy because they have sort of put down some of the baggage of society's expectations of who they should be or how they should look to be considered sexy.

 

[Nezhul]

Can I translate? "I want to date women who carry themselves like Sex and the City, but I get upset when they want Sex and the City-type crap."

Change your criteria for women you take on dates. If you choose women a 24-yr-old dick jumps to, you're going to get a disproportionate number of immature women.

Not at all, most of my dates were just fine with fitting my criteria.

I don't know what impression you got, but I didn't say I'm against paying somewhat for a date with a girl. I can pay for movie tickets or a meal at KFC and not blink an eye.
I just don't think it's a healthy way to start a relationship - checking out how much booze will a guy whom you know for 15 minutes will buy you.
Or asking for expensive jewelry on a second date.

That's clearly a case of women caring for money rather than trying to get to know me and have fun together. Yes, I don't like such women. I don't think that a girlfirnd should become a service you absolutely must pay for or else she's not interested.

In fact, the majority of girls I've dated flat-out refused to let me pay for them on the first few dates, even in a small way like ice cream, because they don't want to be indebted to a man they barely know. I heard stories of men paying for a meal and then asking for sex in return, not wishing to take "no" for an answer. Those - are assholes, and they happen often in our world, so I'm not all that surprised by girls asking for free dates or equally shared checks.

If you are okay with buying your way into a woman - fine, I won't stop you. But in my opinion, a girl worthy of my time will want to have a date with me while simply having a walk in a park or over a cup of coffee instead of an expensive meal.
It's the dialogue that's important. Not physical tokens of being ready to dish cash her way.
If one of the main requirements of a girlfirend is my full wallet - I would rather find myself another girl who'd be interested in ME and build up the relationship based on equality rather than endless presents and free meals.

 

[angela40]

You are the man I would love to bits, I tried many times, then the icing melted away xxx

 

[genxer36]

She is exciting

Her beautiful smile. Her incredible eyes. Her flirtatious nature. Her witty remarks. Our great chemistry. Her soft curves. Her kissable lips. Her exquisite scent.


For a stranger on the street. Her warm smile and beautiful eyes catch me. Then of course I will give her the once over, and check out the rest of her.

 

[SissySalina]

eyes and a cute nose with a small mouth.

 

[LibraStud]

From the first conversation, I felt she was interested in me. The chemistry was amazing. She is intelligent and can carry on a conversation. I am a bit introverted.

After a few dates, she calls me and says "I woke up today and you were on my mind." She teases me this way and tells me how much she enjoys my company. I am aroused by her voice. Together we enjoy each other more each day.

We both know when the time is right, we will have a wonderful sex life merely because we care for each other this way.

 

[Desiremakesmeweak]

Everyone's an individual.

Aren't they?

I like to perceive the individual - their authentic self.

Consequently, whilst I WOULD produce Katy Perry in a show or a movie, and I certainly do applaud whoever is her stylist, I'd want to be able to see past that to actually be 'interested,' in that sense.

 

[PrincepsCyberius]

Men in this community ask all the questions. I shall ask a simple one.
WHAT EXCITES MEN ABOUT A WOMAN
I been called a slut, cum whore and other names. Those words alone excites many men
There must be something else about us?

Personally, I do not want a woman who is "a slut, cum whore and other" such degrading things.

What excites me is a lady with wit, intelligence, and intellectual curiosity.

Of course, once we get behind the bedroom (or other closed) doors, it helps if she's passionate instinctively. If not, I find ways to arouse those passions.

 

[Carnevil9]

Confidence and intelligence would have to top the list. And good grammar always makes my dick hard.

 

[Freebird49]

What excites me about a woman?

Men in this community ask all the questions. I shall ask a simple one.
WHAT EXCITES MEN ABOUT A WOMAN
I been called a slut, cum whore and other names. Those words alone excites many men
There must be something else about us?

It's not only the physical beauty.. it also includes the way she carries herself - her selection of outfits. If a guy sees a beautiful (and well built) lady and she notices him and smiles in acknowledgement then this is a plus - until she opens her mouth and can't articulate that beauty into a full coherent sentence.

So beauty, self confidence and articulation are keys for me.

 

[HumasWanderingWeiner]

For starters they have two playthings up top and they have an innie that interlocks with my outie. After that it gets a lot more complicated, so let's just keep things simple.

 

[live4thebj]

Informing me she is a mom that loves to suck and fuck.