What exactly turns you on about your wife or girlfriend being with another man? Past or Present?

[Mu5tang]

Yeah, I’d say 4-5 times a day is pretty intense fucking, especially with a big cock. She must have been pretty stretched out when she got back.

Lol. She did say she was a bit tender, making the trip home a little uncomfortable sitting for long periods. Pelvic muscles and ass cheeks. Didn't really notice anything stretched out. She said, him knowing I gave her permission to play, amped him up.

 

[waldo75]

My wife was presented an opportunity to experience a much larger cock, from a younger, married co-worker while traveling for work. Even though she was intrigued, she politely declined his invitation. She told me about his offer. She said it was a running joke based on 'race / size' since he was mixed. One evening after the group went for dinner, while heading back to the hotel, he pulled it out to show her. She said she did touch it, and made him hard but nothing else.

We would talk about it occasionally, and I told her if it was safe, she could play. She said she wouldn't be able to take him if she wanted to due to his size. I told her my offer stood. A few more trips happened but he didn't travel.

In May of last year, a voluntary 2day training seminar was happening in Cincinnati. I told her to see if "your friend" was going and if not suggest him to go. She admitted that she was thinking alot about it and would like to try "it".

He fucked her 11 times in 2 1/2 days.

Wow you just described a huge fantasy of mine! I'd love for my wife to experience this then describe me the intimate details of her experiences.

 

[Mu5tang]

Wow you just described a huge fantasy of mine!

It was a fantasy also, which led to me talking about her traveling group. Playfully asking if she knew of any of her colleagues secretly hooking up since they all travel together, sometimes a couple weeks at a time. She was sure there was a few. She said her close friend has. That's what led me to ask if she was ever offered. That's when she mentioned this guy, and all flirting and joking about his size. It made for a unique situation, so I said she could have an experience if she wanted. She was reluctant for many reasons (caught/rumors by co-workers, my reaction if she really did, and if she could physically 'take him').

She actually told her close friend that I gave her permission.. and that friend, was the one who got her to finally partake.

 

[Jay142]

For me, there were always pressures on us as a couple between working, raising kids, PTA meetings, dance classes, sporting events, etc. that would interfere with our sex lives. However, on occasion, we could break out of those routines. My wife would become this hyper-sexual person, who was able to turn on another man to the point where they both wanted to fuck each other. His wanting her made her more sexually attractive to me. Seeing her so hot that she wanted to fuck him added to the pleasure. It was also like watching a live porn star. He'd fuck her, then I'd fuck her, then he'd take her again, and then it was my turn again. Sometimes, we'd spit-roast her, too. She loved having both nipples sucked on at the same time. For her, I think after getting older and having kids, she didn't feel as sexy either. Having another man crave to fuck her changed that. Believing you are sexy is the biggest part of being sexy. It was fun while it lasted.

 

[lil_pete]

There's lot of guys out there who write about their wives etc with other men. What exactly turns you on about it?

A fetish being realised? Actually watching her?
Knowing what she's really like and imagining her giving and receiving the same with someone else? Feeling submissive about it?

For me its sort of erotic knowing what she like and watching her let go the same way with another man. ie seeing her display what turns her on. And knowing that she very desirable to other men who now have the pleasure that I have experienced.

Cum on let me know!

For me it is the porn factor.
All your favorite porn you ever watched becomes like a girly magazine that shows very tame boob pics, nice but....
Watching your wife... GOD DAMN!!!!
It's surreal, no bull$hit:
- you can smell the sex, her musky odor
- you can hear the sex, not the vocals but the wet sounds, and THEN wow! you have to hear pussy farts/queefs when the cock is large especially thick, plays the pussy trumpet like the whole brass section of a philharmonic orchestra!
- you can feel..... well... After... gaping cum filled and you enter this well used pussy that you have become so very familiar with over years and many times you have...
It's void of any type of feeling/friction, you may hear "you feel like nothing" or "I can't feel you" yet within moments and I do mean moments, under a minute a HUGE intense ejaculation (where I have almost blacked out) and you are Done!
Yes sir, she is by far my favorite porn star ever!

 

[waldo75]

It was a fantasy also, which led to me talking about her traveling group. Playfully asking if she knew of any of her colleagues secretly hooking up since they all travel together, sometimes a couple weeks at a time. She was sure there was a few. She said her close friend has. That's what led me to ask if she was ever offered. That's when she mentioned this guy, and all flirting and joking about his size. It made for a unique situation, so I said she could have an experience if she wanted. She was reluctant for many reasons (caught/rumors by co-workers, my reaction if she really did, and if she could physically 'take him').

She actually told her close friend that I gave her permission.. and that friend, was the one who got her to finally partake.

My wife has an ex-coworker who I know she texts with regularly, and I suspect it gets a little flirty at times. I'm waiting for the right moment to suggest I'd be OK with her playing with him.

 

[Mu5tang]

My wife has an ex-coworker who I know she texts with regularly, and I suspect it gets a little flirty at times. I'm waiting for the right moment to suggest I'd be OK with her playing with him.

Does she travel? Oh, I see you said ex-coworker...

 

[OneEyedSteve]

Love the idea of guys jerking off to her pics

 

[dingdongditchding]

There's lot of guys out there who write about their wives etc with other men. What exactly turns you on about it?

A fetish being realised? Actually watching her?
Knowing what she's really like and imagining her giving and receiving the same with someone else? Feeling submissive about it?

For me its sort of erotic knowing what she like and watching her let go the same way with another man. ie seeing her display what turns her on. And knowing that she very desirable to other men who now have the pleasure that I have experienced.

Cum on let me know!

when I was married I wanted to watch and also wanted to end up playing with the male too. Suck his cock while she watches and make comments. Sexy comments. Clean up duty is a kink I have.

 

[Nellie60]

when I was married I wanted to watch and also wanted to end up playing with the male too. Suck his cock while she watches and make comments. Sexy comments. Clean up duty is a kink I have.

I am solely into watching her please another man and him to enjoy my girl, to experience what I have, particularly watching her make him cum

 

[dingdongditchding]

I am solely into watching her please another man and him to enjoy my girl, to experience what I have, particularly watching her make him cum

I prob have a cum fetish

 

[dingdongditchding]

For me, there were always pressures on us as a couple between working, raising kids, PTA meetings, dance classes, sporting events, etc. that would interfere with our sex lives. However, on occasion, we could break out of those routines. My wife would become this hyper-sexual person, who was able to turn on another man to the point where they both wanted to fuck each other. His wanting her made her more sexually attractive to me. Seeing her so hot that she wanted to fuck him added to the pleasure. It was also like watching a live porn star. He'd fuck her, then I'd fuck her, then he'd take her again, and then it was my turn again. Sometimes, we'd spit-roast her, too. She loved having both nipples sucked on at the same time. For her, I think after getting older and having kids, she didn't feel as sexy either. Having another man crave to fuck her changed that. Believing you are sexy is the biggest part of being sexy. It was fun while it lasted.

good post, makes a lot of sense. Id love to a 3rd special friend for a couple. I am open to sucking his cock as well. Eating the creampie he leaves in her.

 

[DickandDoof]

What turns me on about it? Exactly nothing.

 

[Hipshot1554]

Hey guys - ever think that sharing is your way of bragging?

Agreed!

 

[Nellie60]

If she stunning yes and yes! Seeing other men attracted to her!

 

[SPORTZDOK]

With my 1 Ex, we had talked about playing with another Couple and it never materialized. Ever since I have, off & on fantasized about seeing her take another guy's cock. No idea why, it just started in my head and ever since, the thought of her swallowing another guy's cum or taking his load inside her, still gets me off to this day. Haven't been with her in over 10 years.
Now the HotWife videos are so plentiful, they keep the fantasy going, since my current GF, is not into sharing At All.

 

[Sgts19]

I"ve/we've had this experience with couples and after of our get togethers I couldn't get enough of her for weeks, hyper horny. Worked for us but everyone's different

 

[WildHawthorne]

Watching her perform her fantastic cock sucking skills on another guy.

 

[LeeKee]

For me, there were always pressures on us as a couple between working, raising kids, PTA meetings, dance classes, sporting events, etc. that would interfere with our sex lives. However, on occasion, we could break out of those routines. My wife would become this hyper-sexual person, who was able to turn on another man to the point where they both wanted to fuck each other. His wanting her made her more sexually attractive to me. Seeing her so hot that she wanted to fuck him added to the pleasure. It was also like watching a live porn star. He'd fuck her, then I'd fuck her, then he'd take her again, and then it was my turn again. Sometimes, we'd spit-roast her, too. She loved having both nipples sucked on at the same time. For her, I think after getting older and having kids, she didn't feel as sexy either. Having another man crave to fuck her changed that. Believing you are sexy is the biggest part of being sexy. It was fun while it lasted.

Well said and pretty much sums up what id love to experience with my wife.

 

[BillyWalrus]

What turns me on about it? Exactly nothing.

You took the words right out of my mouth lol! Exactly nothing!

 

[LMWM321]

You took the words right out of my mouth lol! Exactly nothing!

And I totally understand that! Indeed, if you asked me during the first 20 years of our marriage I would have said the same thing.

..I'm curious as to why some are okay with it but others are not. Speaking only for myself, it is NOT because I'm ambivalent about my marriage. Not at all. ..I adore my wife and I am very protective of her and our partnership. ..But something changed after 20 years for us. ..It's like all worries about the permanence of our marriage fell away, so I have no anxieties about it.

Maybe I'll start another thread asking "why some are okay with and it and others are not."

 

[BillyWalrus]

Maybe I'll start another thread asking why some are okay with and it and others are not.

Yes. It would be a good thread I think.

 

[Mu5tang]

With my 1 Ex, we had talked about playing with another Couple and it never materialized. Ever since I have, off & on fantasized about seeing her take another guy's cock. No idea why, it just started in my head and ever since, the thought of her swallowing another guy's cum or taking his load inside her, still gets me off to this day. Haven't been with her in over 10 years.
Now the HotWife videos are so plentiful, they keep the fantasy going, since my current GF, is not into sharing At All.

It was pillow talk for us too for many years. Hotwife videos made her extremely horny, and she would talk about the idea as we fucked. She said it was only a fantasy and would probably never happen. We didn't know anyone we would trust to be open to it, and she would not fuck a stranger. But eventually an opportunity presented itself and the fantasy happened.

 

[PFWilly]

It was pillow talk for us too for many years. Hotwife videos made her extremely horny, and she would talk about the idea as we fucked. She said it was only a fantasy and would probably never happen. We didn't know anyone we would trust to be open to it, and she would not fuck a stranger. But eventually an opportunity presented itself and the fantasy happened.

A lot of pillow talk in our bed eventually led to my wife’s two year sexual adventures with her work colleague. They traveled to various company events during that period, and always had adjoining hotel rooms. She shared a lot of details with me.

She had a very good time, and the affair helped her overcome some early sexual trauma.

I fully supported her “efforts”.

PS. The first time they fucked was on his desk. Both fully clothed, her skirt up, panties pulled aside, he pulled his cock out of his pants, and pushed in…

 

[Mu5tang]

Almost exactly same senerio, with us.