what do you like about BBW?

SuthernCumfort

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Okey so if this doesnt go here im sure they will move it. But being a BBW myself, what do you men find so special about us? I am very sexual. But sometimes I have no self confidence at all. I was thinking of posting some pics on lit. But am too afraid too. Negativity and myself dont go well together and I stress if someone doesnt like me.

So all you BBW lovers out there, give this a yell tell me what you like about us.
 
A genuine and natural beauty that cant be described.

the self confidence knowing you are a beautiful person.

The curves that go on forever.

Everything about you.
 
VaGentleOne said:
A genuine and natural beauty that cant be described.

the self confidence knowing you are a beautiful person.

The curves that go on forever.

Everything about you.
Amen to that...

I love having something to hold on to beside skin and bones. How soft they feel...the great butt and soft breasts are on top of all that.
 
I like larger women because they are better in bed, they are more appreciative, they are not so vain, they are happy to satisfy, I could go on and on...
 
Big women can be SO beautiful. But the key phrase is "CAN BE." But, just like being too skinny, being too big can be a turn off.
 
SuthernCumfort said:
Okey so if this doesnt go here im sure they will move it. But being a BBW myself, what do you men find so special about us? I am very sexual. But sometimes I have no self confidence at all. I was thinking of posting some pics on lit. But am too afraid too. Negativity and myself dont go well together and I stress if someone doesnt like me.

So all you BBW lovers out there, give this a yell tell me what you like about us.
To begin with, we BBW lovers can shower you with affection, but the self-confidence has to come from a love of self foremost, I think. When you have this, you look different...and the glow about you just magnifies your physical sexiness tenfold. Some of that can come from our positive attention, I agree...but it's better when you already have it in you and you just need us to compliment it...like a dash of spice.

But speaking on a purely physical point of view, even though I can and do love slim and skinny women with an equal fervor...your overall thickness, curves, breasts, legs, ass, lips, everything...it's a real woman's body that doesn't have to be skinny to be sexy and has what's naturally big that others try to amplify with implants. You are fun to hold and touch, to want to hold and touch...and would never fail to get me hard if you wear the right thing...or better yet, nothing at all!

No matter what, a voluptuous, thick, BBW lady will always turn my head. Bottom line. Can't front on that and I never WANT to! :heart:
 
SuthernCumfort said:
So all you BBW lovers out there, give this a yell tell me what you like about us.


Personally speaking, I just love to put my arms around a curvy woman. I've had skinny girlfriends and they just didn't turn me on in the same way. It's not about the tits (though they do figure!!), it's the whole package. Someone used the perfect word above, voluptuous. That word just oozes sexiness...from a personal point of view..ahem
 
SuthernCumfort said:
I was thinking of posting some pics on lit. But am too afraid too.


I shouldn't worry about a negative reaction to your pics. From what I've seen in other threads, any pictures of BBW are greeted with lusty grunts of approval!
 
i thought the same thing. i just posted some pictures of me that i was comfortable with. cropped the hell out of 'em. well i still do. lol

you can always delete them honey. give it a try if you are really curious

*hugs from a fellow BBW
 
dba said:
I like larger women because they are better in bed, they are more appreciative, they are not so vain, they are happy to satisfy, I could go on and on...

Is it possible to sing the praises and virtues of one body type without putting down another?

I have read many similarly themed blogs and threads..... female body image, the unrealistic portrayals of the unobtainable female ideal, narrow concepts of beauty which cause esteem issues in women, extolling the beauty of the larger woman etc etc. So far so good, I am so with you!

I think big women are beautiful...I don't understand why one gets pitted against the other.
 
I think it all comes down to attitude. Big or small, naturally thin or curvy, women who celebrate their bodies, love themselves, and take care of their appearance come across as confident, sexy, and HAPPY with themselves.

When that happens, look out ~ men flock to them.

Positive attitude, generous nature, caring, concern, and friendliness all go a long way ~ no matter your shape or size.

Don't be afraid to post a pic thread ~ I guarantee you'll have more positives than negatives out here. And the negatives ~ that's what "ignore" is for hon. ;)

Best of luck to you!
 
SuthernCumfort said:
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So all you BBW lovers out there, give this a yell tell me what you like about us.
The very first thoughts that popped into mind when I read this:

Warm and Soft​

I also enjoy being with someone my own size (or even a bit larger), feeling that we're "equals", and not worrying about crushing or smothering her.



And to those concerned that this someone is "against" other women, I also like petite ladies too. Kind of like steak and lobster!
 
bbwsadieml said:
I think it all comes down to attitude. Big or small, naturally thin or curvy, women who celebrate their bodies, love themselves, and take care of their appearance come across as confident, sexy, and HAPPY with themselves.

When that happens, look out ~ men flock to them.

Positive attitude, generous nature, caring, concern, and friendliness all go a long way ~ no matter your shape or size.

Don't be afraid to post a pic thread ~ I guarantee you'll have more positives than negatives out here. And the negatives ~ that's what "ignore" is for hon. ;)

Best of luck to you!
I love your words! :)

And your avatar just...umm...seals the deal! I'd love to explore some positive attitudes and friendlness with YOU, my dear... :heart:
 
Great cars, my wife has the little z3 soft top....very reiable.....! :kiss:
 
bhg08054 said:
The very first thoughts that popped into mind when I read this:

Warm and Soft​

I also enjoy being with someone my own size (or even a bit larger), feeling that we're "equals", and not worrying about crushing or smothering her.



And to those concerned that this someone is "against" other women, I also like petite ladies too. Kind of like steak and lobster!

Honey, I seem to have been misunderstood...I'm not looking for affirmation nor being precious.....this thread quite rightly is a celebration of big women and thats great......I'm just pointing out that it can be done without sinking the boot into other women.....
 
hey hun,
I myself am a bbw and I don't have big tits seems like all i have is a big body. I suffer from huge depression and sadness being as big as I am. I am also very sexual and love it when i find a guy who likes bigger girls. Unfortanly they just want to fuck me. I am never the dating type. Anyways, I think every woman is beautiful in every shape and form. :) as long as your happy with yourself!
 
SuthernCumfort said:
Okey so if this doesnt go here im sure they will move it. But being a BBW myself, what do you men find so special about us? I am very sexual. But sometimes I have no self confidence at all. I was thinking of posting some pics on lit. But am too afraid too. Negativity and myself dont go well together and I stress if someone doesnt like me.

So all you BBW lovers out there, give this a yell tell me what you like about us.


:heart: I love this thread!!! :heart:
 
Princess_Pleaseyou said:
hey hun,
I myself am a bbw and I don't have big tits seems like all i have is a big body.
Nothing wrong with that, lady. Breasts get a lot of play and since they're one of the main focii of physical sexuality, the bigger ones tend to get better press. But not ALWAYS. All breasts are wonderful at any size, and as any man who really loves women will tell you, it's the whole package including the inside that makes you sexy. Just be you and emphasize what you find sexy about yourself. We'll appreciate you, trust me!

Princess_Pleaseyou said:
I am also very sexual and love it when i find a guy who likes bigger girls. Unfortanly they just want to fuck me. I am never the dating type.
You just haven't found the right person yet. Whenever we want more than sex, it has to come from a different place and that sort of thing is never fair to anyone. Hell, it ain't even fair when it's just about sex. But never think in absolutes. There's someone — and often someONES — for everyone out there.
 
SuthernCumfort said:
Okey so if this doesnt go here im sure they will move it. But being a BBW myself, what do you men find so special about us? I am very sexual. But sometimes I have no self confidence at all. I was thinking of posting some pics on lit. But am too afraid too. Negativity and myself dont go well together and I stress if someone doesnt like me.

So all you BBW lovers out there, give this a yell tell me what you like about us.

You know I have no idea why men find BBW's special perhaps it's the "earth goddess" aspect ... all curves, softness and warmth? I'm just very glad that the men on here have the ability to like all types of woman and see the specialness in all of us.

As a fellow stresser, hun ... all I can say is that there will always be someone who doesn't like your pics whether you are a size 0 or a size 30. As long as you like them and are happy with them ... post them. I can guarantee that your self-confidence will grow with the wonderful appreciation of the guys (and girls ;)) on Lit. :rose:

Wishing you lots of compliments and fun times if you decide to post the pics :kiss:
 
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