What do we miss about our ex?

TonyUK

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An easy thread here; however happy we are with our present squeeze, I guess most of us miss something about our ex - something thye new one won't do maybe?
I'll start; my previous girlfriend used to love watching me jerk off and loved me watching her masterbate too! Nothing more sexy than mutual masterbation, complete comfort with each other right?
 
I miss cooking with my ex...he and I could spend hours cooking..or in food stores...deciding what to make...my BF...his idea of cooking if microwavinga TV dinner.
 
I'll use the ex-bf since I consider him THE EX as opposed to "the ex" which was my ex-husband.

Most of all, I missed laughing in bed with him. My, did we have fun.

Sexually, I miss when he'd masturbate in front of me, to me, looking directly in my eyes so I knew he was thinking of me. That was an incredible turn on.

That, and when he came in me, drank it out, and kissed me afterwards.

He was good at opening my eyes to new experiences, that's for sure.

*lost in a nostalgic moment*
 
The one thing I regret not doing with my particular ex, (we did do most things) was going down on her after cumming in her - damn!!!

"You'll never regret the things you do as much as the things you don't!"
 
TonyUK said:
An easy thread here; however happy we are with our present squeeze, I guess most of us miss something about our ex - something thye new one won't do maybe?
I'll start; my previous girlfriend used to love watching me jerk off and loved me watching her masterbate too! Nothing more sexy than mutual masterbation, complete comfort with each other right?

I don't have a present squeeze. :)

I miss sex weekends, where sex and fun is the focus. So much time to do all the things we wanted in a relaxed no rushed way. Its Euphoric.

I miss watching tons of movies. He would download them offline and burn them to dvd, then send them to me, we watched them together.

I miss the comfort of talking to someone that knows me, someone I feel close to. Long talks, having sex, having fun.
 
Lorelei_11 said:
I don't have a present squeeze. :)

I miss sex weekends, where sex and fun is the focus. So much time to do all the things we wanted in a relaxed no rushed way. Its Euphoric.

I miss watching tons of movies. He would download them offline and burn them to dvd, then send them to me, we watched them together.

I miss the comfort of talking to someone that knows me, someone I feel close to. Long talks, having sex, having fun.

Hey Lorelei, I'm sure you'll get all this back - and sooo much more!
 
I know what I don't misss....
But the dirty talk was great, she was so meek and mild in public but once we got going she could make sailors blush.
 
TonyUK said:
An easy thread here; however happy we are with our present squeeze, I guess most of us miss something about our ex - something the new one won't do maybe??

What I miss is something the S/O can't do.. he doesn't drive...
Now before this goes way out in the wrong direction...
What I miss most is when we would be in our different trucks (yes big rigs) & chatting to each other on the CB or the company 2-Way.... we did the same run 5 nights a week at night so boredom was a big concern.... We would talk for hours on end... it was 3 hrs each way sooo...
this is about the only thing I miss... trust me....
 

There is one woman that pasted through my life that left incredible memories. This is going back a few years. Her job envolved a lot of travel or so I was told. We could only spend weekends together and the occassional one day'r at her place. We would either be out at fine resturants or perparing delicious gourmet meals together. Perhaps going to NYC for a evening of fun or just cuddling up in front of the fireplace. We were inseperable. The love making was that of two insatiable animals. It would go on for hours and hours. We would completly draining one another to total exhaustion. Only to start all over again.

I was very much madly in love with this woman and wanted to spend my entire life with her. The conversation with her mid week married lover sent that dream crashing into the rocks. She had several homes and would stay at her other Connecticut home during the week. When I confronted her about him she told me she loved us both in different ways. I gave her chance of making a decision. She told me she could not choose. So I made that decision for her. Probably one of the hardest things I'd ever done. Lots of emotions involved.

Still searching for that same passion and love...:( Still consider myself a very lucky man. So many never find what I had!
 
aww *hugs* Jaded, I'm sure you'll find your dream girl out there....and plenty of sex along the way.
 
TonyUK said:
An easy thread here; however happy we are with our present squeeze, I guess most of us miss something about our ex - something thye new one won't do maybe?
I'll start; my previous girlfriend used to love watching me jerk off and loved me watching her masterbate too! Nothing more sexy than mutual masterbation, complete comfort with each other right?
I really missed the way she kissed. She would vary it depending on the situation, however, it always managed to make me feel very close and intimate with her. Yup, the kissing for sure.
 
Guttergoddess said:
aww *hugs* Jaded, I'm sure you'll find your dream girl out there....and plenty of sex along the way.

Thanks GG... :kiss: Guess I'm on quest of the insatiable lover and best friend... ;) Take care of your very naughty self... :p :p :p
 
I'm lucky...I have that with my BF....even if we can't do the "day to day" of living together....sides...when ya save up for 2 weeks at a time...the sex is WILD ;)
 
Guttergoddess said:
I'm lucky...I have that with my BF....even if we can't do the "day to day" of living together....sides...when ya save up for 2 weeks at a time...the sex is WILD ;)

Ahhhh, a relationship of pure animal lust... :D Absolutely nothing wrong with nasty sex and super hard fucking...:eek:

Sex toy girl between visits... :confused:
 
LOL...it's not just wild sex...we care about each other on a deeper level than I've ever had in any past relationship (my marriage included) We spend a decent amount of our weekend doing silly stuff like watching movies...going shopping...etc....I just am not wired to live with a human being 365 days a year...long term confined spaces annoy me...then I turn into SuperBitch.

And yes, I personally keep Duracell in business :eek:
 
The only thing I miss about my ex, is the money she took when she left. Other than that, glad she's gone.
 
I miss the fact that my ex loved good, high-quality food as much as I did.

I miss her high sex drive.

I miss the way she would smell my armpits when we had sex. I fear I won't ever find a woman who understands the role of smell in sex the way she did.

I miss how she made her very large butt into a very sexy part of her body.

I miss the great example she set for me when it came to communication.

I miss the business we opened up together, which eventually folded after she left me.

Two years later, I'm still trying to get over her. Progress is very slow, but I'm getting there.
 
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The one thing that I miss most about my ex-wife is the anal sex. After my son was born, we were both really horny, but she hadn't completely healed yet. I talked her into trying anal, and she really loved it. She would have the most intense orgasms, and she said some of the nastiest things. She was normally so proper and innocent-acting, but once she got my cock in her ass, she was a wild fuck-beast. Ahh, the memories. The current SO gives me anal every now and then, but she doesn't enjoy it as much. It's just not the same.
 
I know what you mean about the anal thing; my wife and I try it very rarely and succeed even more rarely. My ex had never done it before but we perservered and she too loved it. The only time a girl ever ejaculated with me was her just once, when she was straddling me, my cock deep in her ass and as we both came together, it was like she just peed all over me - it wasn't pee though - unbelievably erotic!!!
 
The only thing I miss from my ex was the way he could get me out of a bad mood after work.
 
He was one of those cook for me, clean for me, me, me, me types. He used to like to watch me wash dishes, and was most tender to me there.
I also miss watching him shave. It was an intimate and unguarded time for him - very unusual.
 
The sex, of course

But more specifically the oral sex. Although she couldn' deep throat, she actually made love to my cock; kissing it, licking it, holding it against her face, etc. She also rimmed me regularly which is great! And, she'd finger my ass while sucking me off, but only after teasing me for what seemed like hours, by just touching my asshole, rubbing it after she licked it, then putting in just the tip of her finger. Fortunately I have a video tape of about five lovemaking sessions with her. Yep, I jerk off to it regularly! No, my current girlfriend doesn't know.
 
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