What constitutes a Sexual Utopia?

[Shendude]

Partially inspired by the SF Erotica thread: What do you think the characteristics of a sexual utopia would be?

I find that, by and large, the stories listed in this thread, fit the bill pretty well.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Here's an example: all or most or (even many) women suddenly become insane. They are institutionalized, which bankrupts the health care system. The government is forced to nationalize health care. New laws and regulations start controlling the lives of these patients, who are turned into sex slaves. Oh, wait, that's a dystopia.

 

[Wanton and wet]

One vision is a world where all the men are perfect in every way and spend their lives making things comfortable for the women of the world . . . and yet, every woman wears glasses . . . Oops! I was thinking of myopia.

 

[fogbank]

. . . and yet, every woman wears glasses . . . Oops! I was thinking of myopia.

Myopia IS my utopia!

I don't know, I think a utopia is impossible for me. I wouldn't want a world where everyone was liberally-minded and there are no taboos (because I like taboos), I wouldn't want a world where everyone was beautiful (because part of the pleasure of beauty is it's rarity), and I wouldn't want a world where all the women have glasses (well, maybe just for a day). In short, I wouldn't want a sexual utopia because part of what makes sex great are all the imperfections, awkwardness, taboos, frustrations, quirks and such.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Well, unfortunately (or fortunately for you) there will always be taboos, not because certain things are actually wrong or taboos make things exciting, but because certain people want to control other people's behavior. The tyrannical side of mankind makes taboos of some kind inevitable. They will give whatever excuses they want, but controlling other people's sex lives gives THEM a sexual thrill. It's an ego/power trip, plain and siimple.

 

[Wanton and wet]

I'm just happy to have someone to control MY sex life . . . It's my personal Utopia.

Monique