What are you thinking now -- re-continued

[LanguageOfLove]

Sounds promising

I wish you the best of luck LOL

Thank you....I was just thinking its been a year since I joined, and this place has really helped my marriage a lot..so why not try to make it even better.

 

[AnalCreampieGiver]

Thank you....I was just thinking its been a year since I joined, and this place has really helped my marriage a lot..so why not try to make it even better.

Anytime

Can't argue with that logic honestly.. there is always room for improvement

 

[emsway]

Like Chinese food.

 

[PrettyLilPussy]

I wonder is it unhealthy to be this horny all the time....

 

[tnman03]

Real life sucks. It's heavy. How does emptiness feel so heavy?

It's not really emptiness, it's numbness. I hope things get better and your more upbeat and positive later.

 

[_valkyrie_]

The posts above have reminded me of The Unbearable Lightness Of Being, by Milan Kundera.

 

[Azuldrgon]

I think numbness is my mind's coping mechanism to avoid dealing with guilt and pain. It's easier to feel nothing than it is to feel everything.

*hugs her tightly*

 

[Jada59]

Mmmm...

 

[SeductiveSarita]

i should be asleep

 

[tnman03]

I think numbness is my mind's coping mechanism to avoid dealing with guilt and pain. It's easier to feel nothing than it is to feel everything.

Coping skills can get out of their normal means and turn us all inside and out. Don't spend to much time thinking and analyzing. Instead spend more time staying busy with little things to occupy your mind. Guilt can become a cancer if you don't let it go and put it behind you.

One of the things I learned was whenever asked how I was or how my day was to simply say "great" and smile. In no time at all it really does become great. Your adopting a positive outlook. One of the worst things in life is dwelling on nothing but negativity or how sad or unhappy that you are. That ends up becoming your norm or your habit. I'd rater focus on being happier.

 

[AnalCreampieGiver]

I have a feeling my thread is going to tank

No biggie though, I kind of knew that it's hard to repeat success

 

[newbiebabe]

I am so glad that today turned around for me... so thankful for a good friend who helped me see it's alright to not always be "on" for others.

 

[lacandy]

It's been exactly two years as of today since I've had real life sex... is there like a Hallmark gift for that? You know like Paper is the gift for your first anniversary??

 

[iamincognito45]

It's been exactly two years as of today since I've had real life sex... is there like a Hallmark gift for that? You know like Paper is the gift for your first anniversary??

My heart breaks for you...

Been there, done that, have a closet full of shirts to prove it...

You deserve better. We all do...

 

[lacandy]

My heart breaks for you...

Been there, done that, have a closet full of shirts to prove it...

You deserve better. We all do...

Wait!! So shirts are the gift? And you have a closet full? We need to help each other out

 

[SassySheDevil]

I think numbness is my mind's coping mechanism to avoid dealing with guilt and pain. It's easier to feel nothing than it is to feel everything.

trust me when the numbness stops. It fucking hurts like hell. I'm sorry for what you are numb to.

 

[JennyNo1]

It's been exactly two years as of today since I've had real life sex... is there like a Hallmark gift for that? You know like Paper is the gift for your first anniversary??

How do you keep up with that, anyway? Did someone say "Take notice, this is it! No more sex!"?

 

[lacandy]

The second year is cotton, right?

This cotton candy pink dildo is close enough.

Thank God for PRIME!

 

[lacandy]

How do you keep up with that, anyway? Did someone say "Take notice, this is it! No more sex!"?

Nope...it just stopped. I tried and got nothing. Gave up trying about a year ago...there's only so many times you can get turned down before it starts to hurt.

And it was Memorial Day weekend...that's how I remember.

 

[JennyNo1]

Nope...it just stopped. I tried and got nothing. Gave up trying about a year ago...there's only so many times you can get turned down before it starts to hurt.

And it was Memorial Day weekend...that's how I remember.

(((Hugs))) I'm sorry. I get it.

 

[funluvinaj]

Nope...it just stopped. I tried and got nothing. Gave up trying about a year ago...there's only so many times you can get turned down before it starts to hurt.

And it was Memorial Day weekend...that's how I remember.

*Hugs you tight* hey lady... I get it. I’m heading towards a year at the end of this summer which may not seem like long for some but it is a long time for me. I could have sex but I want to be more than a hole. Tired of having sex where it feels like there should be money on the nightstand.

 

[LostGirlTink]

It's been exactly two years as of today since I've had real life sex... is there like a Hallmark gift for that? You know like Paper is the gift for your first anniversary??

Hey! Today is 9 years since my husband last touched me.
Cheers?!?!

 

[Azuldrgon]

Hey! Today is 9 years since my husband last touched me.
Cheers?!?!

*hugs* I'm sorry.

 

[LostGirlTink]

*hugs* I'm sorry.

Awww thanks.

His loss. I give a blow job to die for.

 

[Azuldrgon]

Awww thanks.

His loss. I give a blow job to die for.

You're correct in saying his loss.