What Are You Thinking? Continued 5

[Misshotndeep]

Would you all please get off the internet and go read a book? Maybe How to Win Friends and Influence People.

Read the book like 20 times. Funny you bring it up since I have never once seen you use a single technique mentioned in it. just an observation.

 

[Suz_anne]

This is what I'm thinking.

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[Miles Long]

A quiet Sunday can be a very good thing.

 

[parker77]

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always poking the bear, ain’t cha?

 

[fl_openminded]

I wrote that book. Stop trolling me.
Sheesh.

Love you, bb.

Are you the fara that used to have a picture of your mouth on your profile?

 

[mnbreastluver]

Are you the fara that used to have a picture of your mouth on your profile?

She was eating a banana.

 

[fl_openminded]

She was eating a banana.

So that was her? ok, thanks. I haven't been on in a while. Talked to her long time ago . Just saying hi

 

[RcyMtnGrl]

Some people are so condescending. And selfish. And it sucks.

 

[Sweet_Lara]

My really cool dream last night. Unbeknownst to me, my colleagues nominated me for an award from NOAA.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

That this day started out amazing and has taken a complete downward spiral. *

 

[Eisranac]

Interestingly, former smokers can be the most vocal of anyone who is against smoking.

Almost every former smoker I've talked to has said that they can't stand second hand smoke and are really sensitive to it.

 

[Trekka]

There’s a lot of addictions and compulsions that destroy lives and effect other people. Smoking isn’t that unique.

 

[greeneyedvirgin]

Being alone is hard. And lonely.

 

[36524]

******

 

[LurkingPhoenix]

This has been a stressball of a weekend. Thank goodness for people that understand, don't judge, and care.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

I haven't had a lit PG woman say the word, "yes" to me in a long, long time...

 

[LucianaGrace]

I haven't had a lit PG woman say the word, "yes" to me in a long, long time...

Well that’s terrible.

Yes, you’re awesome. Yes, yes, yes. Keep being you.

 

[Wife of Bath]

Being alone is hard. And lonely.

Yes. It is.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

How one simple phone call can turn your bad mood around.

 

[tnman03]

Being alone is hard. And lonely.

Yes. It is.

I guess it's a question of perspective and how much you have going on in your life. Throughout the daily routines, I don't notice it. During the quiet times at night, it becomes noticeable so I redirect my thoughts. While it's nice to have someone in your life or living with you it's just not always meant to be. But both of you made me revisit this thought process again.

 

[beachbaby179]

I guess it's a question of perspective and how much you have going on in your life. Throughout the daily routines, I don't notice it. During the quiet times at night, it becomes noticeable so I redirect my thoughts. While it's nice to have someone in your life or living with you it's just not always meant to be. But both of you made me revisit this thought process again.

It also depends on how you got to be alone. If it's by choice, it still gets lonely, but not as bad (my opinion). But if it sudden, or not your choice, I can see that as being much more unsettling, as in GEVs case.

 

[Plane_Guy]

Being alone is hard. And lonely.

Yes. It is.

I find that this, as well as most things in life, is/are cyclical. While it's tough feeling lonely now, you'll soon find yourself busy with something and the feelings will subside.

I was feeling lonely about two months ago and work got busy and I ended up making a few new friends here.

I guess time will change the way you're both feeling, just give Time time.

And if all else fails, send random PM's to people you find interesting. I can't think of anybody that wouldn't be over the moon getting a random PM from a lovely Lit Lady.

 

[BlackCashmere]

It’s been such a magical week... I wish it didn’t have to end... Magical Thailand... now week 2 of my travels begins......

Seoul bound

 

[Chris_Michael]

It also depends on how you got to be alone. If it's by choice, it still gets lonely, but not as bad (my opinion). But if it sudden, or not your choice, I can see that as being much more unsettling, as in GEVs case.

Yeah but there's nothing worse than 1. being among other people and feeling alone + 2. watching other people be with others.

At least when I'm alone, it's on my terms. I do what I want when I want how I want.

When people say, "Hey you should come out with us," I'm thinking "And sacrifice everything I want to do for absolutely no beneficial gain?"

 

[Plane_Guy]

Yeah but there's nothing worse than 1. being among other people and feeling alone + 2. watching other people be with others.

At least when I'm alone, it's on my terms. I do what I want when I want how I want.

When people say, "Hey you should come out with us," I'm thinking "And sacrifice everything I want to do for absolutely no beneficial gain?"

Party pooper... lol