What Are You Thinking? Continued 4

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I get rather animated when I'm angry or upset, but, I have to feel truly threatened before I act.

I hope I've taught my boys that controlling one's temper takes practice and patience, and oftentimes the patience one must have is with oneself.

I struggle with teaching teenage boys this concept, what with how horrible children are to one another these days. It's understandable that with their emotional immaturity, the tendency is to react first. I'm finding that redirecting the frustration they feel as they grow up is a daunting task, since,
Lord knows, it's been a hundred years since I was a teenager. And I had a different set of stressors as a teen.

*deep breaths*

I remember being a teenage boy (although that was decades ago) and feeling so damn angry for no reason or so incredibly sad with no explanation.

Having supportive parent(s) who can teach an evolving human how to act properly and channel all those crazy hormones goes a long way.

And even if they may not do so now, they will appreciate the effort and guidance later.



At least I know that I did.
 
I remember being a teenage boy (although that was decades ago) and feeling so damn angry for no reason or so incredibly sad with no explanation.

Having supportive parent(s) who can teach an evolving human how to act properly and channel all those crazy hormones goes a long way.

And even if they may not do so now, they will appreciate the effort and guidance later.



At least I know that I did.

Thank you for that..
My oldest told me he felt like he won the lotto when it comes to who he got for a mom.


Which is a very good thing❤
 
Thank you for that..
My oldest told me he felt like he won the lotto when it comes to who he got for a mom.


Which is a very good thing❤

He told you the right of it, a strong, no nonsense mom with a good education who knows the value of work and raising responsible children is priceless.
 
He told you the right of it, a strong, no nonsense mom with a good education who knows the value of work and raising responsible children is priceless.

((hugs))
My oldest is only 16, so coming from him means alot. We've been through, he and I. His younger brother, on the other hand, is only just embarking on the whole "I am Pubescent. Hear me roar!", so it's non stop brotherly love around here at times 😁
 
I am having s craving. I can not figure out what for. So for the last three hours I have been snacking on everything in the hours. Well, this is one way to clean out my cupboards before the winter restock.
 
Thinking about the surprising permissiveness of a girlfriend’s parents. One night we are all out at a party, and went back to their house tipsy. My girlfriend and I slipped up to her bedroom, and I announced to her that I was going to fuck her in the ass. We started making her four-poster bed rock, stupidly oblivious to the fact that her parents were somewhere below us. Her mom came upstairs, stood outside the bedroom door, and simply said, “You two don’t get too carried away in there!”

Sometime later, my girlfriend’s father sat me down in his den. He was an imposing man who’d been an authority figure to me since I was a little boy. Now I’d dated both his daughters, and I thought he was going to read me the riot act. But the gist of what he had to say to me was that he simply didn’t want or need to know everything his children did. Reminded me of the weary father in the Humphrey Bogart version of The Big Sleep. I was growing up in a restrictive Baptist family, and was stunned by his 1970’s country club complacency. I might have been less of a troublemaker for the rest of my youth if he’d at least threatened to kick my ass.
 
Thinking about playing the drinking game Well, I never at a lake house with friends. Someone said she’d never had anal sex and I had to drink. The woman I was seeing at the time was sitting next to me and gave me shit for acknowledging I’d done it, and I was completely surprised that no one else admitted to doing it. I had been thinking for years it was a pretty common thing people did. But not in this crowd. Or else someone was lying. I didn’t get laid that weekend. But there was another woman there who said she’d never done anal, but occasionally expressed curiosity about the sexual practices of our gay friends. I started paying more attention to her.
 
Obviously I’m not doing enough to become popular. I guess I need to show tits, post my face several times a day to get compliments or make up some sort of sob story to garner attention. I think manners have gone by the wayside even online it seems. I’ve been skipped over twice intentionally on a board obviously because I’m not part of some clique. WOW
 
Obviously I’m not doing enough to become popular. I guess I need to show tits, post my face several times a day to get compliments or make up some sort of sob story to garner attention. I think manners have gone by the wayside even online it seems. I’ve been skipped over twice intentionally on a board obviously because I’m not part of some clique. WOW

I appreciate you even without showing your tits :rose:
 
Obviously I’m not doing enough to become popular. I guess I need to show tits, post my face several times a day to get compliments or make up some sort of sob story to garner attention. I think manners have gone by the wayside even online it seems. I’ve been skipped over twice intentionally on a board obviously because I’m not part of some clique. WOW

keep posting, just as you have been. like minds and gracious Litsters will find you.
 
Obviously I’m not doing enough to become popular. I guess I need to show tits, post my face several times a day to get compliments or make up some sort of sob story to garner attention. I think manners have gone by the wayside even online it seems. I’ve been skipped over twice intentionally on a board obviously because I’m not part of some clique. WOW

You're not alone, Cyberbella. Happens to me all the time. Some people on here are so inconsiderate and rude. What's also frustrating is, sometimes I try to contribute and get involved on certain threads, only to be ignored and not acknowledged. Obviously I'm not in their little group of friends, so I should have known better to even try. That's okay, though. I'm not looking to be popular or have fake friends in my circle. :)
 
Obviously I’m not doing enough to become popular. I guess I need to show tits, post my face several times a day to get compliments or make up some sort of sob story to garner attention. I think manners have gone by the wayside even online it seems. I’ve been skipped over twice intentionally on a board obviously because I’m not part of some clique. WOW

It's regrettable that you were skipped in a thread and also rather impolite. Sometimes when that happens to me I look the time stamp to see how much elapsed time occurred. Even then it's not nice to go back and make an edit.

And FWIW I've always considered you as being very popular on this forum.
 
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