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Photog1rl said:
I am thinking that the level of engagement with my question was unexpected and I appreciate it.
We are all here for our own reasons but the lines of common decency don’t vary because we are online. It is reaffirming to see that others agree.
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What about uncommon decency?
 
Photog1rl said:
I am thinking that the level of engagement with my question was unexpected and I appreciate it.
We are all here for our own reasons but the lines of common decency don’t vary because we are online. It is reaffirming to see that others agree.
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i'm here for me. at least for now. not going to say ive made friends here, at least not yet. i do my thing and its cool but yeah we should treat each other right no matter what
 
Photog1rl said:
I'm thinking about Lit friendships and trust. Should how I define a friend from Lit versus a friend in person be different?
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I don't do that. A friend is a friend, no matter where I found them.
Photog1rl said:
Do lies of omission differ from outright lying.
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Yes. They can be just as hurtful. Communication is so important to me. My tolerance for being lied to, no matter the justification, is very low.
I'm not saying we need to know everything about each other but if people choose to keep information from me because they won't like my response to it, rather than trust that I could keep an open mind then I may not be able to forgive them.
Photog1rl said:
Should I be holding folks to the same level of accountability online as I do in person?
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I don't see why not. Just because we keep ourselves anonymous does not mean we get to act in a way that causes harm without consequence.
Photog1rl said:
Does being on Lit as a married person already say all that is needed about someone's trustworthiness?
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Honestly I struggled with this a lot. I would never knowingly enter a relationship with someone who is married or in a serious relationship in person but I've done it here many times.

I consider everyone's individual circumstances. Most of us are here because something is lacking at home. That does not make us bad or untrustworthy people.
Photog1rl said:
At what point should we expect honesty and how do we know if someone is being honest?
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I always expect honesty. Whether I get it is not up to me.
I think I'm a fairly decent judge of character but I have still been let down more than a few times. I can only treat people how I wish to be treated and hope they do the same.
 
Curious about post/lit stalking. Lit has a green light feature that some people leave on, which will say if someone is online and if they are online, also what thread they are in or if they are looking at their PMs. Is it normal or creepy, if someone has the green light on, to stalk where people are on lit, and then make conclusions on the information the green light gives away. If you think I’m talking about you, I’m definitely not.
 
Bry1313 said:
Curious about post/lit stalking. Lit has a green light feature that some people leave on, which will say if someone is online and if they are online, also what thread they are in or if they are looking at their PMs. Is it normal or creepy, if someone has the green light on, to stalk where people are on lit, and then make conclusions on the information the green light gives away. If you think I’m talking about you, I’m definitely not.
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I ditched that as soon as I found it. I don't want to be that visible.
 
I'd say over 95% of the population has been on social media more in this month of September so far than I have in my entire life.. lol
 
Haters gonna hate. Their wins just enable them to hate more. Enablers are just as bad.

Pity really. Life is short.

The day is beautiful. Sun is out. Mild temperatures. Just had my coffee. Think I'll go for a bike ride.
 
Bry1313 said:
Curious about post/lit stalking. Lit has a green light feature that some people leave on, which will say if someone is online and if they are online, also what thread they are in or if they are looking at their PMs. Is it normal or creepy, if someone has the green light on, to stalk where people are on lit, and then make conclusions on the information the green light gives away. If you think I’m talking about you, I’m definitely not.
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You weren't supposed to see me in the farting feet fetish threads. Serves you right for stalking me
 
Bry1313 said:
Curious about post/lit stalking. Lit has a green light feature that some people leave on, which will say if someone is online and if they are online, also what thread they are in or if they are looking at their PMs. Is it normal or creepy, if someone has the green light on, to stalk where people are on lit, and then make conclusions on the information the green light gives away. If you think I’m talking about you, I’m definitely not.
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but since most people don't log out, you only sort of know. Post history is regardless of the green light. I leave it on so people will know if I'm here. i find that a very high percentage of women find that button and hide their presence, and sadly I understand it.
 
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