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Too bad the only one playing with my boobies tomorrow will be the nurse when I get my mammogram.![]()
Wondering if it's my failing that I sometimes can't find anything to say in reply to messages, or if it's that the other person really didn't give me anything to continue the conversation with. Or maybe the connection just isn't there, which means it's incredibly rare for me to have that connection.
Maybe this should go in the Emptiness thread.
It’s either there or it isn’t. You can’t force it. It’s rare for everyone. Hang in there.![]()
Wondering if it's my failing that I sometimes can't find anything to say in reply to messages, or if it's that the other person really didn't give me anything to continue the conversation with. Or maybe the connection just isn't there, which means it's incredibly rare for me to have that connection.
Maybe this should go in the Emptiness thread.
What gets me are the messages that literally leave you with nothing to go on! “Hey, saw your post on the boards! Would love to chat - 38/M/USA”
Which post? What were your thoughts on it? Give me something to go on and reply to!
Let's hope I don't moan out loud.
They did not see your post. They copied and pasted that message to everyone they thought had a vagina.
It’s either there or it isn’t. You can’t force it. It’s rare for everyone. Hang in there.![]()
That’s the secret sauce isn’t it? It could be the way a sentence is constructed, the use of a particular verb, very often it’s the overall tone of the message you’re responding to or even the ideas contained in the words.
But it’s more complex than that even. How are those words and ideas received? What mood is the reader in the first time they read them.
Hope it comes together for you soon CheekyGirl

I've found sometimes it depends on my energy level. In which case, I let it sit until the next day and then review it again. If I still can't find anything to say then, it's because that thread of the conversation has died. Depending on the person, I either reply with something totally different or I let the conversation RIP.![]()

What gets me are the messages that literally leave you with nothing to go on! “Hey, saw your post on the boards! Would love to chat - 38/M/USA”
Which post? What were your thoughts on it? Give me something to go on and reply to!

Do you feel that you want the connection, and just can’t? Or, is it more semantics, “i should be able to do this.”
If it’s the latter, I hope you can let that go a bit. You don’t owe anyone here anything. Lit at your comfort level.

Too bad the only one playing with my boobies tomorrow will be the nurse when I get my mammogram.![]()

did you unsubscribe in your control panel?What’s the point of putting a thread on ignore when I can still receive notifications from that thread?![]()
They did not see your post. They copied and pasted that message to everyone they thought had a vagina.
What gets me are the messages that literally leave you with nothing to go on! “Hey, saw your post on the boards! Would love to chat - 38/M/USA”
Which post? What were your thoughts on it? Give me something to go on and reply to!
They did not see your post. They copied and pasted that message to everyone they thought had a vagina.
so much of this, same with 'wow I love your profile.'
did you unsubscribe in your control panel?
They did not see your post. They copied and pasted that message to everyone they thought had a vagina.
Wow I like your profilessorry had to say it....
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