What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I've been thinking about two different types of guys.

One respects boundaries and that makes you feel like you can relax and just enjoy a conversation.

I have a few guys in my life that fit this definition. Extremely easy to converse with, listens to my "babbling", and genuinely cares about me and understands me as a woman...

One doesn't, so you have to be hypervigilant in everything you say or do - so it leaves no openings. You don't feel safe with this person.

It's tiresome. It's exhausting.

I've also had issues with men who fit this.
Harder to chat with, they're usually too dominant, lacking the ability to be a great friend...

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Nobody should have to feel obliged to chat to somebody they don’t feel safe around.

When I first came here, there was the usual rush of people in my inbox and I was polite and respond to everybody. I don’t like to offend people so I would chat about general daily stuff. The “nice guys” were the worst. I could be chatting about my day and before I knew it, they had turned the conversation into giving me a massage or bathing me. They back you into a corner where you do feel threatened. I would use humour to deflect the situation and the conversation would end.

If I said that I wasn’t interested in that kind of chat and it made me uncomfortable, they would say they were only joking but they would do the same thing the next time we chatted.

So I guess it is really true
Nice guys do finish last?

 

[Neanderthal247]

So I guess it is really true
Nice guys do finish last?

Are they really nice guys, if they're just hoovering around waiting, for the moment she's at her most vulnerable.

 

[LostHorizon]

Time to make the donuts…

 

[BDA73]

God dam the bedroom is cold

 

[LostHorizon]

God dam the bedroom is cold

I was thinking the same thing this morning. It’s going to be six months or so of cold bedroom weather so I better buck up.

 

[justanewsub]

That I'm glad I found this place. Nice to see this corner of the world, a bit.

 

[angelofthenorth]

Back on the road in an hour

 

[lifeisgood3976]

My back goes out on me every once in a while just to remind me it's there.

 

[Xerxes82]

Wow, a cockatar in this day and age of Lit. Thought those days were behind us. At least iggy still gets the job done.

 

[Cindy027]

I have no idea what a cockatar is

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Are they really nice guys, if they're just hoovering around waiting, for the moment she's at her most vulnerable.

No, they aren't.

 

[BDA73]

My back goes out on me every once in a while just to remind me it's there.

Uggh..I know all too well the pain...as you get older little things like sneezing can twist you into a pretzel for a week

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Are they really nice guys, if they're just hoovering around waiting, for the moment she's at her most vulnerable.

Well there are platonic friendships and I feel they can be just as rewarding as the sexy ones.

And I don't consider it hovering around if a platonic friendship turns sexy. Both are adults and things change

 

[SimplyMsT]

It's time to do something constructive ...

*poof*

 

[cheekygirl75]

I have no idea what a cockatar is

Someone who has a picture of a cock as an avatar. You’d think they wouldn’t be allowed any more

 

[Cindy027]

Someone who has a picture of a cock as an avatar. You’d think they wouldn’t be allowed any more

Thank you, I actually reported a profile yesterday because of it. I think the powers require us to report them because I don't think they want to sift through the lewdness to eradicate them.

 

[MrPimms]

Philosophical mood.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Thank you, I actually reported a profile yesterday because of it. I think the powers require us to report them because I don't think they want to sift through the lewdness to eradicate them.

Don't they have to approve profile pics before they change them for you?

 

[cheekygirl75]

Don't they have to approve profile pics before they change them for you?

I thought that, too

 

[pinkparkhorse]

I’m thinking about last night when I finally experienced one of my biggest fantasies.

 

[Cindy027]

Don't they have to approve profile pics before they change them for you?

True, though it was a really small penis so maybe they missed it

 

[Hornymwtxn]

True, though it was a really small penis so maybe they missed it

Twasn't I then

 

[AnalCreampieGiver]

I’m thinking about last night when I finally experienced one of my biggest fantasies.

Which one?

 

[LostHorizon]

I am thinking about hanging a sign around my neck saying “me too”.