What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

Are they really nice guys, if they're just hoovering around waiting, for the moment she's at her most vulnerable.
Well there are platonic friendships and I feel they can be just as rewarding as the sexy ones.

And I don't consider it hovering around if a platonic friendship turns sexy. Both are adults and things change
 
Someone who has a picture of a cock as an avatar. You’d think they wouldn’t be allowed any more

Thank you, I actually reported a profile yesterday because of it. I think the powers require us to report them because I don't think they want to sift through the lewdness to eradicate them.
 
Thank you, I actually reported a profile yesterday because of it. I think the powers require us to report them because I don't think they want to sift through the lewdness to eradicate them.
Don't they have to approve profile pics before they change them for you?
 
No, they aren't.
My point exactly, so called nice guys aren't always nice.

Well there are platonic friendships and I feel they can be just as rewarding as the sexy ones.

And I don't consider it hovering around if a platonic friendship turns sexy. Both are adults and things change
Not getting personal here, as I don’t know about you and your relationships with the ladies here, but some constantly put pressure on the ladies hoping for the day they give in. I don't think there's anything wrong with pursuing a lady, but if you're only being nice to get some pum pum, then you're not really a nice guy. I want to add if you constantly put a lady in an uncomfortable situation, where she has to constantly reject you by joking or trying to get past your advances, then you aren’t respecting her and you definitely aren't platonic on your end.


I wonder if I have been guilty of the same, because I do hunt for ladies on occasion. I just hope they aren't uncomfortable with my actions.
 
Well there are platonic friendships and I feel they can be just as rewarding as the sexy ones.

And I don't consider it hovering around if a platonic friendship turns sexy. Both are adults and things change
A lot of friendships turn sexy and that is perfectly acceptable when it is what both parties want. What we are discussing, is when one party has made it very clear that they don’t want a sexual chat but the other will take an everyday chat and try to steer it in a sexual direction.

Example:
Him - How was your day?
Me - Pretty long. I ache all over
Him - You probably need a massage
Me - That would probably help
Him - Imagine me sliding the straps of your bra off your shoulders…
Me - No thanks. I don’t want to imagine you doing that
Him - Not hitting on you. I am not here for that. I was just being nice.


Well, it isn’t “nice” and if you are repeating this behaviour, you are not a “nice guy”, you are a predator
 
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