What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

I think if you go to someone's profile to send a PM, and it's gone, you are probably ignored. Except for @Xerxes82 ...he's ignoring all of us! 😂
I think this just means you are not following them so you can't pm them and they have a private profile. I don't think there is a way to know if you're ignored.
 
And here is worst part: after going through school and being told I am not attractive, often to my face, and spending a majority of my long marriage being rejected sexually, when someone tells me I'm attractive, my first response is "they just think they have to say that." It gets to be a vicious circle. When I end up with someone who won't, or sometimes is unable, to fulfill that need, it amps up my feelings of inadequacy, which then make me feel, and probably act, less attractive. I'm working hard to break out of that paradigm, but it doesn't make the hunger for it less, at least not yet.

And it isn't always that bad, or even that often. But right now?
Ope! Looks like we should get this guys opinion on if you are sexy or not

Post in thread 'Sex & Shenanigans'
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/sex-shenanigans.1589110/post-98627228
 
Part of me would quit my job at the drop of a hat if something better came along.
Another part of me feels that some (select few) of my co-workers are fantastic people and it would break my heart to not trauma-bond with them on a daily basis.
 
I'm thinking that if you have someone on ignore you don't see what they post unless you look which defeats the purpose and that is then on you and speaks volumes about who you really are.

I'm thinking that it is sad that some folks can not see their faults and never take responsibility for their behavior.

I'm thinking that I'm sorry I let unimportant people get to me.

Lastly, I'm thinking I'm so very grateful I have folks that care about me and that I care about.
 
I'm thinking that if you have someone on ignore you don't see what they post unless you look which defeats the purpose and that is then on you and speaks volumes about who you really are.

I'm thinking that it is sad that some folks can not see their faults and never take responsibility for their behavior.

I'm thinking that I'm sorry I let unimportant people get to me.

Lastly, I'm thinking I'm so very grateful I have folks that care about me and that I care about.
I don't know what all the hubbub is, but I'm sorry for whatever it is. You're an awesome person and I'm grateful for your tremendous heart. Just keep smiling, it's a great gift to us all.
 
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