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Azuldrgon said:
*hugs*
This is what I'm afraid of with folks.
You get pushed too far and you stop being open.
This is why I stay as private as I can.
And hug the ones I like and get to know. :)
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I’m a lot less open now. A lot more suspicious, and keep everyone at arm’s length. It gets to a point where you’re tired of feeling disposable. I’ve always believed that people can unintentionally walk over those they feel safest with, and believe will always be there.

But I no longer want to be a doormat. I want friends I actually get replies from.
 
LikeableMe said:
I’m a lot less open now. A lot more suspicious, and keep everyone at arm’s length. It gets to a point where you’re tired of feeling disposable. I’ve always believed that people can unintentionally walk over those they feel safest with, and believe will always be there.

But I no longer want to be a doormat. I want friends I actually get replies from.
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I can understand that. *hugs*
 
SassySheDevil said:
This. I used to be nice to everyone. That's how I was raised. Years of being walked on or taken advantage of, means I'm not always nice anymore. I'm old and cranky.
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Reminder to always stay on Sassy's good side ... 😂😂😂 Never been a fear in me of that. Beautiful Lady.
 
hairball18 said:
If I was not nice to someone it might mean that I could be missing out on a friendship that I might never have had if I was anything but nice. I hope I come across as nice.
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You are exceptionally nice (even if you do call me lots of names) 😘
 
I've never been asked to be someone's secret. I've never asked someone to be my secret. But I can understand, and accept, reasons both for and against. My primary concern would be why, why they feel it needs to be kept secret or needs to be declared publicly.
 
Ratchetman1982 said:
That's dumb though. What is it in here, like 100-1 in favor of guys? With odds like that, you have to find a way to stand out. Being a douche is a good way to stand out, but for the wrong reasons. Whatever happened to intellectual intercourse?
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Intellectual conversation, be it intercourse of other-course goes both ways. I chalk it up to learning playbooks and people when my thought provoking interactions fall flat. Some of us do try to be engaging beyond the norm. I am discovering there are some other gentlemen around here that have mastered that. I am working through the process. Lol.
 
Texastuffbbc said:
Intellectual conversation, be it intercourse of other-course goes both ways. I chalk it up to learning playbooks and people when my thought provoking interactions fall flat. Some of us do try to be engaging beyond the norm. I am discovering there are some other gentlemen around here that have mastered that. I am working through the process. Lol.
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The way that I see it, just be yourself. If you are your true self, connections should come. Unless you're a dick. Then be some else. :)
 
Ratchetman1982 said:
The way that I see it, just be yourself. If you are your true self, connections should come. Unless you're a dick. Then be some else. :)
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Lol…yeap…the funny thing is my self is extremely conversational and can be nerdy at times. Wish I had been more thoughtful In My user name, but oh well. Some know me beyond that.
 
Amber Green:The thing that bothers me is the women saying something bad about a guy just to stop other women talking to him. Does that really happen? Who would do that? 🥰

I need to comment on this by Amber because I have a similar relationship with someone on the Playground. We have gotten to know each other very well through pms and emails, but it remains strictly platonic with little chance of it going any further.

Having said that I get pangs of jealousy when I see other guys try hitting on her through their posts. I want to tell them to backoff. Does that make me weird or over possessive?
 
AZDryHeat said:
The thing that bothers me is the women saying something bad about a guy just to stop other women talking to him. Does that really happen? Who would do that? 🥰

I need to comment on this by Amber because I have a similar relationship with someone on the Playground. We have gotten to know each other very well through pms and emails, but it remains strictly platonic with little chance of it going any further.

Having said that I get pangs of jealousy when I see other guys try hitting on her through their posts. I want to tell them to backoff. Does that make me weird or over possessive?
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Yep! :rolleyes:
 
AZDryHeat said:
I just reread my last post and how I worded it, and I now agree with Jade's comments.
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Good. Now go get a piece of paper and pencil and go sit in the corner and write "I will not get jealous" 100 times. When you're done, go get yourself a cookie and a glass of milk. Have a nice night. :)
 
LikeableMe said:
I was just thinking that. My ex used to tell me about this woman who wouldn’t let him have friends. I always wondered why anyone would want to change someone so drastically as to stop them having a whole part of their life/personality. I always wanted to see him happy when we were together. Not sexually with others, obviously, but friendships? Why should someone stop having friendships just because they’re with someone?
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Nice to know someone was thinking the same thing!
 
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