What Are You Nosey About Today?? 🦝

[Modern_drunkard]

https://youtu.be/3mbvWn1EY6g

Too fast. My hand would cramp.

 

[Modern_drunkard]

I think this for finger banging

https://youtu.be/L4ThI3Wm57Q

No way. Are you joking? This is a serious question than requires serious answers.

 

[AmberLGreen]

No way. Are you joking? This is a serious question than requires serious answers.

You asked for the average Lit skank opinion. Did you really mean what does the average lit skank think your preferred song would be?

FFS you have been given two perfectly good songs. Stop being so fucking precious

 

[Modern_drunkard]

You asked for the average Lit skank opinion. Did you really mean what does the average lit skank think your preferred song would be?

FFS you have been given two perfectly good songs. Stop being so fucking precious

Lol. To be honest I just look for any opportunity to use the ‘Average Lit Skank!’

 

[Daisy_Love]

Are you talking finger blasting or finger banging? Could be a total different music genre and that would not blend well.

I laughed wayyyyy too much at that

 

[Whiskeyjack]

I’m nosey about trust.

Once your trust has been broken how do you get it back? DO you get it back? Do you think the friendship or relationship can go back to where it was? How do you handle matters of trust or broken trust?

Little white lies don't bother me any. Like the ones where I make a new recipe and my wife tells me she likes it, but then never asks me to make it again. I'm ok with things like that.

Big breaches of trust, however... those big, life-changing, holy-shit-I-can't-believe-you-did-that breaches... I've only been burned badly by a small handful of people. One was an ex- I'd hoped to marry. That relationship was unsalvageable afterwards. One was a friend I gave a second chance to, only to be burned again. There are a couple others like that. I talk about forgiveness a lot, but in my own life I'm very, very wary about second chances now. Once trust is broken the relationship is forever changed. It doesn't mean a new relationship with that person can't be forged, but it's probably not going to be the same as it was.

 

[AmberLGreen]

I’m nosey about trust.

Once your trust has been broken how do you get it back? DO you get it back? Do you think the friendship or relationship can go back to where it was? How do you handle matters of trust or broken trust?

I am a very forgiving person and I see breaks in trust as human error. For me, if I want the relationship/friendship to remain as it was, then I need to forget as well as forgive and I find that hard. It does happen eventually but for a while things might not be the same.

I think to fully handle it I need to have a conversation with the person. It helps me if I know why they have done what they have done. I can then forgive and move on from it. I don’t hold grudges or bring the issue up again but if you have broken my trust once and know it has hurt me, then don’t do the exact same thing again because that I won’t forgive.

 

[Xerxes82]

I’m nosey about trust.

Once your trust has been broken how do you get it back? DO you get it back? Do you think the friendship or relationship can go back to where it was? How do you handle matters of trust or broken trust?

I'm too quick to trust, but unlikely to ever trust again once it's really and truly broken. I like to think I'm fairly forgiving in the day to day stuff. But the big deal breakers? Nope, no coming back from those.

In terms of how I handle having my trust broken, it depends on the context. Sometimes confrontation is necessary. Sometimes it's better to just sigh and turn your back and walk away. Every situation is different.

 

[cheekygirl75]

I'm nosey about when snooping into someone's posting history crosses the line from innocent & maybe cute to cyber-stalking & creepy? Just hypothetically, if someone looked through all the pages of your post history, not reading every post but just looking at where you've posted maybe, would that be creepy or cute? Or would it depend on how you felt about that person?

 

[WerdNerd]

I'm nosey about when snooping into someone's posting history crosses the line from innocent & maybe cute to cyber-stalking & creepy? Just hypothetically, if someone looked through all the pages of your post history, not reading every post but just looking at where you've posted maybe, would that be creepy or cute? Or would it depend on how you felt about that person?

I would say it's just doing your due diligence. I would be flattered if some went through all my posts to get to know me better.

 

[Azuldrgon]

I’m nosey about trust.

Once your trust has been broken how do you get it back? DO you get it back? Do you think the friendship or relationship can go back to where it was? How do you handle matters of trust or broken trust?

I think it depends on what happened. There are varying degrees of trust and usually it's worthy changing the way I treat someone or how much I trust them with until they earn it back depending on the offense.

I'm nosey about when snooping into someone's posting history crosses the line from innocent & maybe cute to cyber-stalking & creepy? Just hypothetically, if someone looked through all the pages of your post history, not reading every post but just looking at where you've posted maybe, would that be creepy or cute? Or would it depend on how you felt about that person?

I think it depends on what kind of relationship you're looking at for that person. I think looking through for the sake of character reference is one thing. If you're goal is to see if they would be a good fit for you, that's one thing. If you're snooping because you're trying to discover if they are being untrue and stuff, I would say be very careful. The downside about the internet is that there's always a record even when you don't want there to be.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

I'm nosey about when snooping into someone's posting history crosses the line from innocent & maybe cute to cyber-stalking & creepy? Just hypothetically, if someone looked through all the pages of your post history, not reading every post but just looking at where you've posted maybe, would that be creepy or cute? Or would it depend on how you felt about that person?

I agree with WN that it is doing your due diligence. If someone randomly messages me, the first thing I do is post stalk them. If they appear to be a man whore or they seem to be into things I’m not, then I likely won’t reply or i will send a polite decline.

I do appreciate someone who does their homework on me before messaging. If they ask a question or make a comment about something I’ve posted, I see that as them actually making an effort to get to know me. I like that.

Where is verges on creepy for me is when you have been chatting with someone for a little bit and they constantly refer to things you’ve posted and you can tell they are continuing to post stalk you beyond the initial “let me see what she’s about” phase. I don’t mind comments about what I post here and there, but if that’s all we have to talk about, it’s a turn off.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I agree with WN that it is doing your due diligence. If someone randomly messages me, the first thing I do is post stalk them. If they appear to be a man whore or they seem to be into things I’m not, then I likely won’t reply or i will send a polite decline.

I do appreciate someone who does their homework on me before messaging. If they ask a question or make a comment about something I’ve posted, I see that as them actually making an effort to get to know me. I like that.

Where is verges on creepy for me is when you have been chatting with someone for a little bit and they constantly refer to things you’ve posted and you can tell they are continuing to post stalk you beyond the initial “let me see what she’s about” phase. I don’t mind comments about what I post here and there, but if that’s all we have to talk about, it’s a turn off.

This. 100%

 

[Madmar]

If they've had sex yet.

 

[AmberLGreen]

I'm nosey about when snooping into someone's posting history crosses the line from innocent & maybe cute to cyber-stalking & creepy? Just hypothetically, if someone looked through all the pages of your post history, not reading every post but just looking at where you've posted maybe, would that be creepy or cute? Or would it depend on how you felt about that person?

I don’t tend to look through anybody’s posts. I prefer to find out whether I like the person or not through conversations I have with them. What a person posts on the boards doesn’t always give a true reflection of them because they are normally just snippets of things.

If somebody wants to go through all my posts to try to find out more about me then good luck to them. There are a lot of posts and most of them show a persona that isn’t like the real person. It would be a fruitless task.

The thing that I find creepy is the other type of post stalking. The type where somebody suddenly starts posting on threads that they wouldn’t normally post on just because they are following somebody around. It might happen by accident once or twice but when it is happening a lot, it is clear they want attention from a particular person and are acting like a lost puppy. To those people, I say man/woman up, take your big neon “see me” sign and plant it in their PM. If they respond to you then great but if they don’t then just move on. Public displays of desperation are not a good thing.

 

[Sinstories]

I'm nosey about when snooping into someone's posting history crosses the line from innocent & maybe cute to cyber-stalking & creepy? Just hypothetically, if someone looked through all the pages of your post history, not reading every post but just looking at where you've posted maybe, would that be creepy or cute? Or would it depend on how you felt about that person?

Like most things in life, it depends on motivation.

If it is to understand about someone a little, maybe learn what interests them, it is not a bad thing. If it's to track them or it causes the person to be jealous or angry, then it has obviously crossed the line. Of course, the grey area between those extremes is where most people live...

 

[elusive_buttrfly]

I'm nosey about when snooping into someone's posting history crosses the line from innocent & maybe cute to cyber-stalking & creepy? Just hypothetically, if someone looked through all the pages of your post history, not reading every post but just looking at where you've posted maybe, would that be creepy or cute? Or would it depend on how you felt about that person?

If someone is going through my posts, they must have a lot if time on their hands. I’ve been here forever. I think it might be cute that they’re interested, but I’ve grown and changed as a person since I’ve started posting and authoring stories here. So to me the best way to figure me out or find out more about me is to message me.

 

[Daisy_Love]

*raises hand* I stalk everyone who private messages me. If they post in certain threads or are acting like a desperado all over the threads, I don’t reply. I tend to think it’s a generic message sent out like a fishing net hoping for a bite! Good luck to anyone looking through my posts, full of banter, classy smut posting and not much else. I’m not any different on the boards to pm I don’t think.

I know some have read through my posts, I do it so I’d expect others to do the same. I don’t find it creepy, I think if they’ve taken time to at least try and find out about you, I don’t think it’s a bad thing.

To those people, I say man/woman up, take your big neon “see me” sign and plant it in their PM. If they respond to you then great but if they don’t then just move on. Public displays of desperation are not a good thing.

Completely agree with Amber!! Or worse still when someone says they want your attention then are thirsty all over the boards. While still telling you they’re only interested in one person. Definitely not the way to go about it, I don’t think

 

[Lonelywife1205]

If someone is going through my posts, they must have a lot if time on their hands. I’ve been here forever. I think it might be cute that they’re interested, but I’ve grown and changed as a person since I’ve started posting and authoring stories here. So to me the best way to figure me out or find out more about me is to message me.

You can only see someone’s last 200 posts and any threads they’ve created, so it’s a small investment of time.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

You can only see someone’s last 200 posts and any threads they’ve created, so it’s a small investment of time.

You sound like quite the expert in post-stalking. Should we all just assume that Lonelywife knows everything about us now?

 

[elusive_buttrfly]

You can only see someone’s last 200 posts and any threads they’ve created, so it’s a small investment of time.

Stalk away.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

*raises hand* I stalk everyone who private messages me. If they post in certain threads or are acting like a desperado all over the threads, I don’t reply. I tend to think it’s a generic message sent out like a fishing net hoping for a bite! Good luck to anyone looking through my posts, full of banter, classy smut posting and not much else. I’m not any different on the boards to pm I don’t think.

I know some have read through my posts, I do it so I’d expect others to do the same. I don’t find it creepy, I think if they’ve taken time to at least try and find out about you, I don’t think it’s a bad thing.



Completely agree with Amber!! Or worse still when someone says they want your attention then are thirsty all over the boards. While still telling you they’re only interested in one person. Definitely not the way to go about it, I don’t think

Daisy, whoever post stalks you is going to fall for you based on your voice for sure. Which reminds me of another aspect of post stalking I find creepy….the people who lurk in the shadows and never interact on the boards, but they listen to your audios and somehow feel like they know you intimately and message you.

 

[Darkrhytm]

I’m nosey about trust.

Once your trust has been broken how do you get it back? DO you get it back? Do you think the friendship or relationship can go back to where it was? How do you handle matters of trust or broken trust?

And is it worth the effort?

 

[Daisy_Love]

Daisy, whoever post stalks you is going to fall for you based on your voice for sure. Which reminds me of another aspect of post stalking I find creepy….the people who lurk in the shadows and never interact on the boards, but they listen to your audios and somehow feel like they know you intimately and message you.

That’s a reason I rarely audio.

Luckily for me, I tend to fly under the radar, so it’s rare.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

Stalk away.

Hee hee

You sound like quite the expert in post-stalking. Should we all just assume that Lonelywife knows everything about us now?

Yes you should, but it’s never for nefarious reasons.
I have a lot of free time on my hands!

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