What are you looking for?

What are you looking for?

  • someone to play with

    Votes: 11 19.3%
  • nothing, I have what I want

    Votes: 17 29.8%
  • a third to bring into an existing relationship

    Votes: 3 5.3%
  • multible subs

    Votes: 2 3.5%
  • multible Dom/mes

    Votes: 2 3.5%
  • one special sub to treasure

    Votes: 8 14.0%
  • One special Dom/me to treasure

    Votes: 10 17.5%
  • one Dom/me but I don\'t mind sharing

    Votes: 3 5.3%
  • a switch for play

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • a switch for life

    Votes: 1 1.8%

  • Total voters
    57

WriterDom

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Someone asked me a while back if I were looking for a play partner or a serious relationship. I knew what answer she was looking for, but I answered it honestly. A pay partner first that could develop into a serious relationship later. I just wondered what people here are looking for, if anything.
 
WriterDom said:
Someone asked me a while back if I were looking for a play partner or a serious relationship. I knew what answer she was looking for, but I answered it honestly. A pay partner first that could develop into a serious relationship later. I just wondered what people here are looking for, if anything.



~~~~~~~~~My option is not on your list--- I am looking for a brain.
Rose: aka the scarecrow.
 
Re: Re: What are you looking for?

A Desert Rose said:




~~~~~~~~~My option is not on your list--- I am looking for a brain.
Rose: aka the scarecrow.

Sorry, I got to the end and forgot the switches. And you know how sensitive they get when we leave them out.
 
Wow -- being the first person to vote sure makes me look important when I view the results!

I voted "I have what I want," although perhaps it would be better phrased, "I want what I have."

Or is that a vocabularical impossibility? ;)
 
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WriterDom said:
A pay partner first that could develop into a serious relationship later.

Paging Dr. Freud, paging Dr. Freud.....
 
I want the entire romantic package deal with the fanfare of horns and parades and fireworks and .....

OH well, all in good time.
 
I want somebody to share

share the rest of my life
share my innermost thoughts
my most intimate details

~~~~~~~
depeche mode
( I rather like the Veruca Salt version)
 
I want what I have, I have what I want.

I just want to lurk.
 
WriterDom said:
A pay partner first that could develop into a serious relationship later.


You know those "pay" partners can get pretty expensive until you find just the right one!



*Sorry - couldn't resist!*
 
WriterDom said:
Someone asked me a while back if I were looking for a play partner or a serious relationship. I knew what answer she was looking for, but I answered it honestly. A pay partner first that could develop into a serious relationship later. I just wondered what people here are looking for, if anything.

~~~~~These pay partners are pretty common out here in Nevada. They live in brothels and make a damned good living.

Rose:heart:
 
I have two part-time ongoing submissive relationships. I am interviewing for a 24/7 submissive.

I also have a not-so-vanilla very good friend, who is not threatened by my D/s activities so far.


Life is good.

Ebony
 
Ebonyfire said:
I have two part-time ongoing submissive relationships. I am interviewing for a 24/7 submissive.

I also have a not-so-vanilla very good friend, who is not threatened by my D/s activities so far.


Life is good. Good thread, WD

Ebony
 
I can be serious for a moment

and I can answer this question. However, that assumes that someone cares about the answer. I have been looking at this thread and wondering why answer it. But ok, I see many others responding, and very thoughtfully as well.

I want to learn how to do it right, so the next relationship I have will be successful. I want to be taught and I want to be educated, so I won't make the same mistakes again.

Rose:heart:
 
i say i have what i want

my needs are met, i cherish my girl as she does me.

that doesn't mean i wouldn't like to play with others, but i won't unless my girl and i can both be happy with that arrangement. maybe someday we'll be ready to bring in someone else for play. but not yet.

i have what i need. i am human, i will never have exactly what i want. but i'm pretty close, so i'm happy.
 
Decisions, Decisions..............

My choice isn't on your list.
I don't know what I want. I DO know that I defintely want what I have. But as for anything more........................
hmmmmm........ very tricky, how do you get something else without losing what you have?
:rolleyes: :confused:
 
Re: Re: What are you looking for?

A Desert Rose said:


~~~~~These pay partners are pretty common out here in Nevada. They live in brothels and make a damned good living.

Rose:heart:

I done pretty good at it myself. Now Im all about having fun.
 
I voted "I have what I want" but that isn't exactly true, as I want what we have to grow and grow, and I want to explore it in ways that we haven't even imagined yet!
 
CarolineOh said:
I voted "I have what I want" but that isn't exactly true, as I want what we have to grow and grow, and I want to explore it in ways that we haven't even imagined yet!

If you and big guy decide to do the switcheroo, get on the phone girl, Ill be right there to kibbitz.
 
MzChrista said:


If you and big guy decide to do the switcheroo, get on the phone girl, Ill be right there to kibbitz.

I don't think I'll have to sweetie, I think that would be headline news!
 
CarolineOh said:


I don't think I'll have to sweetie, I think that would be headline news!

No doubt.

Now we best quit chatting, I dont want Lancie to stomp his feet so hard he gets fallen arches.
 
MzChrista said:


If you and big guy decide to do the switcheroo, get on the phone girl, Ill be right there to kibbitz.


In the interest of science, we will want details.

Eb <noo, I am not nosy, I am a voyeur>
 
MzChrista said:


No doubt.

Now we best quit chatting, I dont want Lancie to stomp his feet so hard he gets fallen arches.

Why do I wear pants anymore? All I do is laugh so hard I pee in them. Where is that towel?

Eb
 
Ebonyfire said:



In the interest of science, we will want details.

Eb <noo, I am not nosy, I am a voyeur>

Sorry, babe, but I give MC Sam one good asswhack and Ill be on the lam after that. cant post much in the Witness protection program
 
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