What are the top 5 most attractive traits to you? Men and women!

[Hedonboii22]

Anything about a person that you find attractive, wether it's physical, mental, personality, anything.

Mine for women is-
1. Long beautiful hair
2. Confidence
3. Strong round ass and legs
4. Having a wild, crazy, fun side to her
5. Sharp, feminine facial features

Men-
1. Confidence
2. An aesthetic physique
3. Tattoos
4. His scent
5. Kindness

 

[johnnieblue44]

The left tit
The right tit
Both tits together
A great set of boobs
Freckles on big titties


I'll have to think about what I like on women....

 

[Sheana_V]

Women:
- Smaller than me
- Smart
- A good sense of fashion and style
- A wonderful taste
- A smile that makes me blush

Men:
- Eyes that wander over my body
- Smart
- Large hands
- A warm demeanor
- Feminist

 

[curvycutie39]

.......

 

[sunandshadow]

Men
1. Long hair or punk/goth hair style
2. No facial hair
3. Skinny
4. Pale skin
5. Friendly/caring

 

[Kittyscave]

There is not a set type for me. It would definitely come down to

1. Comportment: how he hold himself with confidence yet is able to joke in a somewhat self-deprecating way without undermining his stature

2. Sense of humor: If a man can make me smile, he's 2/3 the way into my pants

3. Nice hands and teeth: I have no explanation for this other than I find large strong hands and straight teeth attractive

4. Height: At least as tall as me, preferably above 6 feet. This is simply because I appreciate men who appear as though they can dominate me. I am strong physically and mentally and enjoy a man who can meet and master my capabilities

5. Arm: Biceps, my kryptonite.

 

[Risquerose]

.....

 

[magicalmoments]

The left tit
The right tit
Both tits together
A great set of boobs
Freckles on big titties


I'll have to think about what I like on women....

SNAP! For women.

I'll have to think about men but it's likely to go something like this:
Cock
Left testicle
Right testicle
Cock and testicles together
Absence of a choke reflex

 

[RedSilk69]

johnnieblue44 and magicalmoments are in the lead...

Mine - I'm cheating a bit by putting two things in most:
1 - Curiosity and sense of adventure
2 - Playfulness and creativity
3 - Intelligence (plus good spelling FTW - although spelling is only poorly correlated with intelligence)
4 - A manly musk -drool- I once slept with someone because his cologne was a decent replacement for a great personal smell. (Obsession for Men) Then it turned out he had very little personal smell at all - and absolutely no creativity. Buh-bye, NASA physicist.
5 - Big thighs. I am a sucker for thighs. I first watched soccer at a very impressionable age... Oh, and rugby..........
6 - Anarchist with a lack of regard for the rules. FUCK THE MAN! FIGHT THE POWER!

 

[THROBBS]

1. Intelligent ~ You see that? I typed intelligent wrong?!!!! hahahahaa...see below
2. Sense of humor
3. Smiles (dimples are bonus, but not necessary)-Kindness...so not that evil smile one sometimes sees.
4. Curvy round ass (big is good, but small works)
5. Open sexually

6. a woman who returns my look, and affections. (I don't want what I can't have, or doesn't want me)


hmmmm... (looking at other folks' answers, and pondering)
no strong preference on hair style or color.
No strong preference on height or weight
No strong preference on breast size
Spelling, heh heh, I can spell (fairly well), but typing, not so much! (so I try to cut slack there, but not THEIR or THEY'RE!


(added)—
one can ascertain certain "trees" not to "bark up".
I don't score 100% of anyone's top "attributes".
But, got a couple 4 outa 5's

(if only I was the anti-Christ!) LOL!

Related:
I perused the Men with V's (or something like that) thread, now THOSE are guys whose physical attributes look appealing. (if you swing that way, which I don't, but can still admire). Made me a bit sad, but not so much that I am gonna make the effort required. PRIORITIES! heehee.... too busy (and a bit lazy in that department these days)

 

[THROBBS]

6 - Anarchist with a lack of regard for the rules. FUCK THE MAN! FIGHT THE POWER!

HA !
I love that at a glance I read— "antichrist" LOL

 

[Rachjenn2818]

Women/girls
- athletic
- tall for their age
- small tits
- short hair style
- kinky side

Men
- older
- athletic
- confident
- kinky side
- energy

 

[RedSilk69]

HA !
I love that at a glance I read— "antichrist" LOL

Well, that too - of course!

And I totally agree with this:
"6. a woman you returns my look, and affections. (I don't want what I can't have, or doesn't want me)"

I've tried the "but I can change his and/or my affections" - doesn't work. One "no" and I take a person at his word, and move on.

 

[StormyWindows]

For a woman:
Cute smile
Pretty eyes
Curves
Personality
Creativity
Humor
Intelligence

Oops thats more than 5.

 

[Hans101]

Women:

Sanity
Intelligence
Youth/Health
Fertility
Beauty

Men: N/A

 

[LauraJane008]

Men:
Funny
Giving
Kind
Honest
Big, but not too big

Women
Self confident
Tactile
Playful
Honest
Adventurous

 

[ADIDAS00]

Women:
- confidence
- a kinky creative mind
- curvy and delicious
- non-materialistic
- know how to get down and dirty

Men:
- smooth
- fit
- muscular
- alpha
- hung

 

[suckonsimon]

Women:
- playful, adventurous
- slim enough to get 'flexible' with me
- posture and hip-sway which exudes sensual pleasure
- non materialistic [I like that one, Adidasoo]
- passionate about her interests

Men:
- big smile, with both mouth and eyes
- respectful of women as persons
- passionate about his interests
- fit
- truly converted out of boyhood into responsible masculinity

 

[CornishWiseMan]

Women:
1. Easy Going
2. Eyes
3. Arse
4. Midriff
5. Addicted to receiving and/or providing Orgasms

 

[richfun]

All genders

Generosity,
Honesty,
Sexy Aura,
Smile,
Smell

 

[Mqoi]

Personality
can I trust them?
smile
loves sex
Ass: my kryptonite. A cute ass, female or male has always had my undivided attention.

extra credit: a nice hard cock with good tasting cum if male.

 

[sunandshadow]

6. a [person] who returns my look, and affections. (I don't want what I can't have, or doesn't want me)

I don't think I've ever actually met someone I had a mutual attraction with. *sigh* One of those problems that's about 30% me being picky, 30% me not being particularly attractive, 20% me being an introvert who doesn't like going out and meeting random people at parties/clubs/bars, and 20% the styles I like not being currently in fashion.

 

[THROBBS]

I don't think I've ever actually met someone I had a mutual attraction with. *sigh* One of those problems that's about 30% me being picky, 30% me not being particularly attractive, 20% me being an introvert who doesn't like going out and meeting random people at parties/clubs/bars, and 20% the styles I like not being currently in fashion.

It is ok to be selective. In fact, that is probably wise.
So long as one is not discarding someone or someone's traits based on assumption.
(the ol' green eggs and ham thing)

I think you should reassess your self-assessment of "attractivity" (made that up, obviously). And also remember — NO ONE is attractive to everyone.

Being an introvert is a challenge. HOWEVER I'd recommend not labeling yourself as such or identifying as such as this will likely define your actions and hamper any progress. I also suspect, that a person who you might connect with, ALSO doesn't care for parties/clubs and bars.... GO to PARKS, LIBRARIES, COFFEE SHOPS, place YOU like, is where you will find people with like interests.

same for fashion. Fuck 'em if the can't take a joke.


AND...even then, you may not find "love at first sight", cuz that's not even what i meant, I mean an "interest" vs a "meh" or aversion. Relationships develop.

 

[FriendlyCuriousGuy]

Five most attractive traits in a woman:

Intelligence
Warm Smile
Kind
Laughs Easily
Slender yet curvy body

 

[Astroman72]

My preferences for women:

1. Consistently easy going and mature, no wild mood swings or wild temper, bickering and arguing. I'm not like that, and I can't live like that. This is my clear number one.
2. Intelligent, funny, introspective, trustworthy
3. Height/weight relatively proportional--don't have to be in perfect shape, but have at least a mild interest in nutrition and exercise.
4. Wide range of interests: arts, music, film, sports, food, travel
5. Must enjoy receiving at least 3 hours of cunnilingus/analingus every day. (hey, this is Literotica! )