Long time lurker first time poster. Today while the wife was out I decided to try anal for the first time. I grabbed one of her dildos and some water based lube. I threw on a porno and was hard immediately. After I lubed the dildo up and worked it into my ass. It is a small one specifically for anal, but it felt uncomfortable the whole time. I lost my erection almost instantly and experienced a burning sensation in my ass. I was able to work up to an orgasm but my ass was uncomfortable the whole time. Does the sensation go away? I was so uncomfortable I barely fucked myself because it hurt so much. What am I missing? How do I get the most out of these experiences masturbating with some anal action? Thanks in advance for your expertise.
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Night_Jasmine
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You might want to try prepping first. Even small dildos can be uncomfortable. Loosen the muscles, lube that area before inserting toy.
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Clean out, lube and be patient. Start with a finger and get used to it.
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Might want o google prostate gland and be sure you know where it is so you can aim for it.
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Even after experiencing Anal sex a number of times, and using butt plugs frequently, I can still stiffen up and be uncomfortable. In fact, I'd say I'm uncomfortable most of the time, but usually I'm aroused enough that a little discomfort is okay.
Some advice I'd give you is to try to relax, and don't push it. If you can't relax easily in the position you're in, try another one. The easiest position to penetrate yourself is probably laying on your side, so that your body is relaxed. I always try to get comfortable with a plug or dildo before I try to get off.
Overall, I think the burning/painful sensation gets easier over time. It was probably just too much of a surprise the first time = )
Good luck.
Some advice I'd give you is to try to relax, and don't push it. If you can't relax easily in the position you're in, try another one. The easiest position to penetrate yourself is probably laying on your side, so that your body is relaxed. I always try to get comfortable with a plug or dildo before I try to get off.
Overall, I think the burning/painful sensation gets easier over time. It was probably just too much of a surprise the first time = )
Good luck.
