Loverskitten
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Cleaning my ears.... with q-tips. Turns. Me. On.
Anyone else have something weird to share?
Anyone else have something weird to share?
Weird, everyday things that arouse...
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DVS
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Q-tips don't thrill me that much, but my cat really likes it a LOT. He'll tilt his head back, eyes closed, that face of ecstasy comes over his face, hind leg starts thumping and man, he just loves it.
And I can't be for sure, but I think I've even seen him lean back and smoke a cigarette afterwords.
His_pet_slut
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I'm a sensuous creature. Always have been. The sensation created by shampoo and water cascading from my hair and across my body can arouse me....brushing my hair vigorously...the best though, is sliding between fresh sheets...instantly aroused, even if alone.
Loverskitten
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StrayKat
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I am sorry but this made me chuckle.
If some guys knew just how bad in sex they are they would never get another hard on...
awww sad day
This must suck... Thats why woman should tell us men when we suck at sex. Some guys must only hear fake orgasems. When i was sucky she said so... So I got much better. Lol yay growing pains lol.
I my sell like to brush my hair, or french braids realy get me going. A cold shower is no help on thouse days when my skin achs for the feel of another.... But what gets me the most is brushing my teeth. I dont know why but it just works your me, hmmm ideas.
This must suck... Thats why woman should tell us men when we suck at sex. Some guys must only hear fake orgasems. When i was sucky she said so... So I got much better. Lol yay growing pains lol.
I my sell like to brush my hair, or french braids realy get me going. A cold shower is no help on thouse days when my skin achs for the feel of another.... But what gets me the most is brushing my teeth. I dont know why but it just works your me, hmmm ideas.
Loverskitten
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This is hard to do. Men get stage fright or performance anxiety so easily.
I have told a man he was awful at oral, well not like that. I had to choose my words very carefully and it still hurt his manhood.
StrayKat
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Indeed. The myth about fragile male Ego is not always just a myth
Now I dont really go out of my way to pamper anyones Ego, especially not those I am hardly interested in apart from maybe a few nights. But I just dont care to bother explaining. None hired me as their sex teacher and I see no reason to make an effort. Especially since I know I will probably not get many thanks but some nastiness instead. Nothing gets a man reduced to a mean little boy like when you tell them they suck in bed.
StrayKat
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I dont fake anything. Why would I?
If they care to even notice they can think whatever they want. I dont explain unless particularly asked. And if they do notice and ask then they are not beyond any hope anyway.
Chaingun
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Y'all raise a very good point; how does one tell someone that they're no good in the sack without damaging an ego?
Luckily for me, I have been blessed with partners that were typically able to tell me what they wanted differently when pressed. I feel I've been a good listener and done what's been asked. By observation, I believe I've done fairly well since some of the evidence produced would be difficult to fake.
All the same, I think I would want to know if things can be done better. Trust and communication certainly help in expressing what needs to be done differently without damaging my brittle ego.
Luckily for me, I have been blessed with partners that were typically able to tell me what they wanted differently when pressed. I feel I've been a good listener and done what's been asked. By observation, I believe I've done fairly well since some of the evidence produced would be difficult to fake.
All the same, I think I would want to know if things can be done better. Trust and communication certainly help in expressing what needs to be done differently without damaging my brittle ego.
Sir_Winston54
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What CG said.Y'all raise a very good point; how does one tell someone that they're no good in the sack without damaging an ego?
Luckily for me, I have been blessed with partners that were typically able to tell me what they wanted differently when pressed. I feel I've been a good listener and done what's been asked. By observation, I believe I've done fairly well since some of the evidence produced would be difficult to fake.
All the same, I think I would want to know if things can be done better. Trust and communication certainly help in expressing what needs to be done differently without damaging my brittle ego.
There are ways of telling someone their skills are lacking, and there are ways...
"You're not licking my clit hard enough for me to feel it," vs.
"It's probably just me, but if you..."
"Come on, dood! If you're gonna fuck me, do it for more than 12 seconds!" vs.
"I think we'd both enjoy fucking more if it lasted a little longer... maybe if I get you off first, with a blowjob or however you want, then we could have more fun, longer?"
"Damn, guy! If you're gonna stick that thing in my ass, warn me first or you're gonna lose your dick after you roll over and go to sleep!" vs.
"Umm, just so neither of us lose too much skin from friction, could we maybe try another lube?" (Not mentioning that he didn't use lube to start with
)It's called tactful communication, I think.
Kikori
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They can't clean within their ears and it ends up itching--mine often tilts his head into a headscratch until a finger slips within the ear, goes wild for the rubbing. Every cat I've tried it with both loves the rub within the ear, and seems to want to lick my finger clean afterward. (Thank goodness for washing instead.)
Loverskitten
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My son actually told me I was "ewww gross" when cleaning my ears. Uh oh, add that to the list of things not to do in view of teenage boy.
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sagethorns
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I can't pass a spatula/egg lifter without giggling. wap wap wap. the feel of it's smoothness against my skin.
ArchLady03
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YES!! What is it about fresh sheets? The best though is when they're cool in the summer.
DeepGreenEyes
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This may be just me, but when I see everyday run-of-the-mill objects I get aroused all the time. Like when someone is wearing an ordinary black and red lace teddy, or simply typical crotchless silk green panties, for some reason it's "sexy."
StrayKat
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Are crotchless silk green panties everyday thing to wear nowdays?
HottieMama
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The smell of baby powder on adult skin... Reminds me of someone...
maybewicked
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Ties...really nice silky ties. I love the feel of them, running them between my fingers...
mynameisben
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Some lucky guy is going to come knocking on your door this Valentine's Day, bearing a heart-shaped box filled with Q-tips. I can see it so clearly.
Loverskitten
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Awwww warms my heart *sigh*
DeepGreenEyes
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What? You don't see them on the baggers at the grocery store??? The garbage guys??
kiwi_submissive
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I have a weird thing for yogurt especially vanilla.
Kurokami
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What CG said.
There are ways of telling someone their skills are lacking, and there are ways...
"You're not licking my clit hard enough for me to feel it," vs.
"It's probably just me, but if you..."
"Come on, dood! If you're gonna fuck me, do it for more than 12 seconds!" vs.
"I think we'd both enjoy fucking more if it lasted a little longer... maybe if I get you off first, with a blowjob or however you want, then we could have more fun, longer?"
"Damn, guy! If you're gonna stick that thing in my ass, warn me first or you're gonna lose your dick after you roll over and go to sleep!" vs.
"Umm, just so neither of us lose too much skin from friction, could we maybe try another lube?" (Not mentioning that he didn't use lube to start with
It's called tactful communication, I think.
I know this is a fairly old post, but my wife once produced possibly the best example of this I've ever heard. I, like a certain other fellow mentioned above, was apparently balls at giving oral to her, and one day after failing at it for however long, she propped herself up on her elbows and said to me "You know, you're terrible at this. But you'd better believe you're gonna get better." And that was a fun couple of weeks 'training'
Maybe I'm atypical, but I don't hate criticism in the bedroom, so long as it's constructive. And to actually get on topic, I find the sight of someone playing the piano oddly sexy, if they're good at it. It's the confidence of the finger placement, and the dexterity involved. It's elegant, and sometimes puts me in mind of what else those fingers could be doing
