Weekend BDSM Report

[FurryFury]

There is a good article on safety here and also here . There have been some good discussions on the board in days gone by, but often lost in threads on other topics.

Catalina

Thanks Catalina!

I will check these out when I get some time, probably tonight or tomorrow.

*smiles*

Fury

 

[Gil_T2]

Sounds like a great time was had by all! Good for you!

What are you getting???

Fury

We are waiting for BANDIT's chrissy pressy to arrive then i have to workout how to wrap it.

 

[FurryFury]

We are waiting for BANDIT's chrissy pressy to arrive then i have to workout how to wrap it.

I'm confused now too.

*pouts*

Fury

 

[bronntanas]

Last night wasn't the weekend, but I do have a report....

I'm not collared to Blue Kat but we do, ahem... do stuff together quite frequently. She told me a few weeks ago she'd been expanding her repertoire but until last night we hadn't had time for an extended scene. She asked if I minded her bringing her new girl too, and if they could camp out here overnight if need be. I was fine with that. The last thing I heard Monday afternoon was "I need you to be sure the dining room table is clear and shave EVERYTHING from neck to knee." I thought she was just teasing about the comments in the "Things you should never say" thread, but her girl informed me she really meant it.... So I shaved it all off and waited impatiently.

They get here and Kat introduced me once again to her girl. She's a sweetie, very goth and very sexy. amber retreats to the kitchen with a crock pot and a shopping bag. Kat tells me to get undressed and picks up Marcel (the friendlier of my two cats. Sancho had never met amber before so he was hiding in the laundry closet.) and scratches his ears.

After I'm all nekkid, Kat turns up the heat. (Literally, I hadn't realized how cold it was.) She then has me put my hands on my head and proceeds to "inspect" everything. She giggled when she discovered I'd taken her literally, but I've learned with Kat, you DON'T leave anything to chance. amber came back out, and undressed down to a bustier and garter belt with those seamed hose that make a lady's legs look about 10 miles long.... She said the stuff was almost ready, but we may need more mineral oil if we run out of wax. I started to get a little concerned here, but I trust Kat.

Kat pulled out a couple of floggers, and they started to flail happily away. (Marcel retreated to the top of the dryer with Sancho.) After I was nice and relaxed and happy, we went into the kitchen.

amber had covered the table with some old sheets and tied ropes around the legs for tie-downs. She had a crock pot filled with melted wax and I suddenly realized why I needed to shave everything. It should have been obvious before now, but I'm a guy and I was distracted.... You know what Robin Williams said about blood supply right? I was nervous because we'd tried with candles a few weeks ago and the wax was too hot. For this exercise, Kat had switched to paraffin and added mineral oil, which lowers the melting point. (and it also makes your "parts" very soft).

amber started to give me a bj as Kat cuffed my wrists and ankles. So I was all nice and happy when they laid me out on the table and tied me down. Kat started by dribbling wax on my stomach and up my chest. It was a bit hot for me at first, so she adjusted by holding the dipper higher in the air. I'd started to get used to it when she went up my chest. It'd felt pretty good on my stomach, but going up to my nipples and such was a major WOW. Like hot water, real hot, just this side of serious pain. amber was taking pictures the whole time.

After a while she started teasing me, working down towards my, ahem, parts, as snowy would say. I was pretty endorphin ed up, but I started to get twitchy as she got further down. By this time, I was used to it to the point where she was able to hold the dipper MUCH closer to my body, so the wax was a lot warmer.

Kat started on my balls, and I jumped hard enough to loosen the ropes on my ankles. amber started playing with me while Kat fixed it. Kat switched to a teaspoon, for precision work when she started on my shaft. She started dribbling long streaks of wax going up the shaft, stopping just short of the head. I was really wanting to get off at this point, so she took out a BIG hunting knife, scraped off all the wax and started over. Having a BIG knife that close to my parts was a bit freaky, but it appeared to work for me! When she started waxing again, we played "count the drops" where she would drop it slowly and I had to keep count. I wasn't really good at that. Every time she got close to the top I had to concentrate on not coming and I'd lose the count. Finally she started dribbling it on the head and I lasted maybe 2 minutes before I came.

After a few minutes of recovery time, they started pulling the wax off, using knives and fingers and all that. I discovered I hadn't gotten as close a shave as I should have in some spots, but that won't be a problem for the next week or so.

After I was de-waxed and untied, we went into the living room and collapsed on the sofa for a while. After some snuggling, Kat said amber could have whatever she wanted for that night only, for being so helpful. She wanted to orally service Kat while someone was taking her. I mean, amber in the middle of me and Kat. So we had a few hours of nice debauchery before I needed a break. The body was willing, but I'm type 2 diabetic so I needed some food! After a pizza break, we ended up watching movies and then stumbling off to bed.

Kat says next time we do wax play, she wants to try re-melting the wax with a hair dryer while it's still on me. I'm not so sure about that, but we'll see.

 

[D's mariposa]

I'm so glad it worked for you! It was funny, I was stuck in traffic coming up from the south side when the phone rings and it's Kat wanting to know what the proportions are for the mineral oil and wax. I had no clue! So I had to call D and ask him. You still sound a bit zenned and spacey, dear.

 

[Bandit58]

Woohoo, fun with wax! I've only had the one experience so far, using church candles. I loved it If anyone had told me a few years ago I'd be lying on the coffee table while someone dripped hot wax on me AND enjoying the hell out of it I would have said they were mad

The only hair I have is on my arms and head so I was pretty safe

 

[D's mariposa]

I forgot to ask this: Hey bronn? Did you make anymore short Domme jokes when she had you tied up and under a knife?

 

[graceanne]

I'm not collared to Blue Kat but we do, ahem... do stuff together quite frequently. She told me a few weeks ago she'd been expanding her repertoire but until last night we hadn't had time for an extended scene. She asked if I minded her bringing her new girl too, and if they could camp out here overnight if need be. I was fine with that. The last thing I heard Monday afternoon was "I need you to be sure the dining room table is clear and shave EVERYTHING from neck to knee." I thought she was just teasing about the comments in the "Things you should never say" thread, but her girl informed me she really meant it.... So I shaved it all off and waited impatiently.

I was wondering if you remembered to wax. Snowy wasn't sure.

Sounds like you had too much fun. *frowns* STOP IT. It makes the rest of us look bad.

 

[graceanne]

I forgot to ask this: Hey bronn? Did you make anymore short Domme jokes when she had you tied up and under a knife?

hehe I hope he's smart enough that the answer the that is NO.

But then - it might be interesting if he did.

 

[graceanne]

Kat says next time we do wax play, she wants to try re-melting the wax with a hair dryer while it's still on me. I'm not so sure about that, but we'll see.

Or maybe she could freeze it with ice cubes and just chip it off.

 

[bronntanas]

Nope, I never did! Short jokes were the furthest thing from my mind except for the "oh God, please don't let her slip!" sort of thing. Grace, I have to have tons of fun, to make up for those of us who aren't right now! I'm increasing the amount of luuuuuurrrrvvee in the universe.

 

[graceanne]

Nope, I never did! Short jokes were the furthest thing from my mind except for the "oh God, please don't let her slip!" sort of thing. Grace, I have to have tons of fun, to make up for those of us who aren't right now! I'm increasing the amount of luuuuuurrrrvvee in the universe.

Sure. That's what they all say. Or maybe you're using up other people's portions of luuuuurrrrvveee.

Glutton.

 

[bronntanas]

I'd be glad to share! **leers**

 

[graceanne]

I'd be glad to share! **leers**

Oh yeah. Two bottoms. That's gonna work out real well.

 

[bronntanas]

A guy can dream Grace! But I do know a rather creative Domme....

 

[graceanne]

A guy can dream Grace! But I do know a rather creative Domme....

Gracie's a coward. And hetero to boot.

But in my next life, if I'm gay or bi I'm definately gonna be looking up kat.

 

[snowy ciara]

I'm glad you three had fun.

 

[FurryFury]

I'm glad you three had fun.

I agree! Good for you all!

*hugs* to everyone who wants um.

Husband will be off the next two nights, I have some fun hopes...and new sex toys. Hey! What thread was that stuff about how unhealthy sex toys are? I can't remember.

Fury

 

[Gil_T2]

We are waiting for BANDIT's chrissy pressy to arrive then i have to workout how to wrap it.

Seeing as furry fury was the only want interested in BANDIT's chrissy pressie it's an A frame which she will be spending a fun filled holiday season getting aquainted with.

 

[Gil_T2]

Woohoo, fun with wax! I've only had the one experience so far, using church candles. I loved it If anyone had told me a few years ago I'd be lying on the coffee table while someone dripped hot wax on me AND enjoying the hell out of it I would have said they were mad

The only hair I have is on my arms and head so I was pretty safe

The fact it was you lady play mate waxing you wouldn't have anything to do with you liking it at all.

 

[catalina_francisco]

The fact it was you lady play mate waxing you wouldn't have anything to do with you liking it at all.

Stop it!! You lot are making me jealous...has been a long time since I have been on the receiving end of some wax play.

Catalina

 

[blue kat]

I'm glad you had fun, bronn. I get such a warm fuzzy when I hear someone had a good time with me!

I had a few notes to add to the scene, though.

A big thank you goes to mariposa and D for telling me that adding mineral oil would lower the melting point of the wax. D said that he wasn't sure what the proportions were when I asked her, but it looks like we hit it in one. I went for about a 2:1 mix. The paraffin box said that one square of paraffin makes about 2 ounces of liquid wax, so I had amber add an ounce of mineral oil for every square.

To set it up, she boiled some water in the tea kettle and poured it in the crock pot, and then added a clean 3 pound METAL coffee pan on a steam grate, making a double boiler type thing. We used a pot with a graduated heat dial, so I could monitor the temp more closely. While she was heating the water, she nuked the paraffin squares until they were about as soft as play dough, then added them to the boiler with the mineral oil. If you have more time, you can just add the oil and wax squares to the double boiler, but we started it a bit late in the afternoon. Don't forget to watch your water level if you do it this way and use hot water when you add to it. Then she kept dashing in and stirring it while we were beating him. When it was liquid, we used a couple of plastic soup ladles from the dollar store to splash it on him, until we switched to the spoons. They were the long handled plastic ice cream or iced tea typed spoons. That is, they had a long handle.

When we finished the scene, we discovered that the mineral oil kept the wax from hardening completely! It had a weird texture, like silly putty, but less malleable. We made it harden enough to transport home by putting the lid on it and sticking it on the back porch for a few hours. Of course, we had to shovel that corner of the porch to find it later!

 

[blue kat]

Stop it!! You lot are making me jealous...has been a long time since I have been on the receiving end of some wax play.

Catalina

But Catalina, I'm a sadist! Besides, the more we wind you up, the more fun Francisco'll have when he gets home!

 

[FurryFury]

Seeing as furry fury was the only want interested in BANDIT's chrissy pressie it's an A frame which she will be spending a fun filled holiday season getting aquainted with.

Thank heavens! I've been wondering if you'd ever tell!

Oh and wax play? I LOVE it. My husband doesn't but that's no surprise he hates temp play in general.

Fury

 

[blue kat]

Ever been to Canada, FF?