Watersports

[Link Valentine]

Hehe... it's always something new with my girl and I, isn't it?

Ok, my three biggest kinks in order are BDSM, Bondage and Watersports. She knew about the first two, and I've hinted at the last over the past two years or so, and tonight I finally told her flat out. Her response... well... here is part of the IM -

Link Valentine: You know, you could have peed on me instead ^_~

Auto response from Links Girl: nananananananananananananananananananananananana BATHROOM. BATHROOM. BATHROOOOOOOM.

Link Valentine: wb
Links Girl: o_o
Link Valentine: What?
Links Girl: that's a little too weird
Link Valentine: ...why?
LG: I don't want to pee on anyone. >_<
Link Valentine: ::whimpers:: Not even once? Just to try?
LG: nononononononono >_<
LG: that's too far.
LG: i'll never do that.
Link Valentine: ::twitch::
Link Valentine: Oh
LG: i even my limits, you know
LG: *have
Link Valentine: Yeah... but you know I like that... watersports = yummy
LG: sewrhj89e4atgphseruihstr
LG: ewwwwwwwwwwwwww
Link Valentine: ::blink::
LG: nononononkonononoononnoonono
LG: gross
LG: god...ew.
Link Valentine: ::blink::
LG: pee + sex = NO!
Link Valentine: Never said pee + sex
Link Valentine: All I said was pee o.o
LG: still, I never want to pee on someone
Link Valentine: ;-;
Link Valentine: Not even for me? Just once?
LG: no
LG: nononononono
LG: i'm sorry, but that is honestly making me stressed out
LG: *tense
LG: that's the word I meant
Link Valentine: ::nods:: Ok... I'm sorry I brought it up...
LG: it's okay, it's okay
LG: you didn't know
LG: and neither did i o_o
Link Valentine: ::blink::
Link Valentine: I've hinted at it enough
LG: but...this time it just really freaked me out
Link Valentine: :: pokes her in the nose:: Can I just ask why you're saying no?
LG: it sickens me
Link Valentine: Why? x.x;
LG: ....
LG: it's PISS, Link
Link Valentine: Ok, and? It's cleaner then you think. As long as you go to the bathroom regularly, it's sterile, and there is nothing wrong with it
Link Valentine: Trust me. I've done my research on this...
LG: nononononono
LG: i'm NEVER doing that
Link Valentine: What?
LG: NEVER
LG: NEVER
LG: i dont' care how sterile it is!NEVER

Well, it goes on after that, but that's really all you guys need to see. Now, if she's really that grossed out by it, I won't ask her to do it again, but can you guys just find me some information on the subject, so I can show her that it's clean, and that I'm not a sick freak for liking it?

This is just another thing in the chapter of " Link does whatever she wants, but she never does anything I want " Now, I know this is not the norm... but she's wanted some weird things too. She's into blood stuff, likes it when I bite her to draw blood and all... so I do it for her, but the idea of this sickens her so much, that she has to scream at me no...

 

[Dionysus2003]

It is not always easy to open up when you discover each other, but I wish you the best of luck

Maybe you should moderate your wishes towards her, and ask to watch her pee, for a start? That way you get a slower and more patient approach, and something she maybe can feel comfortable with at first. Then you can develop it from there...

Go to
Sexuality.org and read about it there

 

[noso]

I dont know much about WS but that conversation sure was entertaining

good luck to you ( hope you get what you want )

 

[Link Valentine]

70 views, two responses, and one of them isn't even on topic, lovely.

Dionysus2003, I asked her that, and she said no. I understand this isn't going to happen over night, but I just want to get some stuff together now, so when the time comes up for the conversation, I'll have something to say, and won't be dumbfounded

 

[Dionysus2003]

It can be a long "process" indeed, but as long as you have patience and time your chances of succeeding should be fairly good

How about watching an erotic movie together where watersports are done?


Of course the best thing is to take her on a loooooooooooong drive, give her plenty of water to drink, and make sure there are no restrooms within hours of where you are

 

[pogogirl]

So do you just want her to pee on you or do you also want to pee on her? I myself probably could pee on someone but it might be different if it was the other way around. Watersports are not my thing but I would rather pee on someone or have someone pee on me then giving rim jobs. I would never take pee in the mouth though. Do you enjoy her blood fetish? Just explain to her that you

 

[pogogirl]

ok let me finish my post now. My computer really messed up and was doing some crazy stuff and sent my post up before I was done. So just explain to her that you partake in her blood fetish for her eben though you are not as turned on by it as she is. So you want to try your watersports fetish. Just once to see if it is that bad. Thats the best advice I can think of. Hope it helps some.

 

[Nicole]

Go to
Sexuality.org and read about it there

The above link is probably the best place for you to go where they explain things in a manner that is non threatening and tastefulThe above link is probably the best place for you to go where they explain things in a manner that is non threatening and tasteful.

This is one thing that I always said I'd never try, then I met the right guy who shared parts of himself with me that he's never shared before and I with him, we got into a discussion one day and discovered that although it was something neither of us were too sure about we were curious ... we go away tomorrow and plan on giving it a shot. Now that doesn't mean that either of us will like it or want more of it, but at least we're both willing to try.

Talk to her in a non threatening manner and explain that you've tried things for her and that you're willing to try this in other ways ie: Watching her on the toilet, having her pee on you in the shower (or vice versa), taking her with you to the toilet and having her talk to you while you go to the toilet ... there's many ways to introduce something like this.

I wish you luck, but as I said the above link is the best way for her to read up on the subject.

 

[likaway]

pee start

We first did it in fun. He was peeing one day and I asked him if I could aim his cock while he pissed. He laughed and I grabbed it and aimed it at the toilet. I didn't get it all in but most of it hit the water. The next time we tried it, I got some on my leg and we both laughed. It was a deathly thing. After that we did it in the shower with both of us peeing on each other. It was fun and the first time I peed standing up.. It led to more games. Love Lisa

 

[likaway]

Sorry..........I should proofread! That was supposed to say...It was not a deathly thing.

 

[Limbhugger]

Try doing a forum search. This topic has been covered extensively with a lot of great info provided.

And rest assured, using the human mouth to break skin is FAR more dangerous than peeing on someone's leg!

In the end, your best bet is probably to ease into it. Pushing usually leads to push back.