wanting to try something new?

[Lunar_Eclipse]

Hey all, uhm, okay this is lit so I may as well just ask, it isn't that embarrassing compared to some questions I've read.

Okay, so I try to masterbait at least once a day before I go to bed. I still live at home and have two slightly younger siblings and I have a full time job, so I rarely get any time alone. Added on, I sleep on the couch in the living room sense I don't have a bed in my room to sleep on anymore, long story so I wont include it. Just in a nutshell, I have zero privacy to myself.

I haven't gotten past just rubbing my clit to reach an orgasm. And I want to try something new, but it'd have to be something that also wouldn't take to long(I get worried parents or siblings will wake up and then i'll have to quit) and able to do without a lot of room, cuz of the couch.

I've tried fingering myself a couple times, but without the time to warm myself up to be able to, I can't manage more than one in without any pain, and one has never done anything for me.

Sorry for the really long talk for the basic question, just curious to see if anyone had any advice for the girl with not enough alone time on her hands><

 

[SweetErika]

How about a handheld shower massager? You can get one that has lots of different rhythms for about $15 and they're easy to install if you don't already have one. Your excuse could be that sometimes you need to take a shower without getting your hair wet, or just rinse off your body quickly.

Other than that, you could try an electric toothbrush or a very small, quiet vibe (like the pocket rocket or an egg/bullet) that you could maybe put in a discreet little bag and tote around with you in your purse or whatever, if you don't have a place to hide it. With a toothbrush, any sound could be chalked up to brushing your teeth, but neither that nor a small vibe should make enough noise to wake anyone who's in another room if you use it under the covers, and maybe even put a pillow on top of your pelvic region. Some toy sites have noise ratings, so you could get an idea of what's quiet but powerful, then price shop that toy online.

 

[a75]

Maybe it's because english isn't my mother tongue, but anyway I didn't understand the meaning of your question... Are you seeking advice for masturbating on the couch, in a way that your family won't understand if they suddenly wake up, or for masturbating in other more private rooms of your house?

 

[Artfuldos]

I like the advice SweetErika gave.
Masturbating in a bath or during a shower should give you enough time and privacy.

 

[hd8001]

You could always try having some alone time in the shower or take a bath if you can. That would give you a private place and with water/fan going you shouldn't have to worry about anyone over hearing you. Plus the warm water should help put you in a relaxed mood. I understand how tight living conditions can really put a cramp on your sex life.

 

[DarkFantasyRose]

As others have said, have fun in the bathroom.

I also recommend going for a walk somewhere secluded... unless you live in a city in which case ignore that!

How about a vibrator you leave in all day and can set the controls to be different rates then when you have a moment of privacy you won't take as long to cum?

xxxx

 

[Lunar_Eclipse]

The bath and shower is always a good one. I for some reason have trouble reaching an orgasm in the shower. I'm not sure why, but it may be because I'm standing? Not sure. I always masturbate in the bath, my faucet is on the side of the tub rather than at the ends and goes out far enough that the water falls right on my clit and feels so good. But the downside of it is that it is very fast and not as pleasing as when I just rub myself.

I'd like to get a toy like that, that is discreet or I could wear all the time, but even though I know that I can have it delivered discreetly, I'm still much to nervous to buy online, and the closest store is a bit of a ways.

 

[DarkFantasyRose]

I can understand you being nervous about buying online. How about either a) getting it delivered to work or a friend's house or b) if it's because you are worried about being discovered online then use a computer elsewhere or use your home one and delete history (or if you use google chrome then open an incognito window and no browsing history is stored from that window.)

There's always a way.. just sometimes you need to use some imagination lol!

Hope this helps.

xxxx

 

[SweetErika]

I'd like to get a toy like that, that is discreet or I could wear all the time, but even though I know that I can have it delivered discreetly, I'm still much to nervous to buy online, and the closest store is a bit of a ways.

How is buying online more nerve-wracking than buying in a sex store? With very few exceptions (like Babeland in Seattle), I feel it's the exact opposite. I never have to worry about running into someone, overbearing clerks, poor selection or not getting the best deal online.

 

[yuna1981]

You could turn on the TV or some music to mask the sound of the toothbrush/vibrator.

 

[jordansgirl74]

The noise/sound is what always worried me while living with family members, so I strongly suggest doing it while the TV is on, or in the bathroom.....realistically, the noise of the TV (if your on the couch alone) is good enough, if not...try to turn it into a game of "How hot is it that my family is in the other room, and I'm in the bathroom pretending to go pee but totally fucking myself to orgasm". If you think about it, and if it works for you, that's pretty fucking hot. JMHO.

 

[IzzyAndy]

I definitely agree with the bathroom option. At home, I always do it in the shower, never anywhere else. Plus, if you're looking for something else - I don't need a shower massager, I just detatch the power-shower head and direct the jets. It's softer than an electric toothbrush - I find that's too intense.

 

[sugra]

You can talk to the USPS and see about having the package delivered to the nearest one to you and just picking it up there. There are a lot of options (also ups store, or fed ex stores will sometimes do this).