want to experiment, but restrained

flowenol

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Basically, Ive been with this girl, who doesnt want to have anal sex or intercourse, but shes really into this whole bondage thing. She likes me to tie her up and...well dominate her.

I ask you, what would you do to her? Sometimes I do things like make her suck me then make her wait, tied up, to make her cum.

What else can i do?
 
tie her up... bring her almost here.. then make her suck you off... then go watch tv and come back and do the same thing but mess with the nipples for a little while.. then keep changing it up a little.. until she is almost miserable waiting for it.
 
go to temperature extremes (within reason) and apply them to erogenous zones all over the body
 
buy a vibrator, tease her clit with it. hold it there and make her count outloud to twenty (or thirty, or fifty), dont let her cum until she's reacheed your desired number.

something A once did with me: put on a porno, tied me so i was open to him, and held a vibe to my clit while pinching my nipples. i had to watch the porno as i was being teased, and soon began begging for release. i got no answer from him except for a few short teasing remarks. i turned away from the porno, becuase i was worried i would cum if i kept watching it. he said "no, watch her enjoy her orgasm, THEN you can cum". it was a very memorable night, and there was no actual sex.
 
Also, working up slowly to things like anal can actually be very fulfilling and bring a couple closer together, build their trust.

For example, tie her up, and then slip a finger in her ass. Don't go any further than that. After a few times, try putting a dildo in her. Always use safe words, and if she's not comfortable, stop. But going slow may be just what both of you need.
 
tie her feet up to the back of her thighs, and her wrists to her upper arms, and make her fetch things for you like a dog ;)
 
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