Vaginal Stimulation

[zp]

I have a friend who can not cum through intercourse but only through being touched. She likes both oral stimulation and fingers but sometimes her clit gets overly stimulated If I go straight to the clit and she loses focus on her orgasm. I am looking for any different techniques we could try to help her achieve orgasm on a regular basis. Thanks
zp

 

[Eilan]

FWIW, it's not all that uncommon for women to not be able to have an orgasm through intercourse alone.

Sometimes direct clitoral stimulation can be a little too intense (I find this to be true sometimes), so you might want to try to focus on stimulating around her clit without actually touching it.

And even though you say she can't have vaginal orgasms, you may want to check out this thread. If you haven't already, that is.

 

[revolution724]

I've found that it makes a difference how you apply the pressure to the clit area. Like sometimes you can sort of fold her labia over her clit and rub that way, and it's not quite as too-sensitive. Or, you can switch from rubbing with your fingertip or the tip of your tongue to rubbing the whole area with the palm of your hand or the flat part of your tongue.

Have fun experimenting!

 

[Tele2047]

Play around, listen to her body and what she tells you, can't really go wrong with the tongue.

 

[owterspace]

my 2 cents

when the woman sems like shes not getting hotter either from her movements or sounds I stop what Im doing and try anything to get her back on track "so to speak" my wife has told me that too much clit action hurts so I lick and caress her whole pussy kiss her lips as you kiss her mouth that always works.......just as others have said...... Pay Attention To Her...... WHATEVER works ....DO IT.... above all please her and have fun....GOOD LUCK..

 

[zp]

Thanks for the help I read the thread listed and am going to try it out as well as all of the other suggestions.
Thanks
zp.