Using Protection

[coolbluewaters]

I have one for all the guys and gals out there. I was recently in a situation that the guy whom i was with refuses to use condoms because they are uncomfortable even the ones that are his size and even considers them a turn off because they desensitive the feeling of a nice warm wet pussy. what is everyone's true feelings on them if you had the choice would you use them or not. Me personally if i could have bareback sex all the time i would it feels better for some reason maybe it's just me.... tell me how you all feel about this

 

[Michi_Knickers]

I usually go on the pill when I am in a long term relationship, I prefer my boyfriend going without condoms too. but you need to be clear on each others sexual history.
if I have a one night stand I always insist on he use a condom, if he doesn't want to it aint happening.

 

[wicked woman]

Well now that's an easy question...I want him...only him.

Edited to add: I thought the question posed was simply do you prefer sex with or without a condom. If you want to discuss the issue of safer sex...I agree with the other responses. Safety over most else.

 

[rgraham666]

Until we're in a committed relationship, and we are quite clear on each other's sexual and medical history, I always use a condom.

Sure, there is some loss of sensation, but that's a lot better than fathering a child I'm not able to look after, or catching something fatal, or worst of all, infecting someone because I hadn't shown symptoms yet.

It's a matter of responsibility. We're responsible for one another's well being, physical and emotional.

 

[silverwhisper]

considering the possible consequences, coolbluewaters, i wouldn't give a good goddamn what his preferences are. even if you two are in a committed relationship, when's the last time either of you were tested? do you know if he's ever been?

screw his preferences. play it safe so you can be sure to play again. :>

ed

 

[phoenix1224]

Personally, I can't stand condoms... They decrease the sensation for me sooo much that, sometimes, I have difficulty maintaining my erection.


To demonstrate the difference in sensation between wrapped and unwrapped: Just imagine that you have two bags full of cotton balls and you stick one hand into each of the bags... One hand bare, the other wrapped in a surgical glove... There will be one hell of a HUGE difference.

 

[revchev]

Personally, I can't stand condoms... They decrease the sensation for me sooo much that, sometimes, I have difficulty maintaining my erection.


To demonstrate the difference in sensation between wrapped and unwrapped: Just imagine that you have two bags full of cotton balls and you stick one hand into each of the bags... One hand bare, the other wrapped in a surgical glove... There will be one hell of a HUGE difference.

I've used a piece of plastic wrap for demonstration purposes. Licked her pussy directly for a bit, then put the plastic over it and licked again. It made quite an impression.

 

[coolbluewaters]

yes to answer all your questions we are in a commited relationship and we have been tested recently. we have been using comdoms but this time he refused plain flat out refused. The time before he was take that thing off i cant stand it. Just glad that there are guys out there that feel the same way he does.

 

[HollyHawkk]

We have used them, we prefer not to use them. But, we are in a long term relationship with no cheating or messing around.

If there was no commitment we would be using them.

Not worth the risk.

 

[Cathleen]

I prefer not to use them but I prefer not to become pregnant or get an STD more. I think it is personal choice for both people but if there isn't agreement then there isn't penetration.

 

[h_i_s]

My Husband and i do not use condoms ... i have an IUD in place ... not an issue.

Many claim that a condom kills the experience in one way or another ........... There is always the female condom to concider ........ and with enough lube, and for many who use them ... it's easy to look past the fact that it is even in use.

 

[Lynxie]

yes to answer all your questions we are in a commited relationship and we have been tested recently. we have been using comdoms but this time he refused plain flat out refused. The time before he was take that thing off i cant stand it. Just glad that there are guys out there that feel the same way he does.

Hopefully you're okay with his decision. If you're not, you should probably have a discussion about it outside of the bedroom. If you're more comfortable with him wearing a condom, it's your right to speak up about it.

 

[Tele2047]

If you're not worried about STDs, you could try some other birth control methods like the pill combined with sponge or contraceptive film or whatnot