using Anal Beads

[pixiesmurf]

i found out that my boyfriend is possibly interested in having anal beads used on him...i've never used them before and i don't want to mess it up....any suggestions or help will be soooo appreciated...i'm really excited he wants to try new things...ty

 

[slutgirl1]

Preparation, lube, and be gentle.

I've never used them on anyone else before, but having used them on myself (ahem) and others using them on me, just go slow, tell him to relax and lube. Did I say lube twice? Yes. For a good reason.

 

[wild-thing]

As previously said, lots of lube and gentle, but also spring for the better quality so you get smooth beads without any ridges or rough edges.

 

[Cattypuss]

I'm interested in trying this too. Any good techniques?

 

[wild-thing]

Cattypuss, the basic idea is that the beads are pulled out while you're cumming to increase the sensations, but half the fun is putting them in one by one, and teasing them in and out before the big moment.

 

[Cattypuss]

Thanks..... so at the moment of coming, does one rip them out like a parachute rip-cord, or does one pull them out slowly?

Sorry! Seen them in shops and never really understood what to do with them!

 

[wild-thing]

Cums down to personal preference, I suppose. What kind of stimulation do you like when it cums to your backside, teasing or aggressive?

 

[wildehafer]

Pull them out slooowly, so the full effect of each bead straining to get out through a tightened sphincter is felt.

 

[pixiesmurf]

the one thing i have heard is you do NOT rip them out like starting a lawn mower...lol...thank you all for responding...he LOVES it when i get close to this area when i'm giving him head so when he "kinda" brought it up (that could be fun were his exact words) i got excited to try but i want to do it right and make the experience awesome for him....thanks ya'll

 

[silvastormcloud]

In my honest opinion they can really add to the height of you orgasm but please dont rip them out unless your into pain. Ouch

Gentle, lube, kisses on the way in and love when you pull them out slowly during orgasm

 

[pixiesmurf]

ok...now that i know how to use them...next question...i was looking online and they have two different kinds...they have the kind that is one long unit and then they have them on a string of some sort...which is better for him?

 

[Bottomlover]

I really like the ones on a nylon string better because they bunch up inside you and give a nice sensation as you squirm around, but I wonder about cleaning them. I once put a whole string of them in bleach, and the next time we used them the string broke, and there were a few anxious moments before finding out that they were easily expelled. We've tried the other ones, and they 're just not the same.

 

[pixiesmurf]

i didn't think the one piece ones would be much comfort and i like the idea of the string ones but i have the same question as you...cleaning them...ty for responding

 

[janjon]

There is...

a joke, and I think it might have even been told in a movie, about someone who pulled them out as if starting a lawnmower, so the story goes, there was a certain "splattering" effect. Might want to start with "slowly".

 

[A_Kefka]

I'd go slow enough that you feel each one seperately. also teasing them in and out is good fun. Haven't used any in a while, but tried a few times and liked them. They were the kind with the string. I washed them with soap and water, then soaked them in rubbing alcohol for a little while. Seemed to work ok. I should probably try some again.

 

[FitfunWoman]

Here's a little something from the folks at Good Vibrations:
http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=736

I have found Good Vibrations, in addition to having quite good toys, does provide a wealth of information.

 

[wild-thing]

Having tried both fixed beads on a stick and those on a string, I prefer on a stick. That way you can stroke them in and out for continuous stimulation.

 

[FitfunWoman]

Having tried both fixed beads on a stick and those on a string, I prefer on a stick. That way you can stroke them in and out for continuous stimulation.

Agreed

 

[bicplnks]

Having never experienced this it sounds fun. I like all kinds of stimulation back there so why not try these? Good luck

 

[SlickTony]

If you can get the recipient to take one of those Fleet (or reasonable facsimile thereof) enemas, it helps...otherwise, you risk getting santorum on the sheets.

 

[A_Kefka]

Having tried both fixed beads on a stick and those on a string, I prefer on a stick. That way you can stroke them in and out for continuous stimulation.

that is fun too, I have a knobby butt plug that I love to do that with.

 

[wildehafer]

This is a great anal stimulator.

All those lovely ridges

 

[trb2216]

the ones with string about 1" to 1.25" really get me going.

slowly pull and tug on them at the moment of his release should be the best.

 

[r1ch_9691]

Definitely prefer the single unit to the string for the same reasons previously mentioned. Having them slid in and out slowly can be a step towards something more substantial up there.

Also, having them pulled out a-la 'lawnmower' isn't as uncomfortable as you may think with a little care, though I prefer them withdrew in time to my orgasm.