Using a vibrator

[Psia]

Hi,
I have a very silly question. How do you use a vibrator? I know the logical answer to this, but I'm wondering if most women use theirs for penetration or primarily for clitoral stimulation. I've never really gotten into using my vibrators, I think mainly because I crave insertion. BUT, I also know I haven't really given external stimulation the biggest chance either.
So, how do you recommend getting the most out of your vibrator?
Psia

I've also used vibes for anal d.p. purposes during sex, so that's not so much a question.
Thanks!

 

[burrish]

well WHEN i use mine, i like to turn it on and then run it over my nipples and over my stomach, then i use it for clitoral use first, if i want to take my time then i pentatrate and use my other hand and rub my nipples and rub my clit while the hand with bob in it is pushing bob in and out. after a few minuties of this i really get into and i start to push bob faster and deeper and my other fingers really start to work my clit over.
if i am with hubby then he will insert bob while he is giving me oral and that feels awsome, i wonder if i'll ever have that again?

 

[DuckLover]

Some of it, of course, depends on the type of vibrator. The little Pocket Rocket types aren't long enough to use for penetration... unless you slip them into a condom and leave the end hanging out. (That can be a lot of fun btw.)

With the longer, more dildo-shaped styles, it's really up to you. What turns you on the most and gives you the most pleasure? If you prefer insertion, do that. If you want to try using it mostly on your clit, do that instead. My gf and I enjoy doing both depending on our mood.

 

[Wizard]

The Pocket rocket rules...................

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Zev Green]

I personally use the rampant rabbit style ones. I love penetration, but I also need the clitoral stimulation so ones that combine both are great for me. I'd strongly recommend them for anyone.

Zev

 

[lilpriss]

I'm a penetration junkie as well... For that nothing beats my G-spot vibrator... and I can go at my clit with my fingers at the same time, something about soft flesh on my clit is just more appealing to plastic if you know what I mean.

But on occasion I'll use a vibrator just on my clit for a "quickie" orgasm... just to take the edge off so I can fall asleep or whatever.

I tried bringing it into the bedroom with my partner and I, once, but HE feels much better than it did, so it got quickly tossed aside and forgotten.

As far as what feels good, well all I can suggest is try different things and see what you like the best. I would suggest adding lube to your list of accesories... it's much nicer if there's a little more slip than usual. Personally, I don't get nearly as wet when I'm masturbating as I do with my partner, so I always add a little lube when I'm alone.

We also found that it's fun to add when we're together... it was more fun than the vibrator actually... hmmm where is the nearest store... I think I'm out of K-Y warming liquid OOPS wrong thread!

 

[Lust Engine]

I think a lot of women use them as clit stimulators, but that doesn't do a damn thing for me. It's all about penetration, baby, and sometimes two at a time.

mmmmm...the imagery of it all!

Yum!

 

[Quint]

Clit stimulation 99% of the time. The other 1% is when T wants to feel that extra tightness while he's in my ass from DP. I don't do much foreplay with it, just sit it on my clit and turn it on increasing speeds. I actually cum faster when I'm being fucked simultaneously, but the penetration alone is not the right kind of stimulation to get me off.

 

[Etoile]

I don't really go for much vibrator foreplay either. And while I like the dual-action ones a lot (the Rabbit Habit I have is great), I think it's really the clit stimulation that gets me off. Every woman is different in this department!

Then again, one of my favorite vibrators is actually a "shoulder massager" (like these but a little bigger and with the heat option) so that really can't be inserted!

 

[Linda37]

Vibrators etc

It's different for everyone in using vibrators but the best two I ever bought were the egg and the Blue Hawaii vibrator (similar to the rabbit). With the egg, I would just walk around the house with in me and turn the speeds. That is a truely high experience. Sometimes I find too, taking a nice long hot bath and lieing on your bed can get you in a relaxed mood as you play with your vibrator. Close your eyes and think about different fantasies you've had.

If you have more questions or concerns I would highly recommend logging onto www.goodvibes.com. They are a wonderful sex toy shop in San Francisco and have a wonderful staff who can answer any questions about vibrators. It's the only store I know that has an antiuqe vibrator museum!www.goodvibes.com

 

[MDcouple11]

I personally don't like things vibrating inside of me. I have the egg, and I only use that on my clit. I need the clitoral stimulation to get off. On very rare occasion, I have used a dildo in conjunction with the egg. I don't like the feeling of hard plastic inside of me either, so the dildo is nice because its more flexible and human like.

I also use the egg during sex. I put it on my clit while I get fucked and it makes cumming during sex possible for me.

 

[Psia]

Wow, thanks for all of the suggestions! I think I might have to try out some new vibrator styles. I have only purchased the plainer dildo shaped ones. I definitely am going to put a combination clit stimulator/dildo vibe on my list. I think that might just be the thing I need...
Thanks a bunch!
Psia

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

i'm weird in the fact that when I use my vibrator i use it mainly for clitoral stimulation have never been able to get off sticking it inside me

 

[RunicRath]

I think I'm pretty equal with penetration or clitoral stimulation. It doesn't matter to me, as long as I'm getting SOME kind of pleasure.

 

[Lust Engine]

The next one on my list a DP vibe. I'm tied of having to juggle 2 when I want DP.

The problem is they make them with a larger pussy vibe and a smaller anal vibe, and, dammit, I'm greedy, I want big rubber cocks in both holes!!!

I'm sure you'd much rather have real man meat in both holes but I can understand the substitution in that sort of pinch.

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Owlz]

I just bought a jelly butt plug. Does the jelly material work well, say, with a seperate vibe pressed against it (causing the plug to vibrate)?

 

[Lust Engine]

Yes, my poor pussy seems to have taken up vegetarianism these days.

Not the "hunky looking cucumber" days again, is it?

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[sexyimporttuner]

i use mine for clit stimulation, and every so often penitration

 

[warrior queen]

i prefer my S/O to be in control of my vibe - never quite know what he's going to do to me with it!

but if i'm on my own, i tend to go for the clit stim - sometimes a girl's just gotta have a quick orgasm!

 

[Lust Engine]

lmao!

Ooops, did I spill out too much info about you scouring the produce aisles to fine the Mel Gibson of cucumbers again?

My bad.

 

[Blastasbird]

I tend to use mine mainly for clit stimulation especially if I want a quick orgasm, if I am after something taking much longer then either my bloke will use it so I wont know what he is going to do or if I am on my own I will insert it as well as use it on my clit.

And me I have a nice gold shiny RoboCock.