Upper 50’s MWM in sexless marriage looking for help ending the sexless streak

[Carolinaguy1367]

I’m 58 and married. Love my wife but sex to her has gone from not really important to nonexistent. Miss everything about it…the actual SEX, yes, but the physical contact and intimacy as well.

 

[pleasedoit4me]

I am in the very same place brother.....it is depressing.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Right there with you!

 

[Dearelliot]

There are millions of us!

 

[sicpup72]

Another club member here

 

[trucker6142]

Yup, im in the same boat.
My imagination is still very active. The wife just isnt interested any more

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Same situation.

No easy solution.
I have accepted it and moved past the bitterness and resentment.

It is what it is and just doing the best I can with the hand dealt

 

[Dirtyoldhornyman]

Same
We Should start a club!

 

[Simon01]

I’m 58 and married. Love my wife but sex to her has gone from not really important to nonexistent. Miss everything about it…the actual SEX, yes, but the physical contact and intimacy as well.

I know how you feel

 

[Greytruck]

Hardly fair.. get to a good comfortable place in life and bam! No more nookie

 

[Realnicegirl77]

Happy to help some guys out a little if i have the time x

 

[missit]

I know how you feel

exactly same boat here--though I'm 65

 

[barbadosboy65]

The club just got bigger again

 

[quasimodm]

The club just got bigger again

Not that size matters

 

[barbadosboy65]

But it helps

 

[MaturemanAJ]

We have gone through spells of no sex. I looked high and low at times without hanging out in bars and paying for apps. Why is it so difficult at times.
Women I talk to basically are getting banged whenever they want why do married guys struggle?
I do know people except easily a married woman that cheats but not a married manwhich is total b.s.

 

[Wouldlovetoo]

We have gone through spells of no sex. I looked high and low at times without hanging out in bars and paying for apps. Why is it so difficult at times.
Women I talk to basically are getting banged whenever they want why do married guys struggle?
I do know people except easily a married woman that cheats but not a married manwhich is total b.s.

Women can get laid every day if they want to. Men will basically fuck just about any woman who walks. Most omen are fussier we have to get to know the guy first, there has to be an attraction or chemistry between them before taking them to our bed or any bed for that matter.
And you're wrong about people not caring if a woman cheats on her husband. That all depends on where the couple lives. In the country, in the city, in a more progressive state or not, there are a lot of variables at play.