Unforgettable

Samuelx

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I have been through a lot this year.



I've come out to a few people. I finally admitted to myself that I was a bisexual black man. I dated both sexes and ended up with Wendy, whom I thought was a good woman. Our relationship ended when she revealed a violent side to herself --- she hit a kid ! She got 1 week in jail, probation and mandatory counseling plus community service for it. I walked away angry and bitter. I loved her. My best friend Karl moved away. I am currently friends with John, a very handsome gay man. He helps me deal with issues. We are just pals. Nothing else.


Through it all, someone remained never far from my thoughts. Brigida. A beautiful tomboy from the town of Plymouth. She was something else. I met her in late 2003. She had a boyfriend at the time. I was suffering from sexuality confusion at the time. I was bi but couldn't accept it then and was self-destructive and self-loathing. I never stopped thinking about Brigida. Now, the school year is ending. I'm thinking of going to her town and try and see her. I haven't seen her since May 2004. I hope she hasn't forgotten about me. I liked her a lot and could tell that she liked me but she always mentioned her bf this and her bf that. That confused me !



Back at school, we were just friendly. I talked to her often. She was so damn cool. I always wondered what it would be like to date her. That
was long before I met Wendy. I met Wendy in September 2004 and began dating her not long after. I met Brigida in October 2003 and haven't stopped thinking about her since that day !!!! I've been with guys and girls but she holds a special place in my....mind.


Should I go visit her ? Is this too forward ? We didn't know each other all that well but she made a really good impression.


Anyway.....


I gave her a call and she was really surprised to hear from me. I hadn't talked to her in a long time. She told me that she was doing fine.
After talking to her, I felt so excited that I went running at full speed around my town. I think I might be in love with that chick or something.



What do you think ? What should I do ?
 
How was the conversation on the phone. If it wasnt awkward than go visit and see whats up.

I never understand why girls will always mention their bf's when they are with a guy. Or this one girl always said she hated when guys would hit on her, but she hooked up with a guys from time to time regularly. It always puts me off and I never try anything. Is that what they are going for? I am too much of a straight forward person to deal with that crap.
 
Good for you for doing the right thing with the Wendy situation, Samuel.

Frankly, since you're admittedly still angry, bitter, and hurting, you should probably take some time for yourself to heal and figure out what you want. You can't have a healthy relationship if you're not in great shape yourself, and I suspect you're turning your affections on people like Brigida because you're missing/grieving your previous relationship. That's normal, but probably won't lead to good decisions and results in the future. So, my advice is to slow down, and focus on you and building platonic friendships for now.
 
To your good health and good advice, ma'am. Take care. Peace.
 
Man, that was such a long time ago.

Brigida is now married to an Army/police guy.


I left Boston and live in canada now.

I've dated guys and girls and have a career in law enforcement and have published several novels.

I'm okay.
 
Man, that was such a long time ago.

Brigida is now married to an Army/police guy.


I left Boston and live in canada now.

I've dated guys and girls and have a career in law enforcement and have published several novels.

I'm okay.

*giant bear hug* How come do you live in Canada now ? and what about the wife and kids ?
 
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