Undercover lover?

[chester]

I have been watching the ladies here on LIT because of a "sometimes" lover telling me about the board. She sends me some of the stories she likes and we "cyber" sometimes. I DO know this woman "in the flesh" as it is. I do not have a S.O. and also would not be online as much. I have a few ladies online I play with, but none through LIT. Freya, boy, if I was more handsome, rich and closer to you, I would be KNOCKING on your door. I am surprised on the amount of sexy beautiful women here, posting for all us lonley guys to admire. If I did have as S.O. I think this would be just fine for her to know. If I can enjoy myself here, why should she not have the opportunity. If she chose NOT to, I would hope she would still give me the freedom to check in when I wanted to. That is MY 2 cents worth PET.

 

[lustforlife74]

I think if I had a lover, I certainly wouldn't be hanging around here as much as I do.

Great topic Pet!

I agree Freya (Norse Goddess of Spring and making Beer).

Even so this is a great place for a couple to explore their sexual fantasies in a safe way.

Honesty is a huge factor in a relationship...

 

[just pet]

I am bringing back this poll since we have so many new people

 

[silken_kitten]

I am bringing back this poll since we have so many new people

mmmm loved catching up on all the other posts pet

thanks!!!

 

[just pet]

mmmm loved catching up on all the other posts pet

thanks!!!

Hello, Princess

I was impressed with people's candor here
But it is sad how many can't share this with a SO

 

[silken_kitten]

Hello, Princess

I was impressed with people's candor here
But it is sad how many can't share this with a SO

very true hun!

My SO knows I post here though he is camera shy..

 

[just pet]

very true hun!

My SO knows I post here though he is camera shy..

Mine's not

 

[Dbtk44]

Hello, Princess

I was impressed with people's candor here
But it is sad how many can't share this with a SO

SOs can be a tricky lot...*L* Yes, 'tis a shame. Emotions of a SO can be a funny thing though. We all gotta have a couple 'O secrets here and there..

 

[PussyLicknTommy]

Everybody has different levels of sexual fulfillment. Lit fills the void when highly sexual people can't be with their SO. It also fills the void of sex to those who don't have a relationship at the time. Either way, it works, it's healthy, we're all here, for really the same reason anyhow, so enjoy. The people here are great, and very honest.


Is the whole world crazy.....or is it just me.

 

[just pet]

Everybody has different levels of sexual fulfillment. Lit fills the void when highly sexual people can't be with their SO. It also fills the void of sex to those who don't have a relationship at the time. Either way, it works, it's healthy, we're all here, for really the same reason anyhow, so enjoy. The people here are great, and very honest.


Is the whole world crazy.....or is it just me.

Glad you are enjoying Lit
And you are right that we are all here for different reasons
Honest?
Not especially sure about that. With time your radar will become more acute.
Each Forum has a different character, personality and culture, if you will. Be sure to explore all the Forums. They serve different purposes.
I have found that although sex is a large part of this board, it is more a matter of it being an adult board. On the GB, for example, often there is little sex being discussed.
Welcome to Lit, and don't anything to heart. Just rememebr you are here to have fun.

 

[just pet]

SOs can be a tricky lot...*L* Yes, 'tis a shame. Emotions of a SO can be a funny thing though. We all gotta have a couple 'O secrets here and there..

This question is circulating on the GB as well.
The consensus there is that the successful relationships are those where there are no secrets. Both are aware of the boards, many posting together.
I don't think I would be happy with someone I couldn't share Lit with. I have so many friends here. I have grown so much while here.

 

[svenmn]

This question is circulating on the GB as well.
The consensus there is that the successful relationships are those where there are no secrets. Both are aware of the boards, many posting together.
I don't think I would be happy with someone I couldn't share Lit with. I have so many friends here. I have grown so much while here.

Hell yea but really gets to be pain in ass when your trying to type a post and she's correcting your grammar or spellllllllling.



But really it's better that SO know and do not habor bad feelings about it.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I am an Other.

My SO knows I post, and I post whatever I want whenever I want. Sometimes he reads over my shoulder, sometimes he doesn't.

I also have an online lover... and a wide range of online flirts, innuendos, naughty conversations, etc.

And I don't feel inhibited by my online lover, because she knows just how sexual I am, and she knows that at the end of the day, she's my girl, and I'm hers.

 

[Miles_Cassidy]

...I was impressed with people's candor here
But it is sad how many can't share this with a SO

We totally agree. To each their own, but we find it so much more enjoyable to share this fun together.
-miles

 

[male.man]

What a great thread

just pet, firstly, hello to you......

I voted other, reason being that my S O departed this world just on 2 yrs ago, and at present there is no S O, except for my young daughter....

when my wife was here, we both shared in the fantasy of most Lit stories and we often just browsed the BB's,or should I say lurked?, without ever posting a pic or comment, as she couldn't bring herself into the open like all the others here, which I respected.... myself, well it had taken a while for me to actually submit to the boards.....and now that I have done so, I sometimes regret not having done so with my wife... I have met some remarkable people from all walks of life and feel like there is a good friendship among us and am sure she would have felt the same.....although there are many miles between...

I agree that it is sad that many don't share this with their S O, but each to their own and I supose it all comes down to the point of being comfortable with who you are, your beliefs, your taste's and what your willing to share.

Thanks just pet, take care
male.man......

p.s...there are some on the boards who I have trusted enough to allow them a photo of my face, as I hope you understand, the AV is cropped for the protection of my little angel....

 

[felixdakat]

my 2 cents

to each his/ her own... right?. but i also belive in mutual respect, i'm single now, but if i were with some one i wouldn't want to do any thing they would be uncomfortable with me doing, or vise versa.

i think looking at porn, and being porn, are two totaly diferent animals.

although not all nudity is porn, it's in the eye of the beholder.


oh yeah and a rose for our thread host....

 

[just pet]

Thank you everyone for posting
And thank you for the roses