Joe Wordsworth
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(Now, that's a thread title)
My girl is able to do things that no woman has EVER managed to do, with me... she can actually make me wiggity by having sex.
I know we've all taken a dose of the realistic nature of sex, here--it's not all flowers and wispy outfits and candles and all that. There's physical limitations, goo (oh, but isn't there), aches and pains, angles and shapes of things. It's a process that love, alone, doesn't make great.
It's not all a physics equation, but whose to deny that when you strip away the fluff... it's a biological process, fueled by mechanical principles on sensitive areas.
The manner in which the nerves in a penis or a vagina lay may make having sex more or less pleasurable, easy, or satisfying. Clitoral placement, size, and sensitivity define a great deal of sexual habit and thus practice.
We can love, and love deeply, those we partner... we can even enjoy sex to the extent of knowing its the very best of it you've had. But, there can be limits and flaws in that, and acknowledging them can be hard.
Me? It's very, very, very, very, very hard to have an orgasm I don't cause. Been that way my whole life. I think I'm not as sensitive as most guys, down 'o there, and being circumsized my whole life probably has much to do with it. But beyond that, I never had a wet-dream ever and I never prematurely wooged. I've lost erections, in the past, from lack of sensation even during times I was getting it.
Physical limitations.
In turn, it made me a lot more interested in "rougher" sex. I was more drawn to blowjobs than sex (much more going on there, I'm sure we know). I was more into certain positions, sexually, than others... specifically for what level of stimulation I could get.
I'm sure we all have stories like that. Some habit or practice we have because that's just how we work best, and things we just don't get to because we don't work so well that way. It'll be varied, I'm sure. And different.
But, remarkably, My Girl has managed on a trick that I had no idea existed and spiced up our sex life quite a bit. Somehow, with her on top rolling the hips and grinding against the pubic bone she gets all the lovin' joy she needs (ladies, is this a familiar position/preference?) and as accomodates my size (I'm on the bigger side), I get rubbed and caressed six ways to Sunday somewhere alllllllllll the way in the back (I promise I'm not trying to be too graphic).
And I whooooooosh every time.
Every time.
I don't have to touch a thing.
This is a great accomplishment in my life. That had never happened in my whole life.
My girl is able to do things that no woman has EVER managed to do, with me... she can actually make me wiggity by having sex.
I know we've all taken a dose of the realistic nature of sex, here--it's not all flowers and wispy outfits and candles and all that. There's physical limitations, goo (oh, but isn't there), aches and pains, angles and shapes of things. It's a process that love, alone, doesn't make great.
It's not all a physics equation, but whose to deny that when you strip away the fluff... it's a biological process, fueled by mechanical principles on sensitive areas.
The manner in which the nerves in a penis or a vagina lay may make having sex more or less pleasurable, easy, or satisfying. Clitoral placement, size, and sensitivity define a great deal of sexual habit and thus practice.
We can love, and love deeply, those we partner... we can even enjoy sex to the extent of knowing its the very best of it you've had. But, there can be limits and flaws in that, and acknowledging them can be hard.
Me? It's very, very, very, very, very hard to have an orgasm I don't cause. Been that way my whole life. I think I'm not as sensitive as most guys, down 'o there, and being circumsized my whole life probably has much to do with it. But beyond that, I never had a wet-dream ever and I never prematurely wooged. I've lost erections, in the past, from lack of sensation even during times I was getting it.
Physical limitations.
In turn, it made me a lot more interested in "rougher" sex. I was more drawn to blowjobs than sex (much more going on there, I'm sure we know). I was more into certain positions, sexually, than others... specifically for what level of stimulation I could get.
I'm sure we all have stories like that. Some habit or practice we have because that's just how we work best, and things we just don't get to because we don't work so well that way. It'll be varied, I'm sure. And different.
But, remarkably, My Girl has managed on a trick that I had no idea existed and spiced up our sex life quite a bit. Somehow, with her on top rolling the hips and grinding against the pubic bone she gets all the lovin' joy she needs (ladies, is this a familiar position/preference?) and as accomodates my size (I'm on the bigger side), I get rubbed and caressed six ways to Sunday somewhere alllllllllll the way in the back (I promise I'm not trying to be too graphic).
And I whooooooosh every time.
Every time.
I don't have to touch a thing.
This is a great accomplishment in my life. That had never happened in my whole life.
) but in cases when it happens i now know exactly what will help him along...whispered dirty nothings in his ear, exact turns of phrase, fantasies and general moans and groans which will get him there all the quicker. It is such a turn on to know I have all this power, all this knowledge and I know he's aware of my buttons too. 
