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[witcha]

Just trying to find out whether I'm normal......Been fantasising bout a particulary close to my heart scene (nothing too extreme...bit of spanking,light bondage and so on) and all was fine...That's not like sth new to me so don't know what the hell happened but broke to tears..Without any apparent reason...one moment all is ok..next one I'm sobbing on my bed


Is that normal? Did anything like that happened to anyone else??




witcha

P.S. I know it really does sound stupid when you think bout it..just bear with me,ok?

 

[Netzach]

I would say it's perfectly normal to happen sometimes. If it happens every time, you might have a problem, but sometimes it's going to happen.

Emotions tend to bubble up, the brain chemistry of being in a scene tends to make odd things happen.

I've cried, I've almost passed out, and during pretty moderate activity. I've had people pass out on me, I've had people cry, I've had people laugh uncontrollably. It's all possible.

 

[witcha]

That's good..I mean bad....well I'm happy I'm not some kind of freak





witcha

 

[Sir_Winston54]

That's good..I mean bad....well I'm happy I'm not some kind of freak

witcha

Sometimes, we react "late" to certain occurrences in our lives, whether they are traumatic or wonderful. As an example, a favorite and beloved uncle passed away and I was surprised that I apparently felt no grief, even though his passing was unexpected - a sudden heart attack. Three years later, reading a book, I came upon a reference to a second cousin of his, a professional wrestler, and suddenly, the loss that I had suffered hit me like the proverbial ton of bricks. I went into my bedroom and closed the door, lay on the bed and cried like I hadn't cried since childhood. (I never finished that book. For some reason, I just didn't want to read it.)

On another occasion, just a couple of years ago, for some reason, I remembered a day on a lake some 35 years before. It wasn't a particularly spectacular day - just a day at the lake with family and friends and a new girlfriend, and I got sunburned all to heck... but for the rest of the day on which I remembered it, I had this smile on my face and a feeling of joy in my heart - much more so than on the day itself.

Who knows why our minds work the way they do? You are not some kind of freak, or losing your mind - you're just being human.

 

[Kajira Callista]

i think its normal...i sometimes have the opposite raction then what ppl would say is normal. i cry when im really happy and i giggle when ppl would expect me to cry. i dont think it has anything to do with your mind, just more of a physical reaction. *shrug*

 

[FungiUg]

If there's a level of frustration around inability to turn fantasies into realities... that sort of reaction would probably be expected. Emotions do tend to be all over the place for those of us who are alive and breathing.

Of course, that doesn't mean you're not some sort of freak. Me, I'm a pervert. See? Says so, right here on my "I'm a pervert" badge.

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[witcha]

Thanx for all the responses....I still think I'm not a freak in a trye medical sense of this word..but aside that..Yup..that's me







witcha

 

[shy slave]

Your not a freak.

I have cried with the frustration of suddenly realising what i wanted in my life and at the same time feeling dirty because of wanting it.

I have recently been tearful for a number of reasons but in part I think its grief for the person I once was and for a multitude of reasons no longer am.

Almost like grieving over a death of a past pet/loved one.

Tears can be healing if a little inconvienent and somehow you never look like those b/w movie stars who cried without getting red eyes a blotchy face and make up running down their cheeks.

This time of year is tough, if ever there was a time to cry this is it.

*Passes tissues to witcha*

Another answer is to eat chocolate and ring a friend who is miserable then have a crying/bonding session. It works for me xxx

 

[ekstasis]

well if it makes you guys feel better i sometimes just cry from a build up of stress, but its a severely delayed reaction.... i will cry for no reason and people ask whats wrong and i have no idea, i have cried in the middle of class on several occasions, and at work in the middle of lunch rush.. sometimes i just cant help it, but i get over it though....

 

[witcha]

shy slaves - thanx for tissues and all your advice....just chocolate is not an option for me...I'm allergic to it

Still have no idea what caused it...but haven't cried since..and that's good





witcha

 

[esclave_PP]

Shy said it really well. It could just be hormones, and just that you have what I call, a tsunami of emotions -- good, bad all at once that can be overwhelming. Nothing is wrong with you. It is HEALTHY that you feel, that you allow yourself to feel. Hugs! Just remember this mantra: I am normal, what I feel is normal and I can love myself for loving to explore life!

 

[TigerClaw]

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[shy slave]

shy slaves - thanx for tissues and all your advice....just chocolate is not an option for me...I'm allergic to it

Still have no idea what caused it...but haven't cried since..and that's good

witcha

OMG Allergic to chocolate.

I need those tissues back

*sits crying for witcha and all those poor souls who are alleergic to chocolate*

Can we start a charity and get pop stars to make record in support of this allergy.

*Sob sob sob still crying.....*

 

[esclave_PP]

I used to be allergic to chocolate when I was little. My mom made me eat carob. OMG did that suck. But now, ohhh man. I love chocolate. It is a god to worship. Bow down to the chocolate god!

 

[witcha]

shy slave...can we please please have Metallica on that tract?? preferably shirtless??? or even better James Hetfield could take me for a nice dinner or sth..coz I'm ohh sooo poor lil girl

On more serious note....getting tired of those emotional swings..at the moment feeling completely nothing ...I mean..even masturbation doesn't work...blah






witcha

 

[graceanne]

shy slaves - thanx for tissues and all your advice....just chocolate is not an option for me...I'm allergic to it

Still have no idea what caused it...but haven't cried since..and that's good





witcha

me too! I mean about the chocolate. Well, i'm not technically alergic, but chocolate is a no no for people with crohns disease. It makes me so ill, that I gotta be REALLY REALLY wanting it to make it worth my while. It sucks. How am I supposed to live without chocolate?

 

[graceanne]

shy slave...can we please please have Metallica on that tract?? preferably shirtless??? or even better James Hetfield could take me for a nice dinner or sth..coz I'm ohh sooo poor lil girl

On more serious note....getting tired of those emotional swings..at the moment feeling completely nothing ...I mean..even masturbation doesn't work...blah






witcha

how about a patric stewart pinup?

 

[witcha]

Trust me...tried it already





witcha

 

[TigerClaw]

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