I hate bonding with the bad guy, he has to get his comeuppance. I just couldn't find it's appeal.
I guess it goes back to what I was tellin' you about the Wire, deeg.
There was absolutely no "buy in" for the audience. Either you automatically loved all things mafia, and loved the show, or you didn't.
Tony was never anything more than a big, fat, sweaty mobster that every so often didn't feel super-great about killing somebody.