IrishFun69
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Hi all,
In my previous work place I got talking to a work colleague on a work night out. After one drink too many we began to kiss at the end of the night. I went back to her place (after some "nice guy" persuasion) and we had sex, twice I think. The next morning I woke up and realised she wasn't as good looking as I remembered/without make-up. I sucked it up and had sex again to say good bye.
Afterwards we agreed to keep the encounter secret. I was civil to her but to be honest I tried to cut all contact as I was just not that in to her. She seemed to get a bit annoyed when I turned down invitations over to her place etc. I felt it was better to be "cruel to be kind" sort of thing. She really began to hate me and I could see that her friends in the office also turned against me. I never told her it would be anything more than a night, and I didn't come back for seconds when she invited me back a second and third time not to give her the wrong idea, even though, frankly, I would have loved to sample her again.
Now, in my current business, there is a really cute secretary who I just hired. To be frank, I found it hard not to get a boner during the interview so you can imagine what it is like to work with her. I stressed that we have a "business atire" at work policy and she seems to be wearing mini skirts at present
So that's a win!
Anyway, I have been flirting with her and playing the "nice guy" routine. Listening to her problems, being really sweet to her, it is working well. We went for a "business chat" over drinks two nights ago and it seemed to go very well (she kept playing with her hair and gave me a kiss on the cheek when leaving). I really want to get her in to bed. But since a) I have a GF and b) the secretary is my employee, I would prefer to have a situation where I can cut all contact after the night. Is there any easy way to do this so it doesn't turn out like the previous girl I had sex with in the office? I pretty much had to leave my previous job because the last office girl I had sex with was really acting the bitch and turning everyone against me.
Does anyone else have experience of this?
In my previous work place I got talking to a work colleague on a work night out. After one drink too many we began to kiss at the end of the night. I went back to her place (after some "nice guy" persuasion) and we had sex, twice I think. The next morning I woke up and realised she wasn't as good looking as I remembered/without make-up. I sucked it up and had sex again to say good bye.
Afterwards we agreed to keep the encounter secret. I was civil to her but to be honest I tried to cut all contact as I was just not that in to her. She seemed to get a bit annoyed when I turned down invitations over to her place etc. I felt it was better to be "cruel to be kind" sort of thing. She really began to hate me and I could see that her friends in the office also turned against me. I never told her it would be anything more than a night, and I didn't come back for seconds when she invited me back a second and third time not to give her the wrong idea, even though, frankly, I would have loved to sample her again.
Now, in my current business, there is a really cute secretary who I just hired. To be frank, I found it hard not to get a boner during the interview so you can imagine what it is like to work with her. I stressed that we have a "business atire" at work policy and she seems to be wearing mini skirts at present


Anyway, I have been flirting with her and playing the "nice guy" routine. Listening to her problems, being really sweet to her, it is working well. We went for a "business chat" over drinks two nights ago and it seemed to go very well (she kept playing with her hair and gave me a kiss on the cheek when leaving). I really want to get her in to bed. But since a) I have a GF and b) the secretary is my employee, I would prefer to have a situation where I can cut all contact after the night. Is there any easy way to do this so it doesn't turn out like the previous girl I had sex with in the office? I pretty much had to leave my previous job because the last office girl I had sex with was really acting the bitch and turning everyone against me.
Does anyone else have experience of this?