Trying to get my wife to indulge a lipstick fetish I have

[ShinyNewKid]

We've been married for about 20 years now and I find her sexy as hell!

Already when she leaves the house, she puts on the sexiest lipstick and gloss. Gives me a boner every time.

Although I had this fetish from the beginning, I never had to say anything at first. She'd make out with me while she had tons of it on (I was in heaven). But then she got this idea in her head that I didn't like it - I don't know why. I've told her about my fetish several times, and a couple of times she had been a good sport. But generally she's pretty reluctant.

Any suggestions? Or should I just let this slide?

 

[subwannabe]

I'm a little confused with your post. You say she puts in on when she leaves the house but then you complain about her not helping you with your fetish. I'm guessing she puts in on when she leaves the house but doesn't have it on when you have intimate moments? Still a little confused there. If that is true I don't understand why she would do it one time but not the other. You say you have told her several times about you fetish but maybe you need to do it again and this time dot the "i's" and cross the "T's". Ulitmately you may just have to let it slide but I can't help but think there is just some gross miscommunication here.

 

[ShinyNewKid]

I'm a little confused with your post. You say she puts in on when she leaves the house but then you complain about her not helping you with your fetish. I'm guessing she puts in on when she leaves the house but doesn't have it on when you have intimate moments? Still a little confused there. If that is true I don't understand why she would do it one time but not the other. You say you have told her several times about you fetish but maybe you need to do it again and this time dot the "i's" and cross the "T's". Ulitmately you may just have to let it slide but I can't help but think there is just some gross miscommunication here.

No, you got it right. She puts in on all the time when she needs to go somewhere, even if it"s just the supermarket. But she takes it all off before we have sex.

I think I've communicated it as best as I can. At this point I don't really want to be pesky. I thought I'd fish for ideas before giving up just yet.

 

[jen_litgirl]

Have you asked her why she doesn't want to wear lipstick to bed? I can think of several reasons why a woman might not want to.

-makes a mess on pillows
-get smeared all over her face and if it's the longlasting stuff that can be bugger to scrub off

If that's it, volunteer to do the laundry or buy her some really good makeup remover.

This could also possibly be about how she feels. If she doesn't feel like being in a sexy mood (women need a little help sometimes) then ask her what you could do to help her feel sexy at night. a lot of times men can do something that is helpful but not sexy which gives the message that she's important and that you are willing to help do anything to help her feel sexy.

My thoughts.

 

[RayneM]

It could also be that sometimes lipstick and lipgloss tastes disgusting, I know I take lipstick off simply because it tastes gross and ruins the mood. Maybe buy her some good tasting gloss and indulge in one of her fantasies. Making it a game could be another possibility like leaving notes that if she uses blank color lipstick to do blank you'll do blank, which could even be something like doing the dishes or some other chore that she doesn't like. If she is still not into it I don't know what to tell you. Good luck.

 

[juiceyjuice]

Its been a fun experience with my current GF to indulge in lipstick play. I have her put on tons of it ( lots of makeup in general, she is good at it so she doesnt look clownish , more made up to be a sexpot/whorish look) and she goes to town with a killer blow job . We pause to reapply lipstick with either her doing so seductively or ( a fav of mine) with me applying for her.

I love doing this and it has fulfilled a fantasy of mine. A few times we have done this we have both enjoyed her drawing on my cock and balls with the lipstick. Generally a fun way to enjoy each others bodies and play with makeup and the whole aspect of gender of women .

Its interesting because I generally prefer less makeup on a woman usually ( none or sparingly done ) but with this sex play its fun.

I think if she wants to engage in the fantasy with you she will eventually come around to your desire , or if she is not interested she will tell you why and say no/ you will find out by asking.

Heavy on my own fun and experience and light on advice , i know but its all i got right now. Best of luck .