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Mr.G said:""and then turning the hand palm-up. It has worked amazingly well....""
And it does. It's just that for any more than a few orgasms or a few minutes of orgasming those fingers get damn tired. You are asking them to do the equivalent of multiple sit-ups with resistance or a weight on your chest. Not a problem if you want to give her two O's over a 5 minute period but what about 25 orgasms over a 50 to 70 minute session. Or longer. Or MUCH longer? Those fingers are going to break off. You'll need Carpel Tunnel surgery. It just ain't gonna happen.
The thumb on the other hand and in the position suggested, can be firm and rigid withOUT muscle strain. The movement - speedd and force - of the thumb can be achieved by the shoulder and elbow - BOTH major joints with rather massive muscles behind them. The arm can be moved back and forth as is needed for extended and intense stimulation for HOURS at a time.
Try doing that with a "come hither" motion of two fingers. The amount of force or pressure needed is absorbed and transmitted by major bones and not up to the flexing of teenie tiny muscles in long skinny fingers.
For a quickie half dozen O's the come here finger movement is fine. For extended and those mind-blowing marathons I and others speak of in this thread you'll be wanting to switch to the thumb method - or wish you had when you can't write or type or feed yourself for the next few days. Especially if she comes to you the NEXT night and asks for even more ...
Ain't it fun experimenting tho?
Alyx said:Hubby and I have tried this a few times. He's been able to find my G-spot with no problems, but it's taken me awhile to get over the full bladder feeling. While I can now ignore that feeling pretty well, I'm still not experiencing anything more than a "This is nice" feeling. So, I have a question. It may be an odd one, or not relevant, but I figured I'd give it a shot and see if anyone can answer it.
My problem is, I don't know what to do. During clit stimulation, I usually tense my muscles (pelvic and legs). With G-spot stimulation, I'm lost. Do I relax my muscles? Tense up? Or go with the full bladder feeling and push?
I hope I explained that clear enough. I'll take PM's too, if there's anyone who doesn't want to post to the board. Thanks folks!
~Alyx~
P.S. Thanks Mr. G, for a GREAT topic!
Alyx said:Hubby and I have tried this a few times. He's been able to find my G-spot with no problems, but it's taken me awhile to get over the full bladder feeling. While I can now ignore that feeling pretty well, I'm still not experiencing anything more than a "This is nice" feeling. So, I have a question. It may be an odd one, or not relevant, but I figured I'd give it a shot and see if anyone can answer it.
My problem is, I don't know what to do. During clit stimulation, I usually tense my muscles (pelvic and legs). With G-spot stimulation, I'm lost. Do I relax my muscles? Tense up? Or go with the full bladder feeling and push?
I hope I explained that clear enough. I'll take PM's too, if there's anyone who doesn't want to post to the board. Thanks folks!
~Alyx~
P.S. Thanks Mr. G, for a GREAT topic!

howsweetitis said:My problem is, I don't know what to do. During clit stimulation, I usually tense my muscles (pelvic and legs). With G-spot stimulation, I'm lost. Do I relax my muscles? Tense up? Or go with the full bladder feeling and push? .. by Alyx
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I am a newbie just finding this board. I have not read all of the discussions, but Mr. G is right. I don't want to get in his way, but I have been doing this for fifteen years. I was really surprised because my wife allways had inhibitions and I was fortunate that I was able to get her started in this. It definitely works, so don't give up!
With my wife I find that starting with one clitoral O works best, then I switch off to any number of vaginal O's desired. Just like Mr. G says, the method is almost non failing except I work from the top side while she is lying on her back. In this way you are able to kiss passionately while doing the O.
As for tensing the leg muscles, I beleive it is a natural thing for a clitoral O, however when I switch to the vaginal phase, I have her relax. You won't have to worry about tensing, because as the O develops, you will automatically tense. So what I'm saying is that relaxing is probably a good thing!

Mr.G said:
And it does. It's just that for any more than a few orgasms or a few minutes of orgasming those fingers get damn tired. You are asking them to do the equivalent of multiple sit-ups with resistance or a weight on your chest. Not a problem if you want to give her two O's over a 5 minute period but what about 25 orgasms over a 50 to 70 minute session. Or longer. Or MUCH longer? Those fingers are going to break off. You'll need Carpel Tunnel surgery. It just ain't gonna happen.
The thumb on the other hand and in the position suggested, can be firm and rigid withOUT muscle strain. The movement - speedd and force - of the thumb can be achieved by the shoulder and elbow - BOTH major joints with rather massive muscles behind them. The arm can be moved back and forth as is needed for extended and intense stimulation for HOURS at a time.
uptoplay2 said:Is there any position that the g-spot can be stimulated by a reasonably sized cock? I'd be happy to provide other stimulation.... actually my wife has been happy to take care of that. I think she had a little bit of a response.... but she was shy about pointing out any difference.
A towel was necessary..... so I have my own thoughts on this.

AngelRose said:my SO couldn't find it and gave up(lurker coming out just for this post)
. . . don't give up yet, keep practicing!
