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[Bandit58]

Re: Hmmm?

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If you KNOW her well enough that you are absolutely certain she wouldn't like a variation then stick with what you know she does like. Many women for some strange reason feel that presenting their bum to you (face down - bum up or over pillows etc) is somehow demeaning for them. If they only realized that their bums are glorious, beautiful sculptures to be played with and turnrd on too, they might change their minds about "looking bad" or slutty.
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I love being on elbows and knees, and not being able to see where he's going to touch me next I'm submissive so I love the feeling of being slutty, and he has free rein to spank me as well. He uses two fingers in my vagina and works up to another two in my butt and combined with a few spanks it isn't long before fluids are running down my thighs......

We looked at a few pics on the net this morning and because I haven't seen it, only felt it I didn't believe my eyes until he said that was exactly what I do I do know that when I am cleaning up afterwards the towel is soaked through......

 

[howsweetitis]

thumbs up.....

"I think I must be missing something ... she's on her back and you're using your thumb UP? That defeats the whole power structure of your thumb/joint/muscles. You'd have to be pulling UP on the thumb in that position ... probably more tiring than the come hither with index fingers in that position. Also the thumb nail would be pointing right into the most tender part of her front wall. "
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Mr. G.

In hope to explain this a little further, when she is on her back, I cup her inner ass cheek with the palm of my hand while inserting the thumb in her vagina. This gives my thumb in a hitchhiking position the freeedom to roam the entire back side of the vagina, arround and upward throughout the clit area if I wish. Alternately I can switch off to using my middle finger to insert into the backside of the vagina, and then at the same use my thumb to massage the clit area while using the middle finger to work the g spot or any other area therof. This seems to produce a wild combination of sensations thru both erotic zones simply by introducing a sudden supprise to the action!

Thanks for your confidence in my successful areas. If you see flaws or other suggestions, please say..........

 

[BigTatDawg]

Mr. G

I dont think my girl friend knows about this yet but she does basically what youo've described during sex. We will have sex on the couch sitting up, her ontop face n me, and she will just grind in a circular motion for about a 2-3 minutes till s he cums. Worx like a charm every time..... We both enjoy that than any other position. So i'm guessing it's prob. about the same situation. But im def. going to try what you suggest TONIGHT!.... I think she would love it 10+ times in an evening. Sounds like fun .......

Also.... I would have to say I think its great what you've done with this thread and helping people, + spreading a lil' of your knowledge around.. I think it's real kewl. So Thanx... I will post later tonight or tommaro w/ how everything goes/flows!

 

[Honeydew56]

Ahhh, we finially hit it. Hubby has been great at finding my g but never eneough stimulation to get over the edge.
Last night after several clit O's with oral and fingers he spread a good amount of lube and started in working my G, me on my back. he starts with 2 fingers and works to 3, giving my clit a little flick now and then with his other hand.
When I get that pee urge I just tried to relax and go with it and suddenly I am squirting and cumming like crazy! I have no idea how many or how long but god it was good.
He was also hitting something further back, A-spot or cervix I am not sure but this really added to the stimulation level to get me over the top. I am still wet and pulsing today.
We have been working to this point for 2 months or so. If your trying and have had not been successful, keep it up.
He was surprised just how hard he had to work me to get this, so guys don't be timid with your fingers and the lube really helped alot to get his fingers working slick and quick.
Honey

 

[Mr.G]

Ahhhh

""Ahhh, we finially hit it.""

I LOVE msgs like that. Thanks for sharing and congrats on peeservering and having it finally happen. Yahooo!! I am confident that you guys will find it a LOT easier in the future to "get there" quickly and without a great deal of physical activity.

There is a very good chance that having the thumb in that position when you're on your back he'd be hitting your ASpot too. He might try doing something I did in my early 20's and didn't rediscover it for many years. I had my fingers in one orfice and my thumb in the other and I BIT her with my fingers. Drove her nuts! Years later I realized that I was "biting" her ASpot between my fingers. Because it is on the back wall of the vagina you can only compress it (bite it) if you have a thumb or finger on the other side which means one up her bum. Like I said. It drove her crazy - over and over and over again and I didn't even realize - then - what I was doing.

BigTat - Thanks. It's been a pleasure helping bunches of people find this spot and technique. Just pass it on when you have the chance. If you could see some of the PMs and Emails I get back you'd be astounded at the AGE of some people who have read this thread and "discovered" it works for them too. The oldest so far was a "chick" in her LATE 80's. Is that unbelievably cool or what??!!

HowSweet - Like I said. Whatever works for you. Have fun and don't forget to pass this on to others.

 

[BigTatDawg]

That's crazy, yet kewl about the late 80's but hell if it worx...... But yea we tried it when she got home for a while, w/ no luck, we got fed up and just fucked, but that was fun too I'm sure we'll try it again tonight......and after she read this thread " every day after today too until it worx" lol..... Let ya know how it turns out.

 

[tuscannights]

Love the G spot!

I found my wife's G spot many years ago by accident while fingering her with a "come hither" motion of my middle finger. Of course this was like 18 yrs ago and no guy had ever given her multiple Os, and she never thought she could have multiples. I just thought it had an interesting feel to it, different from the rest of her vaginia, and noticed she started having multiple Os as a result. Must be the researcher in me. That was when we were younger. Now that we are older(early 40s) and wiser, and she and I understand her body more we have learned to maximize her g spot Os. First we warm up with light feather-like touches to the upper and sides of her breasts, avoiding the nipples, but circling along the areolas, with genle kisses along her neck and collar bone. Then light touches to her belly, sides and neatly trimmed muff. Taking my time, this gets her very wet. At this point it is ALL about her-mine cums later. If we are laying face to face she will press my knee into an area right above her pubic bone. I am not sure what this is pressing against, but it gets her very close to orgasm quickly. She wants me inside her really bad as a result of the pressure but I refuse. Usually she will roll up on top of my knee, staying between my legs, with her rear end in the air, keeping pressure on that area. She gets so wet her juice flow all over her lips and clit. At that point I tease her outer and inner lips with my fingers. She knows I going to finger her g spot and the anticipation drives her crazy with desire. When I put my fingers in she is so wet they just slip inside and I begin to gently message her g spot. She always says she has to go pee but she went before we started so we move on. Her clit get so large during this part it is incredible. One of my favorites is to put my thumb in her vagina and massage her clit with my now very slippery fingers. She always cums, many times, one after the other. I can feel her either pushing out or squeezing and almost always squirts. When she squirts it can either soak my hand or shoot a couple of feet! What a turn on that is. Next we will change positions and she will lay on her back while I am on my knees at her side, or even better- one knee near her head. She is in such extacy at this point that I will finger her g spot, or use her curved g spot dildo, while she sucks my cock and has easy access to sucking on my balls as well. She loves to put my shaves balls in her mouth and uses two hands to stroke my cock. Drives me crazy. As she continues to cum over and over, soaking my hand, she deep throats me to the hilt moaning how large I am getting in her mouth. When I cum she swallows sometimes, and other times I cum on her cheeks or neck. I all cases I get so turned on making her cum that I cum in very large quantities. She says she like how much I cum- says it turns her on. Lately we have been experimenting with anal play. She will finger her ass, suck on me and put a finger up my ass while play with her g spot. Talk about mind blowing cums that will do it!

True story- and typical of one of our Tuscan nights. You see, I feel it's my duty as her lover, friend and husband to bring her to the highest levels possible, until she has had enough. Then she is open to anything.

Sorry for the long post...I've never posted before...just thought I would share.

 

[Don K Dyck]

Re: Love the G spot!

I found my wife's G spot many years ago by accident while fingering her with a "come hither" motion of my middle finger. Of course this was like 18 yrs ago and no guy had ever given her multiple Os, and she never thought she could have multiples. I just thought it had an interesting feel to it, different from the rest of her vaginia, and noticed she started having multiple Os as a result. Must be the researcher in me. That was when we were younger. Now that we are older(early 40s) and wiser, and she and I understand her body more we have learned to maximize her g spot Os. First we warm up with light feather-like touches to the upper and sides of her breasts, avoiding the nipples, but circling along the areolas, with genle kisses along her neck and collar bone. Then light touches to her belly, sides and neatly trimmed muff. Taking my time, this gets her very wet. At this point it is ALL about her-mine cums later. If we are laying face to face she will press my knee into an area right above her pubic bone. I am not sure what this is pressing against, but it gets her very close to orgasm quickly. She wants me inside her really bad as a result of the pressure but I refuse. Usually she will roll up on top of my knee, staying between my legs, with her rear end in the air, keeping pressure on that area. She gets so wet her juice flow all over her lips and clit. At that point I tease her outer and inner lips with my fingers. She knows I going to finger her g spot and the anticipation drives her crazy with desire. When I put my fingers in she is so wet they just slip inside and I begin to gently message her g spot. She always says she has to go pee but she went before we started so we move on. Her clit get so large during this part it is incredible. One of my favorites is to put my thumb in her vagina and massage her clit with my now very slippery fingers. She always cums, many times, one after the other. I can feel her either pushing out or squeezing and almost always squirts. When she squirts it can either soak my hand or shoot a couple of feet! What a turn on that is. Next we will change positions and she will lay on her back while I am on my knees at her side, or even better- one knee near her head. She is in such extacy at this point that I will finger her g spot, or use her curved g spot dildo, while she sucks my cock and has easy access to sucking on my balls as well. She loves to put my shaves balls in her mouth and uses two hands to stroke my cock. Drives me crazy. As she continues to cum over and over, soaking my hand, she deep throats me to the hilt moaning how large I am getting in her mouth. When I cum she swallows sometimes, and other times I cum on her cheeks or neck. I all cases I get so turned on making her cum that I cum in very large quantities. She says she like how much I cum- says it turns her on. Lately we have been experimenting with anal play. She will finger her ass, suck on me and put a finger up my ass while play with her g spot. Talk about mind blowing cums that will do it!

True story- and typical of one of our Tuscan nights. You see, I feel it's my duty as her lover, friend and husband to bring her to the highest levels possible, until she has had enough. Then she is open to anything.

Sorry for the long post...I've never posted before...just thought I would share.

Great post Tuscannights, no need for any apology, sometimes it takes a bit to describe ALL that you are communicating.

The thing that caught my eye was the ease with which your lover achieves squirting. I have only been involved in such an activity very rarely, and obviously by accident rather than design.

So I am very interested in learning how to bring my lover to squirting. The multiple orgasms and supernovagasms are regular features of our play already, thanks to this thread.

I wonder, is squirting a natural extension of supernovagasms, or is it something else?

What do you think Mr G?

 

[Mr.G]

Ummmm ??

Not sure. No sense asking the "experts." Read something again just the other day that stated GSpot stimulation did (COULD DO NOTHING) NOTHING more to female arousal physiology that the clit didn't do. There was NO evidence at all that it did anything at all. OK. I stand corrected by the doctors who study this shit all their lives. Silly me. All you guys are delusional. Just so you know, OK? Next time you're doing the technique and she's almost passing out from pleasure and you've made her cum a dozen or two (or three or ...) times already I just want all you guys to be very clear that this is NOT happening and according to the best sex experts in the world - it CAN'T.

OK - that out of the way ...

From my VERY limited experience the SQUIRTING thing does not happen all the time and does not happen with some women EVER. That's not to suggest she isn't wet as hell and cumming like a fire at a friggin fireworks warehouse!!

Because our physiology is so different you should NOT expect "squirting" or feel somehow you've "failed" or she is disfuncational if she doesn't squirt. As long as everybody is having a good time and she's turned on and having orgasms THAT should be the prize. How exactly she displays the event depends on so many things. Go for the pleasure and the experimentation and perfecting the technique so she is getting as close to her ideal as you can manage and don't worry about the rest. After-all one womans trickle may be another woman's gush. Are we going stop what we're doing to and measure the amount. There will, no doubt be Emals complaining "my woman can only shoot 4 feet! What's WRONG with her ?

Come on!! ENJOY and leave the useless empiracle data collection to the people who KNOW all this doesn't / can't happen anyway.

 

[tuscannights]

DKD,

Now I can only speak from making love to my wife, but what I have realized is that she needed to get comfortable with the idea and the mess (very wet sheets), and that a slow and steady build up with unselfish foreplay is what triggers the squirt at orgasm. She would move things along faster if I let her. I don't even put anything inside of her until she is nearly over the top, about to cum from stroking her, kissing and touching her breasts, pinching her nipples, touching her pussy. If she happens to cum from me doing those things- great, because when I massage her g spot she's going to gush. This happens to be my natural tendency when I make love, and honestly I get uncomfortable when she wants to speed things up, get alittle rough and have a quickie (< 1hr). I can bring her to orgasm or supernovagasm without her squirting but these are during the quickie sessions. She says that squirting offers a sense release that is over and above cumming, the icing on the cake for any orgasm.

By the way DKD and anyone else who is interested, if you want an extra treat get her to squirt a little with a "small" orgasm to get her in the zone. Then have her straddle you, getting on top, riding your cock deep in her pussy, and rocking her hips back and forth. The ladies know what I'm speaking of here. When she starts to cum she will squirt that warm necture all over your pubes, and it runs down your belly, and between you balls and ass. It will send you over the top and two of you can look in each others eyes while you cum together. An unbelievable feeling and very intimate.

 

[howsweetitis]

Cumming and squirting!!!!!!!!!!

During my sexual travels over the past 20 years with one wife of 48 years, I have gone from no orgasm, to the first first clit orgasm 19 years ago and what a wonderful event!

Within 2 years after that we moved on to include vaginal orgasms and then multiple orgasms, which shortly afterward moving into squirting and cumming. All of this was glorious progression into more intense sex for us both. Probably after about the 10th year the squiring stopped, however it does happen periodicaly. We allways manage continuous improvement in many ways even tho we have obsticals due to age. We still manage to have 5 to 10 mulbiple orgasms per session of about 2sessions per week.

When I first discovered her G and multiple orgasms, it simply allmost simply replaced my desire for my own orgasms completely and then slowly I returned to a 50/50 desire to pleasure each other mutualy. Just a little synopsus of how it can go. Who knows about the future, but just remember the 83 yr old lady! That's what I'm shooting for and beyond.

 

[Mr.G]

Uhuh!!

I guess the last two posts just go to PROVE that, amazingly, our women have a LOT more fun and many more orgasms IF we savor them like a fine after dinner brandy. Quickies are fun sometimes but to wolf down a meal is to lose so much of the flavor and enjoyment. Tastes are mixed and soon you can't tell a cheap cheesburger from really good lobster thermidor.

It is the same with women. They NEED to be suped slowly. Turned on like it is the ONLY thing in life that matters.

When we do it right and we have learned all the right buttons to push (or stroke) it is is a WONDER to behold.

 

[howsweetitis]

Not gone, just away...........

Man!!!!

We sure are lost without you Mr. G! The thread goes dead when you are away. I'll be gone for 2 weeks now but won't be missed.
I have some things to say when I return.

I'm jealous of your knowledge on the subject of this thread.

howsweet.........

 

[Mr.G]

""The thread goes dead when you are away. ""

That's likely a good thing then. Actually the most I do is wait to send a response 'till the thread is about to or has already been bumped to page 2 then I answer or respond and bring it back. Of cpourse a LOT of the other regular contributors and experimenters (umm ... doing RESEARCH WORK) do the same.

I just hope that every time it goes to page 1 a few more people read it, use it and pass it on to others. I'm hoping for some kind of Kharmic "attaboy cookie" for every extra Orgasm that is triggered by this thread!

Maybe when I croak I'll get 72 chicks and a Porche without ever having had to blow up a bus full of kiddies to get them. That would be a bonus in my book!

 

[FyreKat]

well Mr. G, if i could have something to do with getting you your cookie, you'd have it already...guess you'll have to wait for the 72 babes and the porsche - with the knowledge you've shared here, there's no question that you're up for a huge reward...thanks for sharing!

 

[francypants]

I'm here to report a squirt!

I've had a few of them in my day but the other night, after hours of stimulation, I really let go. I was making cyber love with my ... er ... friend, and having a difficult time getting off what with the typing, etc... and I finally broke down and retrieved my new vibrating egg to stimulate my clit while I fucked my pussy with a very lifelike dildo, while seated in my chair at the computer.

With him making love to me on the screen, I finally just exploded and a waterfountain-like spurt of liquid flew out of me. I thought it might be pee, but my cyber lover had been reading this thread and said to taste it and I told him it tasted salty like the ocean.

I remember squirting like that when I was in my early teens
and masturbating. Was VERY confused then, now I'm pleasantly surprised.

Thanks for all the info,

Francy

 

[francypants]

PS

Nice thread, Mr. G.

You are a very cool cat.

Madame F

 

[sobesundevil]

hey francy, check your pm's babe!

 

[male969]

great info

 

[Mr.G]

repeat

I posted this on another thread and just wanted to double up in here because it is pretty relevent to this thread.

The question was about stimulating your GSpot when solo.....

I don't think there is any problem FINDING your GSpot if you're alone in fact I recommend it. Like masturbating a woman should learn her own body, her body's reactions, hot spots, (too)sensitive spots BEFORE she ever gets involved with a man umm partner (trying to be PC in here). That way she can advise the partner of those spots and get past the "OK I'm doing this and she's NOT reacting - what now? " If she can say "not there - ....here .... ahhhh!" then she doesn't get frustrated and he won't get bummed because what he did for his last g/f just ain't working here.

It would be nice if once you learned one thing it would work on everybody but that isn't the case and that's what makes the research all the more fun!

The PROBLEM with the GSpot and stimulating it repeatedly is that when you're solo you simply run outta steam. You can cum several times but eventually you are just so fragged, out of breath and exhausted from cumming that you have to stop. With a partner you don't have to worry. The partner can keep going long after you would have been unable to continue just from sheer exhaustion. That isn't to say you can find stimulate your G and have a friggin good time by yourself. The duration just may be a lot shorter without somebody else providing most of the energy and "elbow grease"
Toys, especially the curved ones that are designed to go after that elusive G are good and you can be in any position for those. On your back is probably the most comfortable when using a dildo but ....

I have seen umm one "research" subject stim her GSpot (solo while I watched and tried not to jump in- I lost the bet) in the same position that I recommend ... butt up / face down over some pillows. That way you simply reach back, place your wrist firmly between your cheeks and insert that thumb. That way you have the push down power that is inherent in that position with joints and musculature working with you instead of against. In that position you can thrust in and out pushing the ball of your thumb towards the bed or slide it back and forth horizontally sort of from hip bone to hip bone. With your thumb (and NOT some hunk of Made in China silicone) you DO have the advantage of being able to FEEL the texture of the front wall of the vagina - how it changes as you become more stimulated. It goes smooth. It goes bumpy and sticks up like a nasty bruise. Sometimes it goes ripply like beach sand. You're not going to be aware at all of the texture changes with a toy. With your thumb you'll be acutely aware of the changes and it will add to the turn on. Do it in front of a mirror so you see how incredibly sexy you look in that position. Imagine a partner back there, chewing on your bum, smacking it - hard - right in the middle of a HUGE O while his thumb is driving you outta your mind. Imagine how utterly open and vulnerable you are to a partner in that position and how you love your partner to be there and see /feel/ hear /taste how turned on you are from what they are doing to/for you. Imagine it happening over and over and over - every time you're with them. ...for the rest of your LIFE!!!

The research MUST continue. Enjoy and plse - keep those posts a'cumin. Spread the word too. You'd be amazed at the type of people (ages etc) who have found this technique WORKS!!

 

[Francy'sConsort]

Re: repeat

With your thumb (and NOT some hunk of Made in China silicone) you DO have the advantage of being able to FEEL the texture of the front wall of the vagina - how it changes as you become more stimulated. It goes smooth. It goes bumpy and sticks up like a nasty bruise. Sometimes it goes ripply like beach sand. You're not going to be aware at all of the texture changes with a toy. With your thumb you'll be acutely aware of the changes and it will add to the turn on. Do it in front of a mirror so you see how incredibly sexy you look in that position. Imagine a partner back there, chewing on your bum, smacking it - hard - right in the middle of a HUGE O while his thumb is driving you outta your mind.

I will advise Francy of this method. I think she will be appreciative of this idea.

Being a virgin around here.. it's nice to know there are people to look to for advice.

 

[Mr.G]

Silly ...

If you've read most of the posts in this thread you'll be aware that triggering the GSpot even repeatedly for HOURS at a time does NOT necessarily mean she is going to ejaculate or squirt. That happens with some people some times.

Don't get all bummed out if she doesn't squirt. If she's cumming over and over that's good. She doesn't NEED to squirt to "pass" some test or qualify for the new car, OK?

The other thing I've seen on some of the porn sites is the practice of injecting milk or something into vaginas and then filming what looks like a well-head blow out if you didn't know what they were showing at the start. Again, some women will squirt a little. Some will squirt a lot. Some won't squirt at all. Some squirting will be quite forceful BUT LET'S GET SERIOUS. I swear a couple of the mpegs I've looked at you'd swear she had a fire-hose up there. If your woman is cuming that's good. If she's squirting but not hard enough for the stream to cut thru armor plate don't be too disappointed, OK.

 

[uptoplay2]

what's a consort??

Francy has a consort?? Where do you apply??

(sorry Mr. G. I tried to delete this, but it won't let me. Didn't mean to interupt flow!)

 

[Mr.G]

???????

""what's a consort??

where do you apply??""


????????

 

[francypants]

Thank you, Mr. G ...

...for clearing things up. Too high expectation can really put a damper on a gal's orgasms. Just cause I squirted a couple of times doesn't mean I can do it all the time or that anything less is not a great experience for me.

Sometimes men can get fixated on getting the grade at the end ... like an A+ for their efforts. And get bummed if they get an A or a B or, god forbid, an Incomplete.

As for those gals on the Female Ejaculation sites ... most of them looked pretty fake to me ... it's really easy to load up with water in your vagina and then spew it out on cue. (The ones that looked real were less dramatic but very hot, though.)

I think it might have more to do with your kegel muscles and letting truly go when the time is right. I once had a doctor boyfriend who said my kegel muscles were so well developed I could pitch golfballs. (Not the most romantic but I took it as a compliment!)

Thanks again, Mr. G.

You are a gal's best friend.

Francy