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Nice article - thanks for posting.
I'm rather new to the site, but came across this thread. Wanted to chime in...
I actually IM'd my fiance to verify, but the nights we've had with me having multiple O's are thanks to G-gasms. Ya, I know, I should ask questions more often, but... He's my Master so I don't have to worry, think, or question.
So, anyway, his response was, "You could have written the post 'Just reading this post almost triggered an orgasm... My favorite part was the "ignore her" and "hold her down" parts.' ... Honey, you have come close to bruising my nose doing it, and don't worry about hurting me... i am in charge in all ways.. I can take care of myself.. you just let loose and enjoy!"
So, I think I might be among the most blessed women in the entire world!
I actually IM'd my fiance to verify, but the nights we've had with me having multiple O's are thanks to G-gasms. Ya, I know, I should ask questions more often, but... He's my Master so I don't have to worry, think, or question.
So, anyway, his response was, "You could have written the post 'Just reading this post almost triggered an orgasm... My favorite part was the "ignore her" and "hold her down" parts.' ... Honey, you have come close to bruising my nose doing it, and don't worry about hurting me... i am in charge in all ways.. I can take care of myself.. you just let loose and enjoy!"
So, I think I might be among the most blessed women in the entire world!
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MrG, I am new to this forum, I was one of your "lurkers", and I would like to give you some feedback as requested in your earlier posts. MrG. you are a saint. My new ladyfriend was totally flabberghasted, not to mention exhausted, and has just left, after an "all nighter", with the soppiest smile you ever did see, it was just like my smile is as I write this. No "count" for you but it was many many. We both thank you from the bottom of ... well, everywhere.
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BREATHING to ENHANCE ORGASM
Thanks for posting Lucky. I'm glad it worked for you.
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Perhaps this should go on its own page. I dunno. I think it MIGHT enhance the ability of women to have orgasms AS WELL AS increase the intensity of the orgasms others ARE having. Either way, worth a read and a session of two for those who are having trouble orgasming using ANY method. Any comments ??
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The Exhaling Method for Curing Female Primary Orgasmic Dysfunction
Female Primary Orgasmic Dysfunction is the inability to orgasm in women.
Orgasm strength can be increased by breathing out and holding the breath. Similarly, the strength of orgasm can be reduced by holding in the breath. This has the same idea as auto erotic asphyxiation but without the inherent dangers. Auto erotic asphyxiation is dangerous and lead to the death of UK Conservative Party MP Stephen Milligan in 1994.
Many women feel that they are about to orgasm but then do not have any sensation of orgasm. This is due to breathing in at the critical period thus minimising sensation, rather than breathing out in order to increase it. In order to cure Female Primary Orgasmic Dysfunction breathing in before orgasm is a habit that must be broken. For this the patient will need a partner, and forty five minutes, as the habit of a life time takes a while to break.
Masturbation the Hands Free Way is going to be done by the patient for forty five minutes. In order to do this one simply has to clench and then relax the vagina repeatedly until the point of orgasm is reached. Whenever the patient feels about to orgasm she signals this to her partner by raising a hand. The partner then ensures that the patient breathes out rather than in by pushing her thoracic diaphragm in with her hand for two seconds. (The thoracic diaphragm is a sheet of muscle extending across the bottom of the rib cage.)
Because the patient is breathing out when orgasm occurs it can be felt.
However, it takes practice to get into the habit of breathing out at orgasm and so Hands Free is carried out by the patient for the rest of the forty five minutes whilst the partner pushes in the diaphragm whenever signalled to do by a raised hand to ensure that breathing out occurs at the right time.
Once The Exhaling Method is learnt it is not forgotten, and enhances the quality of life.
The URL:
http://www.kadir-buxton.com/page10.htm
Thanks for posting Lucky. I'm glad it worked for you.
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Perhaps this should go on its own page. I dunno. I think it MIGHT enhance the ability of women to have orgasms AS WELL AS increase the intensity of the orgasms others ARE having. Either way, worth a read and a session of two for those who are having trouble orgasming using ANY method. Any comments ??
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The Exhaling Method for Curing Female Primary Orgasmic Dysfunction
Female Primary Orgasmic Dysfunction is the inability to orgasm in women.
Orgasm strength can be increased by breathing out and holding the breath. Similarly, the strength of orgasm can be reduced by holding in the breath. This has the same idea as auto erotic asphyxiation but without the inherent dangers. Auto erotic asphyxiation is dangerous and lead to the death of UK Conservative Party MP Stephen Milligan in 1994.
Many women feel that they are about to orgasm but then do not have any sensation of orgasm. This is due to breathing in at the critical period thus minimising sensation, rather than breathing out in order to increase it. In order to cure Female Primary Orgasmic Dysfunction breathing in before orgasm is a habit that must be broken. For this the patient will need a partner, and forty five minutes, as the habit of a life time takes a while to break.
Masturbation the Hands Free Way is going to be done by the patient for forty five minutes. In order to do this one simply has to clench and then relax the vagina repeatedly until the point of orgasm is reached. Whenever the patient feels about to orgasm she signals this to her partner by raising a hand. The partner then ensures that the patient breathes out rather than in by pushing her thoracic diaphragm in with her hand for two seconds. (The thoracic diaphragm is a sheet of muscle extending across the bottom of the rib cage.)
Because the patient is breathing out when orgasm occurs it can be felt.
However, it takes practice to get into the habit of breathing out at orgasm and so Hands Free is carried out by the patient for the rest of the forty five minutes whilst the partner pushes in the diaphragm whenever signalled to do by a raised hand to ensure that breathing out occurs at the right time.
Once The Exhaling Method is learnt it is not forgotten, and enhances the quality of life.
The URL:
http://www.kadir-buxton.com/page10.htm
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I'm not sure who this Kadir guy is but he seems like bit of a fruit-loop to me. His 'alternative' resuscitation, infertility treatments, and baby delivery methods do seem a little far-fetched to me.
However breathing patterns do play a role in pelvic muscle tone: when you sneeze for example you automatically tense up the sphincters to remain continent. Conversely, when engaging in anal play a long slow inhalation causes the sphincter to relax.
I also read in some tantra text (I think) that guys need to emphasise the exhalatory phase of their respiration over the inhalatory and vice versa for women.
So this guy's credentials are a bit shaky but the premise is sound. Whether that actually translates into overcoming orgasmic dysfunction and whether it's inhalation or exhalation people probably need to experiment for themselves.
Maybe it explains why women make so much noise when they pop?
However breathing patterns do play a role in pelvic muscle tone: when you sneeze for example you automatically tense up the sphincters to remain continent. Conversely, when engaging in anal play a long slow inhalation causes the sphincter to relax.
I also read in some tantra text (I think) that guys need to emphasise the exhalatory phase of their respiration over the inhalatory and vice versa for women.
So this guy's credentials are a bit shaky but the premise is sound. Whether that actually translates into overcoming orgasmic dysfunction and whether it's inhalation or exhalation people probably need to experiment for themselves.
Maybe it explains why women make so much noise when they pop?
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Breathing
Perhaps KADIR should have taught David Carradine how to BREATH properly instead of dressin up and stranglin' hisownself.
A number of women who have posted and PM'd me have mentioned how much breathing and muscle tensions affect whether they squirt or not when they are having G-Gasms.
I guess the TANTRIC experts have known the power of proper breathing during sex for thousands of years. I guess they had LOTS of practice. They didn't even have cable back then so what else would they do with all that spare time?
Perhaps KADIR should have taught David Carradine how to BREATH properly instead of dressin up and stranglin' hisownself.
A number of women who have posted and PM'd me have mentioned how much breathing and muscle tensions affect whether they squirt or not when they are having G-Gasms.
I guess the TANTRIC experts have known the power of proper breathing during sex for thousands of years. I guess they had LOTS of practice. They didn't even have cable back then so what else would they do with all that spare time?
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Somewhat Off Topic ... Or Not
I like to drop the occasional article that perhaps should have its own thread however as the TRY THIS "Technique" is offered as only one (fabulous) VARIATION to making love perhaps it does belong here. The discussion is always about how to give THE most pleasure to your partner that you can. Many had heard of the GSPOT but didn't know where it was or what to do with it when they did find it - specifically that simply repeating the stimulation caused orgasms to repeat. Hopefully this thread has helped a few in that regard but even repeated G-Gasms will get BORING if that's ALL you ever do so ....
This article illustrates that VARIETY is the spice. It doesn't matter how much you want to make slow passionate orgasm filled love with your SO, every once in a while you'd better grab her by the hair, throw her over the couch armrest, smack that bum and pound her like you're trying to shatter concrete!!! STATS show that with THAT action happening on occasion it is so exciting for the woman that even orgasm is optional. THAT's what variety gives to a long term loving relationship.
Hope you enjoy & learn something new about how convoluted OUR brains really are. Women need to realize that something outlandish and new will keep HIM interested forever too.
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Rowan Pelling's sex advice column
By Rowan Pelling
Last updated at 8:14 AM on 03rd August 2009
QUESTION: My boyfriend is a perfect ‘new man’, raised by a feminist mother. He’s a really attentive lover, who always devotes hours to foreplay and my orgasm. I know I’m going to sound really maddening, but the trouble is that he’s just too caring and sharing. Sometimes I just fancy a good, old-fashioned quickie or a bit of caveman-style sex, where it’s not all about his grade-A sex technique. What should I do?
Bored of foreplay
Bored of foreplay? Give him permission to be more visceral and he'll surely respond
ANSWER: No wonder men can’t answer the question: ‘What do women really want?’
Just as we’ve convinced them that the correct response is ‘hours of sex, then you turn into a box of chocolates,’ every female I know starts moaning about the lack of ‘real men’.
I blame Russell Crowe in Gladiator (and pretty much every other film he’s starred in, come to that) and Philip Glenister’s refreshingly Neanderthal performance as DCI Gene Hunt in Life On Mars and Ashes To Ashes.
A whole generation of women have started longing for a bit of old-fashioned emotionally inarticulate muscle.
So, yes, you are being maddening and it’s a good thing that the veil of anonymity stands between you and the baying mob.
There are millions of women who would give their eye teeth to have a partner who really cares about their sexual pleasure and is adept at bringing them to orgasm. And we certainly don’t want men to believe that sexual prowess resides in reverting to the loathsome old motto: ‘Treat ’em mean, keep ’em keen.’
Nevertheless, I do have sympathy for your cause.
Sex is not a one-note activity and even the most satisfactory forms of love-making can pall a little if there’s no variation.
Although it seems ungrateful to confess it, there can be something rather wearisome and guilt-inducing about a man labouring away to make a woman climax when she’s simply not in the mood for a lengthy sex session.
Most of my female friends confess to there being days when they prefer quick, vigorous, thrusting sex and don’t necessarily care if it doesn’t end in orgasm.
Often that preference coincides with a particular stage of a woman’s menstrual cycle.
Just as ovulation is known to heighten the female libido, many women find this fiercer brand of sex suits them when they’re pre-menstrual, as it fits in with their fiery mood.
It is equally true that it’s sometimes satisfying to simply give sexual pleasure, rather than receive it or be religiously reciprocal. In certain moods, women can feel that they gain sufficient erotic satisfaction from seeing the intense erotic excitement they conjure in their beloved.
Of course, part of the problem you describe stems from the fact that sex in the modern Western world has become so goal-orientated.
There can be a misplaced sense that someone has failed as a lover if their partner hasn’t had their orgasm. While reaching a climax is undoubtedly an important part of lovemaking, it’s not always essential for either men or women.
There are times when the body simply doesn’t need to orgasm or refuses to - and times when delayed gratification seems sweeter than the instant variety.
As they say: ‘It’s better to travel than arrive.’ It sounds as if your boyfriend is so proud of his ability to push a woman’s buttons that he’s become a wee bit insistent that you gratefully submit to his tender ministrations. You need to demonstrate that there is another way and that women can respond to dynamism as well as delicacy in the bedroom.
What you don’t want to do is criticise the way he makes love, as you may leave him so wounded and confused that he’ll no longer have the confidence to initiate sex.
The easiest way to cajole your boyfriend into the pleasures of a quickie is to engineer a situation that demands a swifter and more animalistic form of sex.
Making love outdoors often affords that kind of opportunity, since the high chance of passersby disturbing your romp means that anything other than a quick tumble tends to be out of the question.
Another thought might be when you’re seductively dressed for an evening out and there’s 15 minutes before the taxi arrives. Basically, you need to find situations that encourage the swift lifting of a skirt and an enthusiastic seizing of the moment. You need to show him that sex is satisfactory at all kinds of tempos and that sometimes his pleasure is your pleasure.
You say your boyfriend has been influenced by his feminist mother. It sounds as if he’s been taught to subjugate his passions to some gender-politics-authorised norm of human behaviour. (*often talked about in the TRY THIS thread*MR.G)
But few things can be deemed normal in the wide sphere of behaviour that constitutes human passion. Clearly, you need to give him the confidence to see that sex can occasionally be a little more fierce and visceral on both sides without it compromising anyone’s ethics.
It’s all about permission and making the other person feel safe. My guess is that since your boyfriend’s mission is to make you happy, he’ll quickly pick up the message that changing gear can be thrilling.
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...Pellings-sex-advice-column.html#ixzz0N8WGn28e
I like to drop the occasional article that perhaps should have its own thread however as the TRY THIS "Technique" is offered as only one (fabulous) VARIATION to making love perhaps it does belong here. The discussion is always about how to give THE most pleasure to your partner that you can. Many had heard of the GSPOT but didn't know where it was or what to do with it when they did find it - specifically that simply repeating the stimulation caused orgasms to repeat. Hopefully this thread has helped a few in that regard but even repeated G-Gasms will get BORING if that's ALL you ever do so ....
This article illustrates that VARIETY is the spice. It doesn't matter how much you want to make slow passionate orgasm filled love with your SO, every once in a while you'd better grab her by the hair, throw her over the couch armrest, smack that bum and pound her like you're trying to shatter concrete!!! STATS show that with THAT action happening on occasion it is so exciting for the woman that even orgasm is optional. THAT's what variety gives to a long term loving relationship.
Hope you enjoy & learn something new about how convoluted OUR brains really are. Women need to realize that something outlandish and new will keep HIM interested forever too.
**************
Rowan Pelling's sex advice column
By Rowan Pelling
Last updated at 8:14 AM on 03rd August 2009
QUESTION: My boyfriend is a perfect ‘new man’, raised by a feminist mother. He’s a really attentive lover, who always devotes hours to foreplay and my orgasm. I know I’m going to sound really maddening, but the trouble is that he’s just too caring and sharing. Sometimes I just fancy a good, old-fashioned quickie or a bit of caveman-style sex, where it’s not all about his grade-A sex technique. What should I do?
Bored of foreplay
Bored of foreplay? Give him permission to be more visceral and he'll surely respond
ANSWER: No wonder men can’t answer the question: ‘What do women really want?’
Just as we’ve convinced them that the correct response is ‘hours of sex, then you turn into a box of chocolates,’ every female I know starts moaning about the lack of ‘real men’.
I blame Russell Crowe in Gladiator (and pretty much every other film he’s starred in, come to that) and Philip Glenister’s refreshingly Neanderthal performance as DCI Gene Hunt in Life On Mars and Ashes To Ashes.
A whole generation of women have started longing for a bit of old-fashioned emotionally inarticulate muscle.
So, yes, you are being maddening and it’s a good thing that the veil of anonymity stands between you and the baying mob.
There are millions of women who would give their eye teeth to have a partner who really cares about their sexual pleasure and is adept at bringing them to orgasm. And we certainly don’t want men to believe that sexual prowess resides in reverting to the loathsome old motto: ‘Treat ’em mean, keep ’em keen.’
Nevertheless, I do have sympathy for your cause.
Sex is not a one-note activity and even the most satisfactory forms of love-making can pall a little if there’s no variation.
Although it seems ungrateful to confess it, there can be something rather wearisome and guilt-inducing about a man labouring away to make a woman climax when she’s simply not in the mood for a lengthy sex session.
Most of my female friends confess to there being days when they prefer quick, vigorous, thrusting sex and don’t necessarily care if it doesn’t end in orgasm.
Often that preference coincides with a particular stage of a woman’s menstrual cycle.
Just as ovulation is known to heighten the female libido, many women find this fiercer brand of sex suits them when they’re pre-menstrual, as it fits in with their fiery mood.
It is equally true that it’s sometimes satisfying to simply give sexual pleasure, rather than receive it or be religiously reciprocal. In certain moods, women can feel that they gain sufficient erotic satisfaction from seeing the intense erotic excitement they conjure in their beloved.
Of course, part of the problem you describe stems from the fact that sex in the modern Western world has become so goal-orientated.
There can be a misplaced sense that someone has failed as a lover if their partner hasn’t had their orgasm. While reaching a climax is undoubtedly an important part of lovemaking, it’s not always essential for either men or women.
There are times when the body simply doesn’t need to orgasm or refuses to - and times when delayed gratification seems sweeter than the instant variety.
As they say: ‘It’s better to travel than arrive.’ It sounds as if your boyfriend is so proud of his ability to push a woman’s buttons that he’s become a wee bit insistent that you gratefully submit to his tender ministrations. You need to demonstrate that there is another way and that women can respond to dynamism as well as delicacy in the bedroom.
What you don’t want to do is criticise the way he makes love, as you may leave him so wounded and confused that he’ll no longer have the confidence to initiate sex.
The easiest way to cajole your boyfriend into the pleasures of a quickie is to engineer a situation that demands a swifter and more animalistic form of sex.
Making love outdoors often affords that kind of opportunity, since the high chance of passersby disturbing your romp means that anything other than a quick tumble tends to be out of the question.
Another thought might be when you’re seductively dressed for an evening out and there’s 15 minutes before the taxi arrives. Basically, you need to find situations that encourage the swift lifting of a skirt and an enthusiastic seizing of the moment. You need to show him that sex is satisfactory at all kinds of tempos and that sometimes his pleasure is your pleasure.
You say your boyfriend has been influenced by his feminist mother. It sounds as if he’s been taught to subjugate his passions to some gender-politics-authorised norm of human behaviour. (*often talked about in the TRY THIS thread*MR.G)
But few things can be deemed normal in the wide sphere of behaviour that constitutes human passion. Clearly, you need to give him the confidence to see that sex can occasionally be a little more fierce and visceral on both sides without it compromising anyone’s ethics.
It’s all about permission and making the other person feel safe. My guess is that since your boyfriend’s mission is to make you happy, he’ll quickly pick up the message that changing gear can be thrilling.
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...Pellings-sex-advice-column.html#ixzz0N8WGn28e
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didijune48
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I have been a passionated reader of this since a very long time and I feel now I have to add to this.
The problem is to find a lover who wants to please his partner that much!!!
I had a long time partner and made him read that but he never tried it. I had and occasional lover before and he made me squirt out of my G point. It is amazing how hard it is to find someone who is really into make his lover an addict one by pleasing her!
Well, that is my comment. Hope some men will just understand what they are missing!!!
The problem is to find a lover who wants to please his partner that much!!!
I had a long time partner and made him read that but he never tried it. I had and occasional lover before and he made me squirt out of my G point. It is amazing how hard it is to find someone who is really into make his lover an addict one by pleasing her!
Well, that is my comment. Hope some men will just understand what they are missing!!!
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Any ideas?
I just found this thread and we tried this last night. My husband was already aware of where this spot was, but we both were under the assumption that I just couldn't orgasm from G-spot stimulation simply because I never had.
We tried it as you suggest, with me face down on the bed. I had the almost immediate sensation of the potential for a really deep, intense orgasm, but was not able to actually achieve it. It's difficult to explain the feeling...it felt similar to the feeling I typically get before a clitoral orgasm, when it's building, but I couldn't get any further than that. Granted, we didn't give it a TON of time...got carried away in other, more sure-fire activities.
Plus, he was pushing so hard to get the desired effect that he said he felt like he was going to give himself carpal tunnel syndrome! 
We'll definitely try again, but any thoughts from anyone on what might help? I typically achieve orgasm pretty easily with clitoral stimulation, usually very intense orgasms that are long in duration, and often two back-to-back, sometimes three. So, I'm not complaining if I can't make this work, but it would be great to be able to get to a point where I could orgasm during sex without the extra clitoral stim.
I just found this thread and we tried this last night. My husband was already aware of where this spot was, but we both were under the assumption that I just couldn't orgasm from G-spot stimulation simply because I never had.
We tried it as you suggest, with me face down on the bed. I had the almost immediate sensation of the potential for a really deep, intense orgasm, but was not able to actually achieve it. It's difficult to explain the feeling...it felt similar to the feeling I typically get before a clitoral orgasm, when it's building, but I couldn't get any further than that. Granted, we didn't give it a TON of time...got carried away in other, more sure-fire activities.
Plus, he was pushing so hard to get the desired effect that he said he felt like he was going to give himself carpal tunnel syndrome! We'll definitely try again, but any thoughts from anyone on what might help? I typically achieve orgasm pretty easily with clitoral stimulation, usually very intense orgasms that are long in duration, and often two back-to-back, sometimes three. So, I'm not complaining if I can't make this work, but it would be great to be able to get to a point where I could orgasm during sex without the extra clitoral stim.
Mr.G
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Hi - thanks for posting
I was just on here thanking the WebMaster for deleting some spam that showed up on this thread and thanking them for the site itself. A LOT of people have read this thread and many have discovered - some sooner, some later - that it really does work!!
Not ALL women respond immediately. For some it is a trust / control / power issue. For others I'm sure just the different sensations during the build up scares them a little and they back off mentally. There are definitely "switches" that need to be flipped before the rocket launches on this.
As many posters have testified the sensation builds and the orgasms start in about 2 minutes - even the very first time. Other couples take multiple tries or weeks of on again / off again trying.
Considering you described an "ALMOST" feeling I'd say you were very close. VERY! Two pieces of advice though. Try this WITH everything else you do. Go back to it every once in a while during foreplay or intercourse. DON'T use too much pressure if you're not either orgasming or feel you're about to. The last thing you want the next day is associate this with bad cramps or a feeling like somebody kicked you. Until that spot is ready to fire the pressure should be steady, the motion varied until YOU respond to the best motion, pressure and frequency and you need to communicate that to your lover "O YA.. right there ... just a little faster ..." YOU will feel the build up. When he gets familiar with your responses to what he's doing then he'll know what to do - how and when but until then he needs feedback.
Don't do JUST this. It should be incorporated into regular love making. There should be massive build up the first time. He shouldn't let you cum from any other means. Wait until the area is engorged and it feels like that incipient orgasm building ... then he can go faster with a bit more pressure. Until you're actually orgasming don't use enough pressure to hurt HIS hand. Using the thumb in a forward back motion wiil also eliminate the Karpal Tunnel effects of "sawing." That's why I recommended that position and arm motion with the locked thumb. There is virtually NO pressure on the wrist tendons in that configuration.
YES! Try again and again. I'm sure that it'll cum very soon. When it does don't forget that as soon as you have cum for however long he wants to make you cum, have him back off for only a minute or so and then start again. EXACTLY what he was doing and you will cum again. Repeat until you pass out or see GOD!
You really can cum forever with this. It makes orgasming during PIV sex much much easier and from a cold start to full O usually takes 2 minutes max.
Good luck and please don't forget to drop by and announce your EUREEEKA moment when it happens.
I was just on here thanking the WebMaster for deleting some spam that showed up on this thread and thanking them for the site itself. A LOT of people have read this thread and many have discovered - some sooner, some later - that it really does work!!
Not ALL women respond immediately. For some it is a trust / control / power issue. For others I'm sure just the different sensations during the build up scares them a little and they back off mentally. There are definitely "switches" that need to be flipped before the rocket launches on this.
As many posters have testified the sensation builds and the orgasms start in about 2 minutes - even the very first time. Other couples take multiple tries or weeks of on again / off again trying.
Considering you described an "ALMOST" feeling I'd say you were very close. VERY! Two pieces of advice though. Try this WITH everything else you do. Go back to it every once in a while during foreplay or intercourse. DON'T use too much pressure if you're not either orgasming or feel you're about to. The last thing you want the next day is associate this with bad cramps or a feeling like somebody kicked you. Until that spot is ready to fire the pressure should be steady, the motion varied until YOU respond to the best motion, pressure and frequency and you need to communicate that to your lover "O YA.. right there ... just a little faster ..." YOU will feel the build up. When he gets familiar with your responses to what he's doing then he'll know what to do - how and when but until then he needs feedback.
Don't do JUST this. It should be incorporated into regular love making. There should be massive build up the first time. He shouldn't let you cum from any other means. Wait until the area is engorged and it feels like that incipient orgasm building ... then he can go faster with a bit more pressure. Until you're actually orgasming don't use enough pressure to hurt HIS hand. Using the thumb in a forward back motion wiil also eliminate the Karpal Tunnel effects of "sawing." That's why I recommended that position and arm motion with the locked thumb. There is virtually NO pressure on the wrist tendons in that configuration.
YES! Try again and again. I'm sure that it'll cum very soon. When it does don't forget that as soon as you have cum for however long he wants to make you cum, have him back off for only a minute or so and then start again. EXACTLY what he was doing and you will cum again. Repeat until you pass out or see GOD!
You really can cum forever with this. It makes orgasming during PIV sex much much easier and from a cold start to full O usually takes 2 minutes max.
Good luck and please don't forget to drop by and announce your EUREEEKA moment when it happens.
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Eureeka!!
Somebody else has been peeking at ma thread ...
butt seriously for any of you out there who still think this is all BS. There ARE some people who are proud of the sex lives and are willing to disclose to others how could it CAN be.
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Heidi Pratt says husband Spencer gives her 30 orgasms a day
* From: The Daily Telegraph
* August 14, 2009 7:20AM
THIRTY orgasms a day .... Spencer Pratt, left, and wife Heidi. Source: The Daily Telegraph
TV star and singer-songwriter Heidi Pratt has revealed her husband gives her an orgasm for every hour of the day.
The Hills beauty bragged to Playboy that Spencer, 25, is a sex god and gives her up to 30 orgasms a DAY.
In a bizarre interview with the magazine, conducted by Spencer himself, the 22-year-old blonde said: "I was never very sexual before I met you, Spencer.
Gallery: The girls of reality show The Hills
"When I met you, I entered into a whole new realm of understanding, from fantasy to love.
"Or to experience a day with 20 or 30 orgasms. Before you, sex was just something that happened."
She added: "I feel sorry for couples who aren't as sexually satisfied as we are.
"If your sex life isn't happy, your marriage is screwed."
http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/en...30-orgasms-a-day/story-e6frewz0-1225761229986
Somebody else has been peeking at ma thread ...
butt seriously for any of you out there who still think this is all BS. There ARE some people who are proud of the sex lives and are willing to disclose to others how could it CAN be.
***************
Heidi Pratt says husband Spencer gives her 30 orgasms a day
* From: The Daily Telegraph
* August 14, 2009 7:20AM
THIRTY orgasms a day .... Spencer Pratt, left, and wife Heidi. Source: The Daily Telegraph
TV star and singer-songwriter Heidi Pratt has revealed her husband gives her an orgasm for every hour of the day.
The Hills beauty bragged to Playboy that Spencer, 25, is a sex god and gives her up to 30 orgasms a DAY.
In a bizarre interview with the magazine, conducted by Spencer himself, the 22-year-old blonde said: "I was never very sexual before I met you, Spencer.
Gallery: The girls of reality show The Hills
"When I met you, I entered into a whole new realm of understanding, from fantasy to love.
"Or to experience a day with 20 or 30 orgasms. Before you, sex was just something that happened."
She added: "I feel sorry for couples who aren't as sexually satisfied as we are.
"If your sex life isn't happy, your marriage is screwed."
http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/en...30-orgasms-a-day/story-e6frewz0-1225761229986
k9rockstar
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Mr. G, just want to thank you for starting this discussion. I stumbled across this forum, and ended up reading it from front to back. Quite extensive!! However, fantastic information here. Luckily my wife was a willing participant to begin our research. Initially I had some trouble finding the right spot, my instinct was taking me to deep. We tried your suggested method but found it was better for her to lie on her back while I give her oral and use my finger for the G. After some trial and error and good communication on my wife's part, we found it. WOW! I have never heard her moan like that and for sooo long. She had roughly 5 or 6 in a matter of a couple of minutes. Up until this experience 2 was the most I had ever gotten from her. Now we were not looking for a marathon night, and it was so intense that she could not go any more by hand. So I climbed up, slid inside and she fired off another 2 or 3 in a very short amount of time. When we finished our session as you described she was completely spent and almost in a drunken state of mind. Fantastic! I encourage others to try this and post results so that we can all learn from each other!
LittleMissMafia
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HEHEHEHEHEHE OMFG i was laughin my ass off when i read thing.
have yet to teach my bf NOT to touch my clit after i cum........he seems to think that is is funny, whilst i am about bring out the chainsaw!!!!!
and gurls tell me, am i the only one that fucking HATES having her clit played with when there is no lubrication on it???? my bf is not sensitive at all, so i pretty much refuse to let him play with my clit unless he is eating me out because he is just too ROUGH.
and it seriously kills any horniness as well!
Mr.G
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Sooo ... WHO?
I'm doing a little *BUMP* here because I have some friends who are looking for the thread and never thought of looking on a following page.
Any other couples out there lurking and need to announce their EUREEEKA moment??
Snuggle Bunz
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Cudos!
I love your posts in here I dont know as i will ever be able to read 100 pages worth but i just wanted to say that I have always been a curious lil kitten.
And that has gotten me good place in life, My husband concented long ago to explore, we found out that the reason why i loved to be fingered with my first bf was because there was a Gspot in there! Wee!
Well Hubby knows damn well how to play with it, I have tried very hard to squirt, but im one of the ones whos gotta keep trying. I still have these strange orgasms where its so intense i can feel my whole uterus being involved, something slamming inside, clenching, and it makes me whine..ehem
well suffice it to say exploration is grand!
I've subscribed to a site where this guy tells alot of the same info but fell out of touch...
PS: josephanthony69 refereed me to this thread, thanks darlin!
I love your posts in here I dont know as i will ever be able to read 100 pages worth but i just wanted to say that I have always been a curious lil kitten.
And that has gotten me good place in life, My husband concented long ago to explore, we found out that the reason why i loved to be fingered with my first bf was because there was a Gspot in there! Wee!
Well Hubby knows damn well how to play with it, I have tried very hard to squirt, but im one of the ones whos gotta keep trying. I still have these strange orgasms where its so intense i can feel my whole uterus being involved, something slamming inside, clenching, and it makes me whine..ehem
well suffice it to say exploration is grand!
I've subscribed to a site where this guy tells alot of the same info but fell out of touch...
PS: josephanthony69 refereed me to this thread, thanks darlin!
Sweet_Lily
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Getting there!
I have a new man in my life and I've thrown all caution to the wind! Normally shy in the bedroom about asking for what I want - I've actually said out loud what I want.
We've talked in depth about squirting and watched some movies and I showed him this thread. The result for me was orgasm after orgasm after orgasm and the 'need' to pee but no actual squirting. We are definitely making progress though and in time we both hope to achieve the squirting. If not, I'll take the heaven I've experienced so far!
At this point the result has been incredible orgasms for me and he cums like I've never experienced before. I still grin every time I think of his reaction to me and my pleasure.
I have a new man in my life and I've thrown all caution to the wind! Normally shy in the bedroom about asking for what I want - I've actually said out loud what I want.
We've talked in depth about squirting and watched some movies and I showed him this thread. The result for me was orgasm after orgasm after orgasm and the 'need' to pee but no actual squirting. We are definitely making progress though and in time we both hope to achieve the squirting. If not, I'll take the heaven I've experienced so far!
At this point the result has been incredible orgasms for me and he cums like I've never experienced before. I still grin every time I think of his reaction to me and my pleasure.
cjones30001
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WOW! interesting post i must say.....can't say i've never tried or even heard of this before.
Mr.G
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To SQUIRT or not ...
First off thanks for posting. Most couples, I fear, read this thread, try it out and never ever come back. They're TOO DAMN BUSY at that point to waste time on a forum. Pity. Posts like yours are VERY motivating for newbies plus those who have tried it and never quite achieved their EUREEEEKA moment - YET!!
You should remember that according to SOME couples the squirting orgasms are THE best however most say that it does NOT actually enhance the intensity of the orgasm at all and they just have to deal with the fluids afterwards.
If you're having orgasm after orgasm after orgasm I'd be pretty happy with that. Once you begin to have SQUIRTING ORGASMS it is from all accounts, very hard to stop. The result is ALL spontaneous sex is too dangerous because you always have to prepare for the flood. Car sex, sex at a friend's house during a party, in the observation deck of the CN Tower ... any place you CAN'T leave a puddle is now out of bounds.
SO ... be careful what you wish for. IF or WHEN you do start squirting you MAY find the mess is worth it. You may not and then wish NOT to squirt any more but that Gennie will be out of the bottle. The #1 question I get in private these days is, "HOW DO I STOP squirting?" I dunno. It seems onced started you don't. Consider that. I'd be happy (and was) with the multiple G-GASMS only.
First off thanks for posting. Most couples, I fear, read this thread, try it out and never ever come back. They're TOO DAMN BUSY at that point to waste time on a forum. Pity. Posts like yours are VERY motivating for newbies plus those who have tried it and never quite achieved their EUREEEEKA moment - YET!!
You should remember that according to SOME couples the squirting orgasms are THE best however most say that it does NOT actually enhance the intensity of the orgasm at all and they just have to deal with the fluids afterwards.
If you're having orgasm after orgasm after orgasm I'd be pretty happy with that. Once you begin to have SQUIRTING ORGASMS it is from all accounts, very hard to stop. The result is ALL spontaneous sex is too dangerous because you always have to prepare for the flood. Car sex, sex at a friend's house during a party, in the observation deck of the CN Tower ... any place you CAN'T leave a puddle is now out of bounds.
SO ... be careful what you wish for. IF or WHEN you do start squirting you MAY find the mess is worth it. You may not and then wish NOT to squirt any more but that Gennie will be out of the bottle. The #1 question I get in private these days is, "HOW DO I STOP squirting?" I dunno. It seems onced started you don't. Consider that. I'd be happy (and was) with the multiple G-GASMS only.
cinereaheath
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to squirt...
Hey... forgot to report back
after playing with that g-spot successfully ( sweet, endlessly repeatable multiple O's from the second try...)
I've finally got my squirting equation ( in which i can produce little puddles.. couple TBLS max... down fast)
I need to be semi squatting, thighs parallel to the floor stance and apply firm downward stroking of primed g-spot while allowing an internal push...
(quite, IMHO, scarily similar to peeing,) that permits my release...
the flavor is amazing!... so sweetly intensely different then my normal flavor... and yet somehow redolent of all my truly memorable sexual encounters..
in retrospect... I'm sure I've been doing this all along...
sporadically... occasionally utilizing depth and angle of penetration intuitively... to achieve Earth-shattering O's that left my Giddy, Breathless... ready to Crash for hours..
Generally I'm more of a seeper ... which works... as I'm more about how delicious I end up Feeling... but nice to have the squirting in the repertoire as it were...
I find I have to dabble sparingly though...
Kind of like A drug... leaves me breathless and reeling... all emotionally giddy... A good time for poor judgment choices if I'm not vigilante...
Happy Experimenting All..
hugs...~ch
Hey... forgot to report back
after playing with that g-spot successfully ( sweet, endlessly repeatable multiple O's from the second try...)
I've finally got my squirting equation ( in which i can produce little puddles.. couple TBLS max... down fast)
I need to be semi squatting, thighs parallel to the floor stance and apply firm downward stroking of primed g-spot while allowing an internal push...
(quite, IMHO, scarily similar to peeing,) that permits my release...
the flavor is amazing!... so sweetly intensely different then my normal flavor... and yet somehow redolent of all my truly memorable sexual encounters..
in retrospect... I'm sure I've been doing this all along...
sporadically... occasionally utilizing depth and angle of penetration intuitively... to achieve Earth-shattering O's that left my Giddy, Breathless... ready to Crash for hours..
Generally I'm more of a seeper ... which works... as I'm more about how delicious I end up Feeling... but nice to have the squirting in the repertoire as it were...
I find I have to dabble sparingly though...
Kind of like A drug... leaves me breathless and reeling... all emotionally giddy... A good time for poor judgment choices if I'm not vigilante...
Happy Experimenting All..
hugs...~ch
greeneyed_Lady
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We've been exploring/trying for a while now... he hasn't used his fingers directly, but we've managed to get it working.
For the record... while I've experienced that *need to pee* feeling, that is NOT what I feel when I have managed to squirt.
My orgasms are very intense to begin with. Are they more so when I've managed to squirt? No, I don't think so. I don't get any warning that it is going to happen.. or don't recognize it.
There does seem to be more of a mind-body connection for me. The times it's worked for me I have been in a higher than usual state of arousal... like it's been days (or weeks!!) of no sex, so those *I want* feelings build and build and build, and if I happen to *encourage* that thru some form of visual or other mental stimulation... yeah, you get one uber horny me.
It's happened most often with me on top. There is a way for me to move over him that drives his glans into/over the front wall.. hard to describe because once I find it, everything else becomes a big blur. When the orgasm hits I go from sitting up on him to laying overtop of him as he holds on. Then I feel it. He might notice the extra fluids before me... just doesn't say anything. Lays there with this great grin on his face. I love that on him.. hehe..
For me it's not an all the time thing, and I don't really care if it becomes one or not.
Mr.G
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GEL, ummm, how cum? I have suggested in a number of posts that the GSPOT can be "trained" really well with the use of thumbs or fingers and after that it is WAAAY easier to stimulate it with an erection. YOU know the feeling of buildup, what angle works best, the feelings leading up to release.
WHATEVER turns you crank but I think you'd find suckcess a lot faster if you tried this the other way around. Perhaps the anticipation of getting closer and closer works (ed) for you. I'm low on patience so I think it's kinda fun to get her up and flying right outta the hanger so to speak. Why bother taxiing around and around. Let her wings do their thang!!!
Again, what works for you is, of course, cool and right for you HOWEVER .... I've found that the more she G-GASMS the more OXYTOCIN is produced in her brain. The more she cums the more she wants to cum. My DD said she was completely addicted. I've got several thousand IM's from women and couples who describe the same "addiction" and stating that they can't get enough ... always horny.
In other words the standard pause in ones sex routine where the hormones continue to build and you get hornier and hornier doesn't necessarily apply to GSPOT stimulation.
Viv, don't forget to tell them to post here with their results too, K? The more, the merrier. Ages, new ideas, positions, techniques, records, toys, angles, body types, previous orgasmic history, partner's reactions etc etc - ALL interesting when taken in the context of helping others attain that incredible EUREEEKA MOMENT!!!
Oh and it ain't hell when this works right. Women claim they see GOD!!
No.
REALLLY!!!
WHATEVER turns you crank but I think you'd find suckcess a lot faster if you tried this the other way around. Perhaps the anticipation of getting closer and closer works (ed) for you. I'm low on patience so I think it's kinda fun to get her up and flying right outta the hanger so to speak. Why bother taxiing around and around. Let her wings do their thang!!!
Again, what works for you is, of course, cool and right for you HOWEVER .... I've found that the more she G-GASMS the more OXYTOCIN is produced in her brain. The more she cums the more she wants to cum. My DD said she was completely addicted. I've got several thousand IM's from women and couples who describe the same "addiction" and stating that they can't get enough ... always horny.
In other words the standard pause in ones sex routine where the hormones continue to build and you get hornier and hornier doesn't necessarily apply to GSPOT stimulation.
Viv, don't forget to tell them to post here with their results too, K? The more, the merrier. Ages, new ideas, positions, techniques, records, toys, angles, body types, previous orgasmic history, partner's reactions etc etc - ALL interesting when taken in the context of helping others attain that incredible EUREEEKA MOMENT!!!
Oh and it ain't hell when this works right. Women claim they see GOD!!
No.
REALLLY!!!
greeneyed_Lady
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[bitchiness warning/rant coming]
Mr G.. I know what you've suggested.. and in our own way we've done it. I don't know why he hasn't used his thumb. I've shown him this thread, we've talked about it, and yet.. he doesn't do it. That's his choice. This works for us and we are not looking for rapid fire or jump starting anything.
Did you miss the part of my post where I said that it was working? What makes you think we aren't having success?? Just because it isn't happening every time? I for one don't want it to happen everytime. I'm content with where we are and what we are doing and have accomplished and I'd think YOU of all people would respect that and not push your agenda on others.
[/end bitchiness/rant]
Sorry. Been a hell of a week and I'm overtired, hormonal and stressed out.
Mr.G
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WhoooHOOAAA
Ladies, read this and try and understand how hard it is for US to follow your "mood". The only hint is the time of the month and if we know you really really well, you begin to TASTE differently. You usually get a bit hornier but there are things in your head that are happening that ARE IN YOUR HEAD. Trouble is you don't really clue in on that aspect until much later in life. Most difficult thing in the world to relate to somebody who hears or sees something and reacts to it based on what is happening in their head. Nice of you to WARN and apologize BUTT ... read that ... perfect example of "whoooaaaa" I don't think I said that...."
Or dija read? :
The rest is just suggestions based on what I've learned or been told over the years to make this whole process BETTER. I've been real clear from the start of this thread that I'm not barking commands - just ideas and suggestions. Some women have emailed me and even said they would NEVER try this because they would NEVER EVER want to give a MAN this much power over them. That's OK too. My guess is a woman who feels that way is way beyond anything I could help her with anyway and nice of her to warn any potential lovers that they'd have more fun with a plastic bag and some vaseline but HEY ... whatever turns their cranks.
Or NOT!!!
Ladies, read this and try and understand how hard it is for US to follow your "mood". The only hint is the time of the month and if we know you really really well, you begin to TASTE differently. You usually get a bit hornier but there are things in your head that are happening that ARE IN YOUR HEAD. Trouble is you don't really clue in on that aspect until much later in life. Most difficult thing in the world to relate to somebody who hears or sees something and reacts to it based on what is happening in their head. Nice of you to WARN and apologize BUTT ... read that ... perfect example of "whoooaaaa" I don't think I said that...."
Or dija read? :
The rest is just suggestions based on what I've learned or been told over the years to make this whole process BETTER. I've been real clear from the start of this thread that I'm not barking commands - just ideas and suggestions. Some women have emailed me and even said they would NEVER try this because they would NEVER EVER want to give a MAN this much power over them. That's OK too. My guess is a woman who feels that way is way beyond anything I could help her with anyway and nice of her to warn any potential lovers that they'd have more fun with a plastic bag and some vaseline but HEY ... whatever turns their cranks.
Or NOT!!!
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