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[Mr.G]

No apology

... i actually found you quite offensive - what expectant mother would knowingly put her child at risk - telling my my child will likely die really isnt a tactful thing to say - are you a parent?

I think the "what mother would KNOWINGLY put their child at risk.?" sums up my concerns. Did you take the time to actually READ the stats on premies, still births and spontaneous terminations? Those stats tell me that many of those situations are OF UNKNOWN CAUSE. I do NOT want my TRY THIS technique to be one of them. I am VERY sorry you consider my response offensive however I choose to err on the side of caution. Nor do I butter up my answers or insulate them for the people out there who are so PC they wouldn't recognize an on-coming train if the engine was black. I do NOT want anybody emailing me with bad news and if I come across as tactless I'd rather have that accusation than a "Your TECHNIQUE aborted my baby!!!" email.

I DO hope you understand. MANY women and many doctors do NOT know that G-Gasms are push out muscle contractions and very forceful at times. It mimics childbirth. The rest is just an extrapolation of the LOST ART of common sense.

No I am NOT a parent. What possible difference does that make to this discussion? My concern is for ANY baby out there who could possibly be harmed by the orgasm resulting from a GSpotting. The stats are too damn high to take those kinds of chances on an UNKNOWN and babies are too precious to GAMBLE with. Just my opinion and again I am NOT sorry you find my concern shocking and upsetting. Just TRY and understand what I'm saying.

I am NOT, as your email seems to imply, saying that natural childbirth resulting in an orgasm is likely to kill your baby. If you read that into my post may I suggest a class in reading comprehension. I have included a recent study on FOX NEWS about Orgasmic Childbirth. I wish you ALL the luck in the world pursuing that. Just be damn careful with the pre-game show. I will NOT enjoy coming on here and saying, " I TOLD YOU SO." If nothing happens then that's great.

AS far as "I know my body" .. fine. I've never claimed to know any woman's body better than she does herself (as long as she KNOWS about GSpots before) . If it feels right, fine. Good. However, your sensitivities aside, if my warning prevents just ONE premature baby (or worse) out there, I think I can live with you being upset and shocked at my attitude.

**one more edit to show how ridiculous .. and dangerous this can be**

in healthy low risk pregnancies (like mine) babies are only born when they are good and ready and not a moment before

And exactly WHAT gives YOU the knowledge that every woman reading this is, has or WILL experience a healthy low risk pregnancy? What I said to snowvixen .. there are women who never see a doctor during their pregnancy due to finances or location. There are women who go VERY VERY quickly from no-problem, low risk pregnancy to complications. I'm glad you happen to be so healthy an know EXACTLY what your body and every other woman's body is going to do during pregnancy and / or during G-Gasms. I'm only human, mortal and don't even have the ALL-KNOWING advice that some doctors think they have. I'm JUST trying to be careful. In my uneducated opinion it just is NOT worth the risk when so many factors are still unknown.

Snowvixen said:

the uterus DOES NOT contract as hard during a g-spot orgasm as it does during labor. Orgasms, no matter how intense, will not hurt the baby.

I'm NOT suggesting an orgasm is going to squirt the baby out. That's idiotic. What I'm saying and have been saying is that G-Gasms mimic the muscle contractions used during child birth. The stats show a HIGH percentage of pregnancies that terminate for UNKNOWN REASONS. If the body, for whatever reason, mistakes a G-Gasm for the readiness to give birth (don't forget all the hormones that are released too) then THAT could be initiated by the body resulting in a severely premature birth.

Please don't spread disinformation about sex and pregnancy.

If many doctors don't know the difference between the types of orgasms then how can they waive off on these types of orgasms? They can't. Also if those percentages of "terminated by/for UNKNOWN CAUSES" don't sound just a tad scary and worthy of some EXTRA caution when you know how G-Gasms, work then go ahead. It's up to YOU of course. I stand by my warning for mothers who don't particularly want to play Russian Roulette with their pregnancy.


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FOXSexpert: Orgasms During Childbirth? It Happens

Monday, January 05, 2009

By Yvonne Fulbright

"Orgasmic" isn't exactly the first word most women use to describe childbirth. Yet thanks to a new DVD, "Orgasmic Birth," we're learning that birthing has perks beyond the miracle of life. For some women, this includes actual orgasms during delivery.

Regarded as "the best kept secret" of childbirth, women are curious about this seemingly unimaginable experience. How can childbirth possibly be climactic?

No matter how you look at it, birth is a sexual experience. That's going to make many of you cringe, but biologically it makes sense. The pleasures of birth allow for better mother-infant bonding. Far from perverse, orgasmic pleasures are a continuation of the act of conception itself. They're in the best interest of the baby, and an ideal starting point for healthy family relationships.

Orgasmic birth appears to be part of Mother Nature's master plan. Research conducted by Dr. Beverly Whipple in 1989, as well as others, indicates that orgasms can be induced in some women during childbirth. It is believed that this happens because of pressure from the baby's head on its mother's all-important hypogastric and pelvic nerve systems.

These nerves play a part in a woman's ability to experience vaginal, cervical and G-spot orgasms. Explaining orgasmic birth, OB-GYN Dr. Christiane Northrup said that as the baby moves through the birth canal, it actually stimulates all the pathways involved in sexual pleasure. Plus the stages of natural childbirth mimic one's normal sexual response in some ways; for example, breathing becomes faster and deeper.

Throw into the mix the release of oxytocin during childbirth and you have an even greater love-fest potential come delivery, D-day. This hormone lends itself to the uterine contractions and nipple erection a woman experiences during childbirth.

Furthermore, it dulls pain, actually producing stronger, more effective, even pleasurable contractions. Best yet, it can also make for orgasmic sensations, especially with the increase in ecstasy-producing beta-endorphins.

So now for the million-dollar question ... How does a woman experience such an orgasm? Strategies include:

— Overcoming your fears.

— Recognizing that you are a sexual being throughout pregnancy.

— Embracing the idea of over-the-top pleasure during childbirth.

— Allowing yourself to be open to orgasm.

Couples need to be given the privacy to boost the flow of oxytocin. This can be achieved via kissing, caressing and massage. Some couples even have intercourse prior to the water breaking.

Such affectionate exchanges allow the woman's partner to participate more in the birthing process, adding to this shared experience even more. The touching and nurturing can be very comforting to both partners.

In investigating "unexpected birthgasm" — spontaneous climax during labor without stimulation — Dr. Danielle Harel found that such a "passionate birth" involves a supportive partner who does things like hold her. Women who have birthgasms have a good sex life and are fully educated about childbirth.

Critical to Harel's findings is that the woman uses sexual stimulation to ease contractions, instead of anesthesia. According to the authors of "The Unofficial Guide to Having a Baby," one orgasm is believed to be 22 times as relaxing as the average tranquilizer.

Obviously, the birthing environment needs to be safe, secure, and uninterrupted. Keeping the delivery space stress-free is vital, since this helps to keep fear hormones that block oxytocin in check. These hormones prevent oxygen-rich blood from flowing to the uterus and sex organs, thwarting the body's ability to give birth smoothly.

More than anything, women who want to experience orgasmic births need to take control of their pregnancy and childbirth. Instead of handing their bodies over to medicine to speed labor, they need to work with non-interventive doctors or midwives. Synthetic hormones can actually make for contractions that are more painful, causing problems like rupture of the uterus.

Whether or not you hope to orgasm, couples need to investigate all of the different ways a woman can give birth. They are entitled to an experience that is positive and pleasurable. Childbirth can be approached as an event to be enjoyed and not something that women have to endure.

Childbirth can be emotionally, physically AND sexually fulfilling. Simple awareness of orgasmic birth may increase your chances of such a response. At the same time, women should be careful not to set themselves up for feelings of failure if they don't have an orgasm. When it comes to childbirth, everyone needs to expect the unexpected.

Dr. Yvonne K. Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of Sexuality Source Inc. She is the author of several books including, "Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots."

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,476244,00.html

 

[greeneyed_Lady]

Interesting thread, but this is bullshit.

Speaking as somebody who has happily had g-spot orgasms throughout two pregnancies and has had an orgasm during birth, the uterus DOES NOT contract as hard during a g-spot orgasm as it does during labor. Orgasms, no matter how intense, will not hurt the baby.

By "rough intercourse" doctors - when they warn against it, which is no longer the usual case - are referring to rough penetration, which may hit against the cervix and cause intense discomfort, possibly internal bruising and bleeding and - if the cervix is beginning to open - may break the sac. Stimulating the g-spot does NOT require a woman's partner to be anywhere NEAR her cervix.

Women are encouraged to have sex during pregnancy and orgasm as hard and as often as they wish, unless there is something very wrong with the pregnancy or a person has warning signs for premature labor. It's GOOD for us, because it helps tone our uterine muscles.


Please don't spread disinformation about sex and pregnancy.

Jumping in because I can. At the ripe old age of 27 you presume to know everything there is to know about every woman's body and how it works during pregnancy. Wow. That's freakin' amazing and you should hang out a shingle and practice medicine because there are millions of women who could benefit from all your years of experience. Please note I am being incredibly sarcastic.

Do you know how close to the cervix a man's fingers come when they are inside a woman's vagina. I'd be more concerned about him introducing germs and bacteria into a somewhat sterile invironment. I say *somewhat* because we all know it isn't really sterile. And *IF* her cervix were ripe and opening, or her waters were slightly bulging thru, his hand could be the instrument that ruptures her membranes and introduces an infection directly into the child's environment. Doesn't take much.

As for *healthy* pregnancy... not everyon has those. I have personally known several dozen who have not. Many are put on total pelvic rest halfway thru their pregnancy... after a rather benign beginning. Or like my SIL now who has placenta previa... that went unnoticed until her 32nd week or so. In that case even WALKING to the bathroom might cause her placenta to tear away and she and the baby could die. I'm sure she and my brother were still having sex prior to their diagnosis and suddenly in the blink of an eye their *normal, healthy* pregnancy wasn't.

I happen to agree with Mr G (hi handsome *waves*) that erring on the side of caution shouldn't really be that big of a deal. I mean, pregnant women are supposed to give up drinking during their pregnancies, right? And smoking. And many medications. And sometimes certain foods. What is the big freakin' deal if you put off doing something that has the potential of making you the saddest woman on the planet? All it takes is once... kind of like getting pregnant. Think of this as the warning on the side of your blow dryer... "This product should not be used while standing in a bathtub full of water."

I think my man has it right. It's called natural selection.

You are a big girl, feel free to carry on as you will... we both know that you will anyway 'cause you are the expert on all things orgasmic and pregnancy related.

 

[SatansWench]

Just want to to say that powerful orgasms can cause premature labour. All 3 of my babies were born within 24 hours of having particularly strong orgasms, one of them prematurely at 35 weeks, my waters actually broke with him less than an hour after sex and my cervix was completely closed, no dialation at all. My last two, we were more careful in the last trimester but resumed sex as normal when I reached 38 weeks and I knew my babies were safe.

During an orgasm the uterus contracts, just the same as it does during labour but not the same intensity, but these small contractions release hormones that start labour, just the same as Braxton hicks contractions do.

 

[Missilynn27]

why can't i have one?

I don't understand why I can't have one? I am such a sexual person! Tried on my own for over an hour. I would say I don't think I have a g spot but I know I have had that urge to pee during sex a couple of times. Im really wondering if i'll ever have one.

 

[cinereaheath]

I don't understand why I can't have one? I am such a sexual person! Tried on my own for over an hour. I would say I don't think I have a g spot but I know I have had that urge to pee during sex a couple of times. Im really wondering if i'll ever have one.

keep trying Missi.. they're really wild and very worth it..!

 

[josephanthony69]

They are definitely there - possibly a better approach for the first one is a friend with benefits that you truly trust - but for certain - that is not necessary and to second it - as a man even - the orgasms and the reaction to assisting in them is just amazing!! Be comfortable, be relaxed, but keep trying!!

I don't understand why I can't have one? I am such a sexual person! Tried on my own for over an hour. I would say I don't think I have a g spot but I know I have had that urge to pee during sex a couple of times. Im really wondering if i'll ever have one.

 

[turtledove77]

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[cinereaheath]

yep.. pop, gush,(or big ooze) puddle.. that's a pattern I relate to.. not squirting.. but suddenly soaked

when I think of all those times in my younger days when I suddenly held back, or switch postions, or excused my self to the ladies cus I thought I had to tinkle..

or when, the morning after, washing up I would let a finger or two wonder inside and was disturbed and self conscious to feel the ridgely swelling of that g-spot perked up and hoping for more..
( strangely enough my hand and pussy have only really been on regular intimate terms the last year or so..)

was happy to find this thread some months back, can happily report a lot of satisfaction as a result, most importantly that it led me to a very special someone

 

[Mr.G]

Thanks for the feedback. What you FELT and your early reluctance to let go are important factors that noobies need to read so that when it happens to them they will recognize what's happening and allow it to just happen.

My 1st post sez when she starts to feel these things "HOLD HER DOWN" and I've been attacked for that ever since - "HOW DARE YOU! THAT'S RAPE!!!!!!" OK first off I'm assuming that if your lover is TRYING tro give you a G-GASM(s) based on this or similar instructions you haven't been dragged into a back alley. Are these people comPLETELY devoid of any common sense? Seriously, the need to pee is what kills the build up in so many pre-G-Gasmic events so when the people trying to do this read posts like above they can go, "YA ... I FEEEL that now .... KEEP GOING." Instead of "STOP STOP STOP I have to pee!"

We started going back and forth, sex and fingering. Best night of sex for me in a long time!! I didn't realize how much I came until I got up and felt the puddle under my butt. A good 2 hand size width across. Ummm. Wanted to add that I didn't exactly scream in ectasy, I laughed like a maniac. He had to tell me to take it down a notch before I woke people up.

Best way I can describe it; there was like a pop, then a gush of fluid. And this morning I have the worst headache, but the biggest smile on my face. I can not wait til the next time, lol.

TD, don't mean to nit-pick but when you said CUM you're referring here to ejaculate - fluid. What about orgasm(s) - G-GASMS ?? Had you had those before withOUT the fluid release? If so what was the difference in feeling? Do you feel the ejaculation(s) enhanced the G-gasms?

ALSO .... the headache is PREVENTABLE. This would make an EXCELLENT GATORAIDE ad.

***Ladies if you're planning on flooding the basement tonight have a GATORAIDE or three so your electrolytes don't get out of whack. Hockey players do and YOU should too!***

With the amount of liquid that some women lose during these events you HAVE TO REALIZE it's coming from somewhere and seeing as how the typical human body only holds something like 5 qts (mostly blud and this is NOT blud!!) then she NEEDS to replenish those fluids and fast. The best advice I can give there is to anticipate what you'll likely be doing in bed and have mucho fluids before hand so the headache (or worse) does not happen. A sport drink like GATORAIDE is designed to replace those fluids and electrolytes lost by sports players to sweat. There is no difference here 'cept this ain't sweat.

Again, thanks for helping out here. It's nice to see the interest is still out there and the numbers are still climbing which means about a THOUSAND people read these pages every 4 or 5 days!!!

Long live the RESEARCH!!!

 

[turtledove77]

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[Wilf_Huckitt]

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[SatansWench]

I find it easier when I'm on my back, it takes literally seconds to work now that I've learned to just go with the flow. I gush gallons and scream like a banshee but it did take a while before I learned to just realx and go with it.

 

[Wilf_Huckitt]

SatansWench is that with the middle and ring fingers, and by yourself or with a partner?
If with a partner then wouldnt the thumb technique do wonders after you've got it fired up?

thnx for sharing!!!!!!!! wilf

 

[MR.GGG]

Whoremoans

IMHO this "research" should continue too afterall nobody in this article refrerred to what / where was being kissed to produce this hormoanal data. Betacha we could show them how to UP some of their numbers!!!

• Kisses unleash chemicals that ease stress levels

By RANDOLPH E. SCHMID, AP Science Writer Randolph E. Schmid, Ap Science Writer – Fri Feb 13, 6:22 pm ET

CHICAGO – "Chemistry look what you've done to me," Donna Summer crooned in Science of Love, and so, it seems, she was right. Just in time for Valentine's Day, a panel of scientists examined the mystery of what happens when hearts throb and lips lock. Kissing, it turns out, unleashes chemicals that ease stress hormones in both sexes and encourage bonding in men, though not so much in women.

Chemicals in the saliva may be a way to assess a mate, Wendy Hill, dean of the faculty and a professor of neuroscience at Lafayette College, told a meeting of the American Association for the Advancement of Science on Friday.

In an experiment, Hill explained, pairs of heterosexual college students who kissed for 15 minutes while listening to music experienced significant changes in their levels of the chemicals oxytocin, which affects pair bonding, and cortisol, which is associated with stress. Their blood and saliva levels of the chemicals were compared before and after the kiss.

Both men and women had a decline in cortisol after smooching, an indication their stress levels declined.

For men, oxytocin levels increased, indicating more interest in bonding, while oxytocin levels went down in women. "This was a surprise," Hill said.

In a test group that merely held hands, chemical changes were similar, but much less pronounced, she said.

The experiment was conducted in a student health center, Hill noted. She plans a repeat "in a more romantic setting."

Hill spoke at the session on the Science of Kissing, along with Helen Fisher of Rutgers University and Donald Lateiner of Ohio Wesleyan University.

Fisher noted that more than 90 percent of human societies practice kissing, which she believes has three components — the sex drive, romantic love and attachment.

The sex drive pushes individuals to assess a variety of partners, then romantic love causes them to focus on an individual, she said. Attachment then allows them to tolerate this person long enough to raise a child.

Men tend to think of kissing as a prelude to copulation, Fisher said. She noted that men prefer "sloppy" kisses, in which chemicals including testosterone can be passed on to the women in saliva. Testosterone increases the sex drive in both males and females.

"When you kiss an enormous part of your brain becomes active," she added. Romantic love can last a long time, "if you kiss the right person."

Lateiner, a classical scholar, observed that kissing appears infrequently in Greek and Roman art, but was widely practiced, despite the spread of skin disease at that time by facial kissing. And there was a potential for social faux pas by kissing the wrong person at the wrong time.

Overall, the science of kissing — philematology — is under-researcherd, Hill concluded.

 

[aneverydaygent]

Try this. I know some of you have already but for those who haven't it just blow your minds.

THE TECHNIQUE

Quick Backgrounder

The G&A Spot(s) are a bunch of nerve clusters which trigger endorphines (natural painkillers) during child birth. These nerve concentrations are below the surface and protected. The clit is not protected and the nerves are right on the surface. Any guy who tries to handle a clit roughly usually gets a heel up the side of his head. The GSpot is different. Once it has been triggered you can NOT treat it like a clit. Beat it up! Guys have been taught to be gentle with "that " area. Yes for the clit. NO for the G&A's.

Basic Technique ideas:

#1: Make sure she goes for a tinkle (urinates) just prior to this. The best way to “experiment ” is for the woman to relax over a bunch of pillows, face down, bum up in the air and legs comfortably wide apart. In that position with her guy either at the side, straddling one leg or sort of in the middle, the best way is with his thumb - inserted and pointing down towards the bed. If you press the thumb into the vagina until the heel of the thumb is pressing into her lips the GSpot will be right under the fat part at the end of your thumb. It’s no harder to find than that. It is a small bump roughly the same size as that fat part at the end of your thumb too so it feels a little like there’s another thumb pressing back. (ALL women have this - all women may not react the same way) Start to rub it. You can rub like you’re trying to get a spot out - back and forth or sideways or in a circular motion - it doesn’t matter. DO NOT do it too hard at first but once it puffs up and gets a little hard, that's when you can get rough with it. She'll feel like she has to go for a pee about then. Ignore her. Hold her down. Tell her to go ahead. Ladies you aren't going to pee. It just comes from some kind of build-up and "about to release" feeling. Just hang on and tell him harder or faster to increase that feeling. The first time or two it takes a few minutes. Once you've done it a few times you can usually get the first orgasm in under two minutes - no matter what and then repeats every 30 seconds to a minute for as long as she can stand it. An average night means between 8 and 15 giant "O's". A marathon brings between 35 and 50 !!! Trouble walking the next day but Man) Man is it worth the shakes the next day.

#2 is: when you've triggered an orgasm, wait about 30 seconds, maybe a minute (no more)and then start again. Just as hard. Right away. It'll happen over and over as many times as you repeat it. DO NOT BE GENTLE !! Depending on what kind of shape she’s in, a slightly longer wait between orgasms is wise(ie. let her start to breathe again). My friends described those orgasms as like being hit by a train. It seems to involve the entire body. If they’ve never had a GSpot orgasm they are going to be amazed. When you do it to them again and again they will be astounded.

At that point an option that they all seem to enjoy is once she knows “that feel” she can climb on and ride you and position herself so that the end of your erection is hitting the same spot your thumb was hitting. She can then have a huge orgasm about every 10 to 20 downstrokes and keep that up until she melts or passes out. Then it’s time to cuddle.

One word of warning, guys, NEVER have her squat over your face, suck her clit and poke her GSPOT with your fingers. She will cum so hard and her pelvic thrusts will be so out of control that she will BREAK YOUR NOSE. Trust me on this. To combine the two (oral on the clit AND Gspot) she should be on her back and your face should be sideways to her.


Let me know if and / or how it worked for you.

Mr.. you deserve an award for this... I had been looking for something like this for years..
i tried it a couple months ago with my girl after reading your thread... IT'S AMAZING....
thanks for sharing this... and for those who haven't tried it... go for it...
I gotta say when i read the thread, i was a bit skeptical so I told her "ok, i'm gonna try something new, i'm not sure it works but it's worth the try" everything went exactly as you described it... the feeling of having to pee, the hips movement that could definitely break yor jaws if you don't follo the guidelines... mate, we were just blown away...
thanks again..

 

[littlehulagirl]

Trying this tonight with my hubby. He's very good at finding my G spot but we've never stayed with it long enough for multiples. I'll share the results tomorrow... (or this weekend if I'm too blissed to type!!!)

 

[afCindy]

Just a little feedback

Well I have to admit that I have cheated….reading the first 100 posts or so, and then skipped along to the last page. I apologize if this has been covered already, but I feel like adding my five cents. I am going to read this in its entirety, just a little at a time, I need breaks….

I regards to the technique: If you are not psychologically damaged or physically damaged as a woman, your partner or you should be able to locate AND enjoy your G spot reading but a fraction of this thread. (Bows to Guru G)

Coming into my 30ies and after childbirth I have much greater awareness and sensitivity in my vagina, and now I am starting to appreciate the complexity. Guys when women are not getting there, even with your best efforts, it sometimes has to do with the fact that we are brought up to think that pleasing you is the primary objective of our sex lives, and it is very hard, even for me, knowing what I know, to lie still and simply enjoy the affection, and being devoured and being brought to orgasm.

Subsequent to reading the New York Times article “what women want” I read this thread and one of the first responses to Mr G’s initial post, was the woman said something about how it was that that he said that he would hold her down when she was trying to squiggle away. Synthesizing what I understand to be parts of the female sexuality the desire to be wanted so passionately by her lover, he is like an animal…

I believe in my heart that the greatest turn on for women is to be desired, and to have a man want to satisfy her after she has driven him senseless. Not by the means of being a damsel in distress or being submissive, but by tempting him till he cannot withstand. But we are so limited by conventional roles for women that we cannot allow ourselves to loose control in the hands of our lovers. It is not just the variations in our physique, it is our mental state.

Somewhere I have to point out that the female orgasm is much more contingent on the emotional turn on rather than pure mechanical manipulation, comparatively.

On the A: I am a woman and I consider my self to be quite literate in my own body. Being very familiar with the A spot, also known as the “skenes” glands, or the female equivalent of the prostate (well evolutionary I suppose it is the other way around). This gland is extremely sensitive, and can produce some massive orgasms independently from the clit and or G.

Men will enjoy stimulation as well. Having heard reports of much more intense male orgasms when I sneak a finger and find the gland right before orgasm. Remember girls, the anus is not lubricating, so use a little of your own juice before trying this on. I would guestimate 1,5” on average – or midway index finger or a bit further.

And seriously you are pestering away in this thread about dangers to unborn children?...start knitting then…


Arh and lastly, the kiss the contractions.

Mr. G your ladies may have been addicted to your fingers, yes, because women excrete significant amounts of oxytocin when having orgasms, (a chem. Most associated with inducing contractions for birth, but also the gasmic contractions), which makes us bond for evolutionary reasons, and yes, therefore we are likely to come back for more.

Orgasms also help us conceive and so males that can produce them are well, more desirable. (For 10000000 years worth of reasons, need I mention?)

Kisses lets us read oxytocin potentials in our partners, and …shut this chick up already…

Alright, I have found the spot myself successfully, and been able to give myself a pure G orgasm….that was a first….now I think there is some link between the g and the clit…they seem to “talk” and be pretty close in proximity. Now whenever I think of the spot, it starts to throb….

 

[turtledove77]

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[turtledove77]

Alright, I have found the spot myself successfully, and been able to give myself a pure G orgasm….that was a first….now I think there is some link between the g and the clit…they seem to “talk” and be pretty close in proximity. Now whenever I think of the spot, it starts to throb….

Loved your post.

I especially agree with the last line. When I get turned on, I always feel that throb. Now that I know where it's coming from, and how to take care of it, I'm one happy girl.

 

[littlehulagirl]

Finally got around to trying this (hubby ended up working late the night I posted and we were both too tired). All I can say is WOW! He's always been able to find my G and had played around there during oral or regular finger play. But we'd never tried just G stimulation. Now... we'll be doing that a lot more often.
We actually tried it in missionary (I had a migraine and sometimes lying face down makes it worse). As expected, he worried for a few minutes that he was hurting me, saying it felt like he was pressing so hard he was lifting me up. Then he realized I wasn't smacking him away and he was ok. He did, however, made the mistake of lying with his head near mine and my screaming made his ears ring for about 10 mins after. He said at least he knew I enjoyed it!!!!

Next time, we try for multiples. Many thanks for this post Mr G!

 

[trueloves]

I first read this thread a couple years ago it seems. I didn't experience my first g-spot until last night with my ex husband. Umm.

Now, I didn't have the body twitches, and streams of ejaculation. So ladies don't feel like a failure if that doesn't happen. And my best advice is to not anticipate it. Best advice on here, is to RELAX, and expect nothing. If you're too tense and thinking about it, it doesn't happen. Atleast that's how it was for me.

Last night I let myself go. At first I tried to instruct him on how to go about fingering me ( I did this on my back) I then shut up, lol, and let him go to work.

He started out slow, then worked his speed up. And at first he was going in and out. Somehow we got into a rhythm of going up and down, and it did hurt but started to feel really good. I had the peeing urge, but it quickly passed. I concentrated on the banging of his fingers. It felt like something popped, and I was soaked. I was thinking wth was that, lol. He wanted to start fcking, but I pushed his hand back down. I'm telling you what, before I knew it my butt crack was soaked, and I could hear the sloshing of his hand. wow

We started going back and forth, sex and fingering. Best night of sex for me in a long time!! I didn't realize how much I came until I got up and felt the puddle under my butt. A good 2 hand size width across. Ummm. Wanted to add that I didn't exactly scream in ectasy, I laughed like a maniac. He had to tell me to take it down a notch before I woke people up.

Best way I can describe it; there was like a pop, then a gush of fluid. And this morning I have the worst headache, but the biggest smile on my face. I can not wait til the next time, lol.

So ladies keep trying. Do not anticipate it, relax..relax...relax!! lol. Get nice and hot!! Go back and forth from genital penetration, to manual. Or use toys. My mistake from past attempts was going straight for the G. I was starting to give up too and wondered if I even had one.

Love this thread. Mr G you're the man, lol. Umm, I can't get over how wet I was, and how wonderful I felt. And I'm sure I'm starting to look a little crazy with this grin.

This is exactly the way for me also - I laugh too - what is that about? Thanks to this thread (and an instructional video I found online), Hubby and I are able to accomplish it every time now. I end up feeling thoroughly satisfied and he feels like a sex God for making me cum like that.....so amazing

 

[Sweet_Lily]

No success...

but we had fun trying!

A friend led me to this post and I had to join to be able to post.

I showed the original post to my man and he was quite intrigued (bonus points!). Bless him, he tried...and he tried, when I told him I couldn't get there, he tried even harder, but no success. We've been together for a year and I've rarely had an orgasm with him so maybe this is too much for us yet. Although I get frustrated not succeeding (and so does he) it was fun to play that long and intensely.

Thanks Mr. G and everyone else for sharing.

Lily

 

[trueloves]

but we had fun trying!

A friend led me to this post and I had to join to be able to post.

I showed the original post to my man and he was quite intrigued (bonus points!). Bless him, he tried...and he tried, when I told him I couldn't get there, he tried even harder, but no success. We've been together for a year and I've rarely had an orgasm with him so maybe this is too much for us yet. Although I get frustrated not succeeding (and so does he) it was fun to play that long and intensely.

Thanks Mr. G and everyone else for sharing.

Lily

Lily, Keep trying! You really have to let yourself go....believe me its worth it. Give it another shot or two and just take it easy.

 

[Mr.G]

No Suckcess

I wrote a 5 pager but when I went to post I was no longer registered so when I logged on the post went poof. DAMN. I wuz giving advice on how to not do that to somebody else just the other day. RATZDAMN!!

Lily, keep trying. DON'T make it the central focus. If it doesn't happen easily and fairly quickly (within the first few minutes of MODERATE rubbing) then it should be attempted OCCASIONALLY while engaging in the longest most intense session of foreplay you've ever attempted. If it isn't happening try again the same way another time.

It happens right away with some and really has to be t e a s e d out of others but from feedback it almost always happens if you both persist. Don't assume that because it didn't happen right away it isn't ever going to happen. A negative attitude has GOT to have a negative effect on your body so just enjoy the sensations and the intimacy and try and relax and let your body dictate what it's feeling.

Many women are reporting other areas in the vagina as orgasmic producing spots so maybe occasionally concentrate on other areas that DO feel good right away. One spot seems to be the floor of the vagina right at the mouth of the vagina. Push down (not too hard- again gauge her reactions and elasticity of the area) over and over towards her anus. You might try having him give you a good tongue lashing and with an index finger in yo bum and his thumb in the front bottom of your vagina have him "BITE" with his two fingers against the membranes separating the two areas. This may trigger another type of orgasm. It has for many and as you know we are ALL different. Be extra sure his finger nails are very short and filed smooth for this type of attempt.

 

[Sweet_Lily]

Lily, keep trying. DON'T make it the central focus.

This is our problem as me having an orgasm is his focus. I just need to learn to let go. This is an issue with me but I haven't found a help thread on that one yet...continues search...

A negative attitude has GOT to have a negative effect on your body so just enjoy the sensations and the intimacy and try and relax and let your body dictate what it's feeling.

ooo I enjoyed, believe me, I enjoyed . I even told him when I realized it wasn't going to happen (which releases my brain of all pressure to get there) and he kept going. He continued eating and ravaging me, but we just didn't have success.

I know what I need to be able to orgasm *normally* and I can't do that with him so this was probably too much to tackle, as yet. As they say, half the fun is in the trying!

Lily