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[cloakedlover]

If you should think of something, let me know. Many thanks Vanelane.

 

[MR.GGG]

Loss of LIBIDO & the PILL

I would try low dosage testosterone pills for a few weeks and see if there is a boost to your libido. Stop the treatments as soon as you begin growing hair on your titties and your clit begins to GROW!!


I've heard of this drop in libido when women are on the pill and some recent research confirms what some women have told me. Their "fix"? Very low and infrequent testosterone pills and the fireworks started to happen again for them.

NOTE: Testosterone is sold mostly for weight lifters and the dosage is huge. DON'T take this crap. Try and get a doctors prescription but failing that look for low dosage pills at Health Supplement web sites and then only take them on and off. Monitor what your body is doing and if there is a noticeable increase in libido. Try and maintain a sensible dose so you're not endangering yourself with massive and abnormal hormone fluctuations. Testosterone is a powerful hormone and can stimulate various cancers not just your libido. Research it. You probably won't find any help from your doctor but
Bottom line is : this loss of libido IS fixable just be very careful.

Read these articles:

http://www.mirror.co.uk/sexandhealt...permanently-effect-your-libido-name_page.html

WHY PILL MIGHT PERMANENTLY EFFECT YOUR LIBIDO
IT'S one of life's cruel ironies. A woman finds a boyfriend, goes on the Pill - and goes off sex. Now researchers have discovered that the problem of lost libido is worse than they thought. The 3.5 million women on the contraceptive pill in Britain could see their sex drive dive for ever. Loss of libido is a recognized side effect of the Pill and is caused by a lowering of the sex hormone testosterone, responsible for the sex drive in both men and women.


http://www.buzzle.com/editorials/5-25-2005-70531.asp

Taking the Pill Could Reduce Women's Libido, Us Scientists Claim

Researchers at Boston University Medical College found that women who take the pill regularly have much lower levels of the hormone that drives sexual desire. The hormone remains suppressed even when they come off the pill. Women who take the contraceptive pill are in danger of permanently dampening their libido, according to a team of American scientists.

 

[cloakedlover]

Mr. GGG - This is one of those things that angers nearly everyone, perhaps with the exception of the stockholders and excecutive leaders within the pharmaceutical industry. 1) Not getting all the facts about meds and their repercussions. 2)The FDA's ability to put things on the market without a lengthy study (or without revealing all the side effects). This info from you is a new one to me, and I thank you for the enlightenment. That could very well explain why I was so non-sexual for sooooo long.

I actually got off the pill b/c I kept getting irregular paps - and was constantly being "frozen & scraped". I have been generally a very healthy person - I don't eat a lot of processed foods, etc - albeit a bit lazy on the exercise track lately. There's no history in my family that I have uncovered. Plus from hearing about other women's experience with the pill - many of them have had the same irregular cell scare.

? As for now, I wonder if the hormonal imbalance could actually repress/suppress an orgasm - even if I have the drive? Because I am having a much easier time getting sexually aroused.

 

[jethrobodeen]

In the interests of research and helping others I shall detail my latest experiences. I wouldn't usually go into so much personal detail but for the people that are not getting the technique 'down pat' without persistance, like us, I hope it helps! It would seem that my G has a mind of its own.

Hey, Kiwichyck, now don't you be sparing us any of those details.... I was going to reply to one of your earlier posts, but after I saw this one, you and DH certainly seem to be making progress

Last night I specifically requested oral from DH. I figured maybe I'd give the G thing a rest for a bit. I've been wondering if I'm just trying too hard. He spent a whole lot of time on foreplay, specifically kissing and licking me pretty much all over with emphasis on my neck, belly and inner thighs. He then went on to give me some really great soft hot oral. I was pretty much climbing the walls from that and got out my dildo and used that on myself while he watched. All in all pretty hot! It all gets a little hazy for awhile, but then he went in for my G. I can't remember exact positioning and such, but in the course of the evening, I was in several different positions with DH going in from both front and rear.

I'm learning the first two things highlighted; that trying too hard impedes the enjoyment of the sensations on the journey. Those soft moments, the soft core, when he's got his nose nuzzled in just the right spot on your neck can send shivers, right?

I'm not crystal clear whether you were doing hands/oral or PIV after the....dildo (*bites fist*). But *putting on the brakes* what about that "little hazy for a while" highlight? Did you orgasm from direct or indirect clitorial stimulation? Depending on whether you did, and how intense, and how many times...could be a factor to consider, possibly stealing the over-the-top one from you.

It was all really good stuff, I was able to direct him to push harder at some points, and felt the sensation of needing to pee, which I communicated to him. Now I found that I would feel this sensation for maybe a minute or so (not sure really, who can judge time in that state?) and then it would be like my g would retract away somewhere. Then a couple minutes later it would be back! I initially tried to 'push' with the peeing sensation, it felt like something travelling down my urethra and then stopping right at the opening. Kinda like when you've got a UTI, you're bursting to go, but when you get there and pee, you get nothing or maybe just a drop or two. This was maybe 3 or 4 times accompanied by a sensation where I felt like my vagina was filling from the inner end with very warm baby oil from a pool deep in my belly.

Did your vagina fill with fluid? If so, disregard next statement. If not, and, please I have no references to list, but I read that women sometimes ejaculate backwards into their bladder. I have no idea if this was what happened with you, but if you're a googler you'll probably run across something to read and compare...and, uh, let us know

After a while (hours/days who knows? LOL) I felt like I was getting waaay too tense, so instead of pushing with the needing to pee feeling I tried to relax everything down there. All the great feelings continued, but still no earth-shattering multiple orgasms so far! Poor DH having issues with crampy deformed fingers/hand by this stage, so we moved on. Ended up cumming BIG in missionary with feet pointing at opposite corners of the ceiling (hehe) while squeezing and pulling my nipples. *sigh* Good times eh. (Great Job dearest J!!)

If only I could have been there gosh, I don't know for sure. Maybe you (and DH) are trying too hard like you said, and maybe also prematurely expecting to achive waves of multiple orgasms beginning within the first moments or minutes, like you read here. Please understand, as we (me and DW) started this journey, as I intently read her response and kept zeroing-in, her sexual responses started awakening. I am so totally amazed at how little effort it takes to bring her to orgasm now. When we first got together, the only way she could orgasm was riding cowgirl. Now she tells her friends (half jokingly) that I can make her cum just by looking at her.

I think you're doing the right thing by moving on after trying the new stuff for a while so you still achieve a satisfying session with DH. I posted a little while ago about clitorial stimulation. I prefer to avoid that little man completely most of the session, to be sure the g-gasm waves wash over (lather, rinse, repeat again and again), which tend to build in intensity and I can control somewhat by the amount of pressure and vigor of g-spot message.

But the over-the-top comes when she's having a g-gasm wave that's going really strong, and then I determinedly start working on her clit, using the polishing technique, or sometimes she's so on-fire I can suck pretty hard on her clit and hood (a light palm-press on my forehead means lighten up a little), then she feels the earth-quakes and the neighbors turn their lights on, and the kids run for the basement (ewwww Mom's cumming again!). Sounds like you guys just need more practice

-JB

 

[likearabbit]

AAAhhhhh... thats what I was doing wrong. I have tried this but was trying to be gentle. So its best to be a bit rough with it? That position sounds like it would work better too. Nice post!

 

[kiwichyck]

bump.......

Just to stop this falling off the first page......

 

[kiwichyck]

Eureka!

I'm a happy girl!

We're still not enjoying success to the letter of the OP, but damn...I'm not complaining! Just thought I'd share some thoughts and impressions.

I know where my G Spot is, but I've started to think of it more like my G-region, rather than a 'spot'. Mainly because it seems to move around. It gets more prominent the more aroused I become, to the point where it seems to be struggling to peek out of my vagina. It is not tucked away inaccessibly behind my pubic bone as seems to be the case with some women. The best news (for me) with this, is that DH can stimulate me with his tongue...... OMG...BLISS.

The next best thing seems to be my own fingers. Not too much success using dildo or vibrating egg, but the toys certainly don't detract from the experience.

And the best news of all! I'm able to squirt! Who knew eh?!

Ok so, this is still NOT a 5 minute exercise. Theres no "stick in your thumb and give her a quick orgasm or 5". We're talking serious time investment here. Like at least a couple of hours. I've always been a 'one orgasm a night' kinda girl, so I'm not complaining about being at the heights of sexual pleasure for several hours. Last night I was bouncing off the walls for probably a good hour, right at the edge of orgasm before I squirted (can't really explain, still trying to process the sensations). I was using my fingers on myself and had to immediately stop because of sensitivity. We then went on to PIV and within a couple of minutes I was cumming, kinda rolling, increasing in intensity over a few minutes. I would say that I came 3-4 times, the last being the strongest, can't really say for sure. It was hard to tell where one ended and the next began.

I have also noticed my libido increasing. I've never really been one to say no, but I swear that I've been getting more and more horny the more we try this. I'm feeling a bit sore down below (as you do after frequent vigorous sex) but I couldn't give a toss. I just feel like I'm killing time until the next fuck. God help my poor husband! This is after a 3 hour marathon last night, another hour or so this morning, and a quickie at lunchtime. I can barely wait for him to get home again!

Well, thats it for now.

 

[jethrobodeen]

I'm a happy girl!

Whohooo! ...He's gonna need all his strength

-JB

 

[Vixandra]

G-spots are wonderful things.

Last night found the joy of having hubby stick his finger inside during PIV to stimulate my G-spot.
I'm still aquiver over it,

 

[jethrobodeen]

Ok so, this is still NOT a 5 minute exercise. Theres no "stick in your thumb and give her a quick orgasm or 5". We're talking serious time investment here. Like at least a couple of hours.

Forgot to mention, this was how it was for DW at first, but things might change for you....now that the awakening has occurred. Never know, sounds like you'll be getting plenty of practice...you too could be enjoying a dozen g-gasms during that quickie, keep your mind open to possibilities.

-JB

 

[TBKahuna123]

Ok so, this is still NOT a 5 minute exercise. Theres no "stick in your thumb and give her a quick orgasm or 5". We're talking serious time investment here. Like at least a couple of hours.

Sounds normal to me. I think g-spot play, GOOD g-spot play is best if you take your time. My wife calls it torture for about 15-20 minutes. After that she's usually too out of breath to say shit!

I have also noticed my libido increasing. I've never really been one to say no, but I swear that I've been getting more and more horny the more we try this. I'm feeling a bit sore down below (as you do after frequent vigorous sex) but I couldn't give a toss. I just feel like I'm killing time until the next fuck. God help my poor husband! This is after a 3 hour marathon last night, another hour or so this morning, and a quickie at lunchtime. I can barely wait for him to get home again!

Oh sure, rub it in! You know on one hand I have to say it's mean to flaunt that in front of us less fortunate souls so brazenly. On the other hand, what can I really say, but you go girl!

 

[kiwichyck]

Sounds normal to me. I think g-spot play, GOOD g-spot play is best if you take your time. My wife calls it torture for about 15-20 minutes. After that she's usually too out of breath to say shit!

I can see what she's saying

Oh sure, rub it in! You know on one hand I have to say it's mean to flaunt that in front of us less fortunate souls so brazenly. On the other hand, what can I really say, but you go girl!

hehe......yeah.

Now seriously. I spent 2 1/2 days reading through this WHOLE thread. The thing that really irritated me was that there are a lot of people coming along saying "wooohooo......this is great stuff!" Then there's the occasional person that says "welll, there's something not right with this, it's not happening for us." The vast majority of people who have to work at the technique never come back and talk about it on the thread. Mr G mentions several times that he has received PM's about later success, but that doesn't really help me!

Now I'm a chronic researcher and I found this incredibly frustrating. It actually makes me a little uncomfortable to write about our intimate life in detail, but I would really like to help others with this. If one couple reads my story and it encourages them to keep trying, then my work is done.

Up until very recently I believed that it was a rare and lucky woman that experienced multiple orgasm and/or ejaculation, and although I know not every woman will achieve this, I find it incredible that I can do it! I guess it just gives me a real boost to know that I'm capable of more than 20 seconds of orgasm per day. It's pretty mind-blowing when I have happily enjoyed a good orgasmic sex life for years to find out that what I've experienced previously is only the tip of the iceberg. It's funny. I didn't realise before how tame our sex life was and how inhibited I was.

At the very least, I think this technique is guaranteed to improve your sex life. It may not happen like Mr G describes, but give it a whirl anyway.

 

[TBKahuna123]

I can see what she's saying




hehe......yeah.

Now seriously. I spent 2 1/2 days reading through this WHOLE thread. The thing that really irritated me was that there are a lot of people coming along saying "wooohooo......this is great stuff!" Then there's the occasional person that says "welll, there's something not right with this, it's not happening for us." The vast majority of people who have to work at the technique never come back and talk about it on the thread. Mr G mentions several times that he has received PM's about later success, but that doesn't really help me!

Now I'm a chronic researcher and I found this incredibly frustrating. It actually makes me a little uncomfortable to write about our intimate life in detail, but I would really like to help others with this. If one couple reads my story and it encourages them to keep trying, then my work is done.

Up until very recently I believed that it was a rare and lucky woman that experienced multiple orgasm and/or ejaculation, and although I know not every woman will achieve this, I find it incredible that I can do it! I guess it just gives me a real boost to know that I'm capable of more than 20 seconds of orgasm per day. It's pretty mind-blowing when I have happily enjoyed a good orgasmic sex life for years to find out that what I've experienced previously is only the tip of the iceberg. It's funny. I didn't realise before how tame our sex life was and how inhibited I was.

At the very least, I think this technique is guaranteed to improve your sex life. It may not happen like Mr G describes, but give it a whirl anyway.

I'm sounding like a broken record, but I love a happy ending.

Let me rephrase that, I love and orgasmic ending. And the middle, and 3/4 of the way through, and...

 

[cloakedlover]

If one couple reads my story and it encourages them to keep trying, then my work is done.

Consider yourself retired! LOL

I really appreciate your willingness to share. DH and I tried this (refer to previous posts) but not tremendously successful, from reading this thread. I kept sensing that I was really missing the boat. So, we are back to the drawing board. I'll also be posting the experience hopefully to benefit others.

 

[kiwichyck]

Consider yourself retired! LOL.

Yay! for me! *does little dance*

I really appreciate your willingness to share. DH and I tried this (refer to previous posts) but not tremendously successful, from reading this thread. I kept sensing that I was really missing the boat. So, we are back to the drawing board. I'll also be posting the experience hopefully to benefit others.

Thats great, really. I know what you mean about the 'missing the boat' thing. I know it was never Mr G's intention, but the original tone of the thread made it come off like a guaranteed wonder. When we didn't get the bells and whistles as stated it just turned into a thing where we were constantly thinking we were doing something wrong. Like "it sounds so simple......how could I NOT get it?"

Its not until you get into the 20's pages that the unsatisfied customers come out. You have to be pretty determined to read that far! Thats a lot of reading when you're starting to feel like some kind of weirdo (LOL).

 

[MR.GGG]

Comments

""I have also noticed my libido increasing. I've never really been one to say no, but I swear that I've been getting more and more horny the more we try this.""

This appears to be normal for almost everybody who does any of the prescribed "research" . There was some research (real research) done on this and I posted it somewhere back "there" but in short it sez that nipples and Gspots are THE best way to stimulate the production of OXYTOCIN in the brain. Oxytocin is the feel good / love and horny hormone. It makes sense that if you're stimulating the production of that you are increasingly horny which makes you want your G stimulated more which stimulates more production of oxytocin. It is a truly vicious cycle and I apologize not a wit for those good couples who have tried this, like it and are HOOKED.

""I believed that it was a rare and lucky woman that experienced multiple orgasm and/or ejaculation, and although I know not every woman will achieve this, I find it incredible that I can do it! I guess it just gives me a real boost...""

There's also been a mess of posts that talk about not only increased libido but increased self confidence. That's neat too. A couple of the women I've done this with were also self-described one cum a night women. The GSpot technique took them from one a night to a LOT more than 2 a night ... probably averaged 12 to 16 on a normal or average night. I really enjoyed the increased self confidence they had and in particular an increased sense of female sexuality. Most of the time they had this inner smile and glow that made even strangers think they were hiding some wonderful secret and of course they were!! Of course we had the advantage of an almost instant start for the G-gasms. I'm hoping (as somebody else above wished) that Kiwichyck and others like her who need LOTS of stimulation find this technique easier and easier to achieve. I mean there is nothing wrong with taking a long time to reach that level of sexual excitement but like any athlete it may be that the increased "practice" will result in a faster finish. You can always take your time later for the all day/all night marathons but as your body becomes more tuned to this technique I'm sure your body's excitement levels will rise and peak (and peak again and again and again and again ....) much faster that you're used to.

I'm sorry if I left the impression that cuming in seconds was what everybody did. I keep saying in here that everybody IS different and some will be able to cum instantly, some will take longer, some will never get to this level (I wish I knew why and had a fix), some will like the repeated massive G-gasms and some will freak, feel out of control and dislike that feeling. Everyone has different reactions so whatever your reaction, it is right for you. I've just been lucky that the ladies I've done this with have reacted almost instantly and were completely hooked from then on.

... and for what it's worth, the oldest couple who wrote me to tell me how well it worked was M83F78 and she said she felt like she was a teenager again. The fact that so many people have contributed to this thread is what's so special about it. The technique if / when it works for you is awesome but then to share techniques, trouble-shooting, ideas and possible remedies when some couples are having troubles is what makes this one of the most informative and helpful sites on the ENTIRE NET!! So once again I'll thank all who not only contribute their personal stories but take the time to try and help others achieve real suckcess in this technique.

 

[SweetErika]

I'm sorry if I left the impression that cuming in seconds was what everybody did. I keep saying in here that everybody IS different and some will be able to cum instantly, some will take longer, some will never get to this level (I wish I knew why and had a fix), some will like the repeated massive G-gasms and some will freak, feel out of control and dislike that feeling. Everyone has different reactions so whatever your reaction, it is right for you. I've just been lucky that the ladies I've done this with have reacted almost instantly and were completely hooked from then on.

This is great, Mr. GGG! I'm not sure if it's possible with the 'guest' and username change without the help of a Mod, but I think it'd be really helpful to add this message at the beginning of the thread.

Apart from my g-spot being much farther in than most, and persistent stimulation getting to be way too much, I had problems due to overinflated expectations and excessive pressure on myself. Clearly those are my issues, but reading the above along with things like 'the g-spot may be more like a middle finger length in and/or behind the pubic bone' and 'some take a long time to get it or find what works for them' likely would have helped me a lot. Even though we've found things that work for us, reading it now is very reassuring.

Even so, I've linked to this thread about 10 times in the past two days. It's just that good. I appreciate all of the time and effort you've put into disseminating info and helping all of us.

 

[Mr.G]

Time Travel Sucks

""This is great, Mr. GGG! I'm not sure if it's possible with the 'guest' and username change without the help of a Mod, but I think it'd be really helpful to add this message at the beginning of the thread.""

DONE !!

THROUGH THE MIRACLE OF TECHNOLOGY AND FACING GREAT PERSONAL DANGER I HAVE JUST RETURNED FROM 2002 WHERE I ADDED A DISCLAIMER TO THE START OF THIS THREAD - ACTUALLY THE 2ND POST. I COULDN'T ENTER THE 1ST POST. NOT ENOUGH ENERGY I GUESS. ANYWAY I AM BACK IN 2006 AND THOSE NEWBIES WHO ARE READING THE POSTS FOR THE VERY FIRST TIME WILL BE ABLE TO SEE THAT FOR MANY THIS TECHNIQUE, SADLY, ELUDES THEM.

I MUST REST NOW. GEEZ, THE THINGS I DO FOR YOU GUYS ....

 

[TBKahuna123]

I MUST REST NOW. GEEZ, THE THINGS I DO FOR YOU GUYS ....

LOL! You go, G!

 

[TBKahuna123]

Clearly those are my issues, but reading the above along with things like 'the g-spot may be more like a middle finger length in and/or behind the pubic bone' and 'some take a long time to get it or find what works for them' likely would have helped me a lot.

OK, I'm now even more convinced that SweetErika and my wife are twins seperated at birth...and about 7 or 8 years. Tooooo freaky!

 

[Rick Forbes]

We tried this a couple of weeks ago and, after about five minutes, she turned her head, looked back and me, and deadpanned, "So which board did you get *this* off of?"

So not a big hit here. But soldier on. . .

 

[mugman]

Different strokes

I definitely agree that location differs in my experience. Has it been proven that all women have the 'G' spot? My S.O. LOVES when I hit the spot. Different reactions with different movements/pressures. GAWD, it's fun to play!!!!!!!!! Thanks for all the helpful info, Mr. G.

 

[kiwichyck]

FOR SOME REASON I CAN'T EDIT THE FIRST POST OF THIS THREAD SO IT HAS TO BE IN THIS POST THAT I BRING A MESSAGE FROM THE DISTANT FUTURE - OK ... MAYBE NOT TOO DISTANT. 2006.

IN THE 78 PAGES OR SO OF RESPONSES, IDEAS, SUGGESTIONS, QUESTIONS AND ADVICE THAT FOLLOW THIS POST THERE ARE LOTS OF COUPLE WHO HAVE NOT HAD GREAT SUCCESS WITH THIS TECHNIQUE AND SO I HAVE TRAVELLED BACK IN TIME HERE TO BRING A MESSAGE TO YOU NEWBIES WHO ARE READING THIS FOR THE FIRST TIME. THE MESSAGE IS A SIMPLE ONE.

WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT. OUR RESPONSES ARE DIFFERENT BETWEEN PEOPLE AND EVEN ON DIFFERENT DAYS, UNDER DIFFERENT DEGREES OF STRESS OR EXHAUSTION. I HAVE BEEN LUCKY BECAUSE THE LADIES I HAVE DONE THIS WITH HAVE ALL REACTED IMMEDIATELY AND WERE COMPLETELY HOOKED FROM THEN ON. FOR REASONS I HAVE NO CLUE ABOUT THERE ARE WOMEN WHO SIMPLY DO NOT RESPOND OR ENJOY THIS TECHNIQUE. THERE ARE WOMEN WHO HAVE FOUND THAT THIS TECHNIQUE WORKS BUT NOT IN THE 2 MINUTES I SUGGEST - IT TAKES AN HOUR OR MORE. THERE ARE WOMEN WHO WOULD RATHER GET POKED IN THE EYE THAN GIVE UP CONTROL OF THEIR ORGASMS OR ARE STYMIED BY GUILT AND RESIST THE RELEASE OF THIS DEGREE OF SEXUAL ABANDON. THERE ARE WOMEN WHO HAVE HAD OPERATIONS AND NORMAL NERVE FUNCTION IN THE AREA IS REDUCED OR DAMAGED. THERE ARE WOMEN WHO HAVE VIRTUALLY NO MUSCLE TONE IN THEIR VAGINAS AND GENERALLY ANY ORGASM IS HIGHLY DEPENDANT ON MUSCLE CONTRACTION TO PRODUCE THE WAVES OF AN ORGASM. THERE ARE SOME WHO SEEM TO FEEL NOTHING WHEN THIS HAPPENS TO THEM. I DON'T KNOW WHY EXCEPT TO SAY, AGAIN, THAT WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT.

STRANGELY AS WOMEN AGE THE RATE OF SUCCESS SEEMS TO INCREASE SO IF YOU'RE YOUNG AND THIS DOESN'T WORK - KEEP TRYING. DON'T MAKE IT A CENTRAL THEME AND DO NOTHING ELSE EVER AND CONSIDER ALL PARTICIPANTS FAILURES IF IT DOESN'T HAPPEN BUT DON'T GIVE UP EITHER. KEEP TRYING.

THERE ARE WOMEN WHO WHEN TURNED ON AND THE TECHNIQUE IS USED ON THEM THE VERY FIRST TIME REACT BY HAVING SCREAMING, THRASHING, HEART POUNDING ORGASMS - OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN UNTIL THEY CAN'T TAKE ANY MORE. MANY COUPLES HAVE FOUND THIS OUT. MANY COUPLES FEEL FRUSTRATED THAT THEY DON'T BUT THEY DON'T AND IF IT'S HAPPENED TO YOU, YOU'RE NOT ALONE. OK?

IN SHORT IF IT WORKS, GREAT !! BUT FAR IN THE FUTURE I HAVE BEEN ROASTED FOR MORE OR LESS SUGGESTING IN THESE FIRST FEW POSTS THAT THIS HAPPENS TO EVERYBODY ALL THE TIME AND INSTANTLY (OR ALMOST) AND ENOUGH OF YOU HAVE NOT HAD THIS HAPPEN THAT THROUGH THE MIRACLE OF TECHNOLOGY AND AT GREAT PERIL TO MYSELF, I HAVE TRAVELLED ALL THE WAY BACK HERE TO MARCH OF 2002 JUST TO TELL YA'LL THAT IF IT DOESN'T HAPPEN THE WAY I DESCRIBE ABOVE YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONES ON THE PLANET THAT THIS HAPPENED TO. DON'T GO JUMP OFF ANY BALCONIES. KEEP TRYING. JOIN THE DISCUSSION AND WITH A LITTLE LUCK AND PERSISTANCE YOU CAN PROBABLY MAKE IT HAPPEN. THE FUN IS IN THE "RESEARCH" ANYWAY.

OK ... I'M FADING .... BACK TO THE FUTURE. SEE YOU IN 2006

OH BTW ANYBODY OWN ENRON STOCK?? NORTEL??

SELL !! NOW !!

Thats pretty freaking funny!

 

[kiwichyck]

More descriptive info please

Hi all

We've noticed some interesting things lately with this. I was pretty sure that we'd found the right spot close to the opening of my vagina. DH wasn't entirely convinced because he was unable to feel any swelling or hardening under his fingers and felt like he was still essentially stabbing around in the dark. On my own, I could find 'the spot' easily myself and stimulate it. Lotsa great feelings and a small peaking sensation, but nothing like the 'you need to hold her down' thing.
I squirted a little maybe 3-4 times, but nothing to the scale of 'flooding' that is often described by others.
I put on a show of my new discovery for DH while sitting on his chest which was enjoyed by all . However, DH (after coming up close and personal with the results) stated that he was pretty sure it was pee.
We've discussed the possibility of my squirt being quite acrid, possibly I wasn't very hydrated etc. Maybe I'm still trying too hard etc etc. Not sure really.

Anyway, in the course of most recent explorations DH discovered another spot further in. Now that nice little ridge that runs from the vaginal opening inwards for me seems to have two sensitive spots. The one right at the opening and another at the inner end of the ridge. The inner spot DH can feel a swelling when he pokes at it, and I experience similar sensations but more intense. Initially I would describe it like that feeling you get when you put your tongue on a battery, which then morphs into a different feeling. It's very hard to describe, but I guess I would echo one comment I read about being touched at your 'core'. It's a very primal feeling, like the difference between oooooh and oooohhhhhurrrggghhhh (if that makes any sense LOL). This is at the far limit of his reaching power, so we have yet to persist for any length of time.

Any thoughts?

 

[MR.GGG]

MIXED RESULTS - always fun

After a recent and exhausting trip to the distant past I stated, " THE FUN IS IN THE "RESEARCH" ANYWAY."

If the results are fun and enjoyable for both of you then carry on. If you're lucky and the results are spectacular then the fun is in the variations you can discover together. If the results are ho-hum but there is "something there" then it merits further investigation and persistence because when this puppy gets going it really does ROCK her world!

In my experience I've encountered two "spots" and a ridge. The ridge is quite fascinating because it can be felt all the time, reacts with typical vaso-congestive swelling and then can be rubbed up and down, batted back and forth and bopped on the top - all leading to quite different sensations. The "just" GSpots were neat too because of the way they hid until found and poked the right way and then as their body's became used to that feeling how FAST their GSpots would activate, swell and be capable of sending them into orbit!! 3 different women. 3 different sensations from my perspective. 3 different anatomical sensations on their's! However the results varied widely depending on time of day, time of month, position, degree of excitement. ALL these things and many others led to vastly different results virtually EACH time. I guess I was lucky though because although some of the sensations were different and the results did vary to some extent, in the end the ORGASMS were what made the technique so spectacular for me. To be able to give a lover that much pleasure - even to the point of turning it into a bit of S&M play was better than I ever thought it could get. The positive effects that it had on the ladies just reinforced that feeling. That's why I came on here and posted the first entry to see how many others had discovered and explored this and to let the ones who hadn't, an opportunity - a guideline - to explore and hopefully find that it works for them too.

We've discussed the fact that EVERYBODY is DIFFERENT so it is really amazing how many people have posted and described themselves completely differently anatomically and internally than some others. No wonder the actual Sex Researchers are confused, frustrated and issue definitive statements about the NONexistence of any G-thingie. "A FABLE", they say. Pooor researchers. If you're used to feeling a spot and then you feel what feels like a deep blister and then you get a ridge that stretches almost the entire length of the front wall of the vagina and you're only a DOCTOR and have spent a life time as an EXPERT in sexual anatomy ...well things are going to be pretty confusing and best to just kybosh the whole idea. Right?


WRONG!!

I think this thread from the start to the finish (including incredibly difficult, dangerous and expensive time travel) has shown that while many have had trouble reaching the quick and highly suckcessful results that I have seen, there ARE lots of couples who HAVE. There are also lots of couples who don't get the results immediately but persevere and after many attempts or just playing around, all of a sudden, find that it DOES WORK and then they're off to the races!! Whatever the immediate results the research, the love, trust and intimate exploration is, I believe, universally POSITIVE for any relationship.